When I divorced, Fang Yinuo blew up: I pulled on my body! Yes, I on the body, in order to have a baby, I on the body. Let you serve me that time, your disgusted expression, I remember you for a lifetime.
01
I strongly feel that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu are loveless, otherwise ordinary people would not be able to do this.
Fang Yinuo was pregnant, first of all, not to mention the huge changes he had endured physically, including his deformed body, long-spotted cheeks, itchy belly, swollen feet, and more importantly, psychologically unattainable care.
Xiao Lu brought dinner back to his wife, it was past dinner time early, and he brought back a bowl of noodles without any taste, and after his wife was spicy because of the chili sauce, he did not pay attention to it, he also ate the remaining noodles, and his wife was still hungry!
After arriving at the hospital, Xiao Lu went home to get the things to be delivered, and he could actually drink beer to watch the ball game, and then go to the hospital after watching the addiction; after Fang Yinuo gave birth, she actually did not have a relative around her, and it was difficult to wait, but he came to get the child's placenta and immediately gave it to the mother who rushed over. In the end, it was the wife's parents who took their daughter back to the ward.
When he was discharged from the hospital and returned home, during his wife's confinement, Xiao Lu did not pay attention to it, and at night the child cried when he did not hear it, and only slept by himself. Confinement is the most vulnerable and most needful time in a woman's life, lying in bed for a long time, breastfeeding, urging milk, coaxing children... These all make women exhausted, and if they do not sit well, they will fall into the root of the disease, which will affect a woman's life.
Having children, confinement, confinement, mother-in-law, no sex, the feelings of the two people were finally exhausted and ended in divorce.
02
"The feud of the confinement does not wear the sky together", there is such a sentence in the women's circle, although it is a bit exaggerated, but in fact, it also shows whether confinement is good or not, which is very important in the hearts of women.
I have a neighbor who wears a cotton jacket when the summer is hottest. I was young at the time, and I was weird and asked my mom what was wrong. My mother said that this neighbor could not wear short sleeves in the summer because of the lack of confinement and the cold caused by the wind. Suddenly, I sympathized with this neighbor, not only did she become unable to live normally, but she also had to bear the eyes of others, and the effort was really too great.
Many years passed, everyone left their hometown, and I learned that the neighbor's husband divorced her and found a woman again.
Even if you sacrifice more, after a long time, forgetting is forgetting, and the feelings are faded.
03
Some people say that if you want to see if you have the right person, you can have a child. Of course, if you wait until you have a child to see if you marry the right person, this is not responsible for the child, but you can really see a lot of problems during the birth of the child.
Every mother is happy, but also helpless, because, without experience, they are afraid that their little children will be hurt, and they are afraid that their love is not enough.
As a result, worry, anxiety, helplessness, and resentment will fill the atrium of a woman's heart, and if the husband does not ask at this time, or is perfunctory, or even cheats, then the wife's body and mind will be severely damaged, and even depression will occur.
So women must first love themselves, meet men who don't love themselves, and leave as soon as possible.