If I were asked what kind of woman is most attractive to the opposite sex, I would answer without hesitation: "Nature is a beautiful, elegant, and attractive woman." ”
Do you remember the scene when you were pursued, when you were arrogant, noble, and cold.
In love, many people put down the shelf and change their temperament, after all, feelings are two-way traffic of two people.
But a smart woman knows how to be relaxed. Giving up all chips is a brainless and ignorant approach.
In love, these 3 behaviors of women are the most "bargaining", I hope you avoid them all.
Obedient and temperamental
Friend Xiaohui (pseudonym) is a gentle and lovely girl, she is not only sweet-looking, but also gentle personality.
In the process of getting along, she is obedient to her boyfriend. When she encountered disagreements, she took the initiative to compromise; when there was an argument, she took the initiative to admit her mistakes.
In two years of love, she did not yell at her boyfriend once, and the decision on everything was left to the other party.
In everyone's eyes, her love should be the most beautiful, but in the end she was abandoned.
Xiao Hui regretted: "The more polite I am, the more he loses his temper with me, completely treating me as an emotional trash can." ”
Now she finally understood that a woman who has lost her temper will encourage the arrogance of her lover and amplify masculine self-righteousness.
In the end, he will not only live in humility, but also be in a state of "being slaughtered".
Thoroughly attached and frequently requested
Finding a shoulder to lean on is the original intention of all women to pursue love.
Being dependent on the beloved girl is also the greatest affirmation of men.
But men are also contradictory, they resent strong women, and they scorn girls who have no income.
If you completely attach yourself to your career and give up, his reverence for you will be gone.
And the practice of frequently asking for money and frequently asking for living expenses must also breed a sense of superiority.
Take the man's hand short, rely on him for a long time, and the sense of humility and cheapness will follow.
In his view, you are just a low-grade girl who has no ability and is greedy for pleasure.
There is no bottom line, everything is inclusive
Friend Xiaoling (pseudonym) is a girl who cares for her family and has been keeping to herself since she got married.
By chance, she found that her lover and the opposite sex had intimate chat content.
After the questioning, the other party apologized one after another, and she directly chose to forgive due to her soft heart.
But in the past two months, she has discovered the fact that her lover has betrayed her.
Her experience tells us that women who have no bottom line and are tolerant of everything are mostly unhappy.
Tolerance can be there, but the principle can not be lost, frequent forgiveness and compromise, will make you appear to be a good bully.
Women who are not valued and self-degraded, it is difficult to grasp the happiness in their hands in the end.
Therefore, only by avoiding the above behaviors and being a self-reliant, self-loving, and self-disciplined woman can we continue to "add value" and win the care and respect of the other half.