Author: Five layers
In many cases, I feel that parents are the most solid backing for their children. Their selfless efforts, unrequited dedication. Although, I know, you might say that this is unfair to the elderly. But when you really meet that kind of, westernized parents, and then compare them, will you be blocked in your heart.
Just like her friend Xiaolin, before she got married, she always scorned the parents who revolved around the children.
But at the end of last year, she gave birth to a child herself, and only then did she find out how fragrant it was to have several such elders in the family.
At that time, Xiao Lin had just finished maternity leave, and had already hired a nanny, but after the nanny took up her job for two weeks, she suddenly said that there was an emergency at home. Then, without saying hello, I left.
This made Xiao Lin's eyes black, she took a leave of absence and went to look for another circle, hoping that within two days, she would quickly ask another aunt to replace her. After all, for their small family, they can't lose their jobs, otherwise what should they do with car loans and mortgages?
But waiting and waiting at home, the housekeeping company for a while, simply can not find an experienced, full-time with a baby aunt. Tell her that you can only wait, or try your luck, and now your aunt is very sought-after.
In desperation, Xiao Lin called her mother in her hometown, hoping that she could rush over and help take care of it for a while.
But your mother pushed back, your brother and brother have a bunch of things? I'll help you, what about at home?
After her mother ruthlessly refused, Xiao Lin thought of her mother-in-law again, she immediately sent a WeChat message to her mother-in-law, telling her that her nanny was gone, she looked for two days and did not find a new one, can you help, to take care of a few days!
As a result, after the message was sent, after a few hours, the mother-in-law was gone
return
。
What's going on? Xiao Lin thought that her mother-in-law did not look at the mobile phone, so she had to call. Although, it is really embarrassing to open your mouth like this. But don't say, the bitter ones are themselves and their children.
After the phone was connected, Xiao Lin repeated the situation again, and she thought that her mother-in-law would definitely agree with her mouth. After all, this is her own grandson, and the care time will not be too long.
What she did not expect was that the mother-in-law was silent for a moment and then replied that she could not go, and she had applied for dance lessons and piano lessons, and the money she paid could not be wasted like this.
Then I am out, how much you have lost, I am fully reimbursed! Xiao Lin hurriedly assured.
The mother-in-law said that she still couldn't help, and she had already made an appointment with her old sister. You'll take a few more days off and you'll definitely find the right babysitter.
As soon as the voice dropped, probably afraid that her daughter-in-law would entangle her again, she added: The child is yours, and it has nothing to do with me! You have to think of your own way, your mother did not come, why not force me to bring.
In this way, Xiao Lin didn't know how she hung up the phone, she only felt dizzy, her mother didn't bring it, and her mother-in-law didn't help! The most unbearable thing is that the mother-in-law does not come, even if she does not come, she still says such things? What is the meaning?
She usually rarely bothers the elderly, and now she is forced to ask for help, but as far as this ending is concerned, it is not chilling. She really couldn't think of why her mother-in-law said this? Do you hate yourself, or do you really think that when your son gets married, it has nothing to do with him? Since this is the case, then she has nothing to do with her mother-in-law, and it is okay to not see her in the future. The mother-in-law has said so, then I will let it go! It is inevitable to refute her meaning, which makes people feel uncomfortable.
Since then, Xiao Lin has not been to her in-laws' house, and her mother-in-law has paid little attention to them. However, Xiao Lin really felt that her former self was so stupid, any parent should have their own life, if so, how can the children work and live.
Yikes! Oh, yes! Parents are lucky to be able to help everywhere. Looking at Xiao Lin's mother-in-law in this way, it is indeed a bit ruthless. What has nothing to do with you, is it not necessary to see you in this life?
Oh man! You really don't want to help, then there must be a way to politely refuse. There is no need to turn against each other, when you are old, are you sure you don't want to see your relatives?
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