Recently, I saw some people say that silent women are very inferior, and even lack of heart and eyes, only lively and clear people are loved, in fact, this statement is not wrong.
Because many women don't like to talk because of their introverted personality, they can't tell when to say something, so they choose not to talk.
There used to be a colleague who was such a character, when she met people who never took the initiative to communicate and talk to her, she was also polite to reply, and later learned that it was because her parents divorced since she was a child, and her mother only liked her brother, resulting in her always being inferior.
Indeed, their kind of taciturnism is not respected, because people who are too introverted are difficult to communicate with others and will be very troublesome in their career life.
But not all reticent women are like this, who, while taciturn, are full of charm.
A woman who knows how to be silent gives a mysterious attraction and a sense of steady maturity.
It is surprisingly comfortable to communicate with them, because they all know how to judge the situation and listen to each other's needs.
Although they sometimes have few words, they are by no means introverts, and they will confront them with unashamed face-to-face unfair incidents.
People always say, "Silence is golden." "There must be some truth to that.
They talk less because they don't want to say the wrong thing and leave room for themselves to think.
When a person speaks, the word is the instrument of mankind; but when the word is spoken, the word is the master of the human being.
Whatever you say, it can make a big or small difference in your life.
It could be the impression of others on you, or it could be your future work career.
A smart woman will not let the wrong words be spoken, they can control their mouths naturally can also control life.
At any given time, proper silence would be far more meaningful than chattering arguments.
It is an invisible force that will make you calm down and think, and will make you feel life better than others.
When you are young, arguing is an act of arrogance, and if you win an argument, you will feel incredibly happy.
But when people reach middle age, they will talk a lot less, because in the old days, they will certainly regret some words.
Because they already have a lesson from the past, they all like to think twice before answering.
There is a saying on the Internet that says: "The mouth flies in front, and the brain chases in the back." ”
When words blurt out, many times it is too late.
Everyone has their own little secrets in their hearts, and if you are very talkative, it is easy to offend people.
In the eyes of many people, chattering is just a proof of friendship, but in the eyes of others, the more you listen to it, the more you think that you are not a good person.
In social life, people should keep one more heart and eye, eat seven points full, and say three points full.
When a person talks too much, bad things come.
People's hearts are complex, and if you expose your heart when you encounter someone who is unladylike, there is no room for redemption.
The most terrible thing is those who like to spit on others, once the matter is revealed, then his reputation will be over.
In most people's minds, the taciturn person is not confident.
But in fact, many taciturn people are not only confident but also optimistic, they know how to say more will be lost, and they know how to get along with people.
Many words, the speaker has no intention of listening, may be because of the relationship between one sentence, directly lead to the collapse of the relationship between the two people.
Don't underestimate the power of language, it can be more lethal than some actual behavior.
While it's easy not to talk much and not to have a sense of presence, some people who don't talk will attract attention just by sitting there.
That was the result of their long-term accumulation of practice, a kind of precipitation after enlightenment.
They may not be good storytellers, but they are definitely good listeners.
And often the pressure of reality is so great that what everyone needs is a listener who can give appropriate opinions.
They have the ability to discern right from wrong and are able to give others the right direction.
They are by no means small and transparent, but they are absolutely at the helm of life.
Their listening is respectful, so others will give her the same respect.
Women with high emotional intelligence do not talk nonsense, they are like a lemon in the life of water, not only does not violate the harmony but adds a sense of freshness to the original plain life.
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