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A while ago, "Dear Child" was criticized by the state media for "excessive trafficking in anxiety."
The reason why they are covered with such a hat is mainly because the current screenwriters seem to have mastered the traffic password. They know that only by making the audience scold and watch will there be discussion and ratings.
So, all the tragedies and contradictions are combined into a TV series, and they all fall on the head of a family. For example, the setting of the drama "Dear Child" is suffocating to think about.
Although many people say that this is not dog blood, it is just too real, and all misfortunes are superimposed on one tragedy after another.
But I still think that it is really not easy for contemporary people, watching a TV set is also angry and depressed to the point of fear of marriage and childbearing.
However, compared to "Heart Residence", this drama still has certain merits. At least the screenwriters are expressing that certain episodes can provoke people to think. For example, the role of Fang Yinuo.
Once she was sensible, generous and understanding. But with the birth of the child, it was almost like a change of person, and she became anxious and nervous.
She took care of the children carefully, and every day except for work, she almost circled around the children who cried all day. But sadly, life is still a chicken feather.
Not only is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law tense, but it is on the verge of collapse at any time. Her husband and wife relationship with Xiao Lu also gradually drifted apart, and eventually went to break up.
Some people say that after giving birth, due to the influence of endocrine hormone disorders, women's emotions will be very unstable. If Xiao Lu could have a little responsibility and responsibility, Fang Yinuo would not have become so unpleasant.
Seriously, I initially agreed with this statement. After all, a large number of facts show that the most turbulent year in marriage is not the seven-year itch, but the first year after the birth of the child.
However, with the advancement of the series, especially Fang Yinuo's rapid remarriage after divorce, the result is that life is still chicken and dog, and the anxiety is suppressed.
I found that women like Fang Yinuo often pay a lot for the family and children. But unfortunately, no matter who you marry, you will not be happy.
This is mainly because they have 2 fatal weaknesses.
Too sensible, always tolerant of paying, unwilling to trouble others
Fang Yinuo, in fact, lived quite screwed. She is not at ease with others, but she is always expectant. She will not spoil, she will not keep, always want to carry all the suffering alone.
When she gave birth in the hospital, she hoped that her husband would accompany the delivery. However, because she was too considerate of her husband's difficulty, she let her husband go home to work.
At the time of confinement, there was a mother-in-law, a husband, and a nanny. Supposedly, someone helped to take the baby and coax her to sleep, except when the child was hungry, the nanny came to feed and had a lot of time to rest.
But she did everything herself and did not want to trouble others. He suffered a lot, suffered a lot of sins, and tired himself physically and mentally.
And in life, there are also women who suffer similar losses. They can obviously take the initiative to create a better living environment for themselves, but they are stunned to exhaust themselves to the extreme.
They always endure and pay, hold all their grievances in their hearts, and immerse themselves in pain and fatigue alone. But what screws up is that their hearts are waiting for others to take the initiative to love and care for her.
But in this world, in addition to parents, passive waiting is often exchanged for only ruthless neglect and coldness.
Can't think straight, always compete with others, create anxiety for yourself
Fang Yinuo was really the kind of person who couldn't open his mind. Always create anxiety for yourself and amplify small things infinitely. And this negative energy of hers also made the whole family nervous. Everyone is so worried that they live so depressed that they want to suffocate.
For example, vaccinating a child, it is reasonable to say that three adults and a child should be more than enough. But under her influence, everyone was as anxious and exhausted as if they had fought a big battle.
In addition, she always competes with others to maintain her ridiculous self-esteem. After the divorce, all in-laws are not allowed to come to see the children. The child is sick and would rather sell the house than accept help from her ex-husband.
How stupid a woman is to exhaust herself and work hard to block this kind of dueness of her father.
Finally, I would like to say that you should never feel that your husband and children cannot live without you.
When you are wronged and feel very tired, don't be tired and tired, but seek help.
When others don't take the initiative to hurt you, you will feel sorry for yourself.
Senior Nursery Teacher, Psychological Counselor, Author of Original Parenting Comics Articles,
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