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Ji Yunhe was banned for three days and could not continue to approach Changyi, so he had to find a way to start with Xue March, who was in charge of the matter.
Lolo said to her, "Why did you come to stare at her outside the Snow March House and want to fight?" You can't beat her. ”
Ji Yunhe said, "If you want to take down a person, why do you have to win him, everyone has weaknesses, and Xue March is no exception." ”
Luo Luo felt that there would be no weakness in such a powerful role as Xue March, but Ji Yunhe said: "It is difficult to say, watch people's hearts, don't look at what he does on the surface, but look at what he wants to hide." ”
Sure enough, the two soon discovered that Snow March was in love with his own immortal attendant, and this kind of love between the Imperial Spirit Master and the Earth Immortal was forbidden in the valley, and Ji Yunhe was catching Snow March's weakness and handle.
I have to say that Ji Yunhe is wise, if you want to ally with a person, pull people into the gang or ask people to do things, in fact, you can use her psychology and way.
Fighting hard and hard is often inadequate, or the gains are not worth the losses.
If you can outwit, you must outsmart, which is the meaning of "if you can't fight, you will join".
Of course, this also has to vary from person to person, you can't say that the other party is a no-evil guy, you also join, unless you are going undercover.
From another point of view, Ji Yunhe's performance should also be a kind of vigilance for us. That "everyone has weaknesses" deserves our attention.
Indeed, everyone has weaknesses, which can also be said to be "everyone has weaknesses" or "everyone has some handle or secret".
Sometimes, people are difficult to succeed, or easy to fail, pulled down, "blackened", blackmailed, controlled, may be because there are some secrets that do not want to be known.
Usually, everyone doesn't care too much, just afraid of meeting "people with hearts", just like Ji Yunhe, because he needs the help of Xue March, or what he wants to get from the other party, what to get, so he will deliberately find out, to find out what he wants to hide.
Regarding this, some famous people are more afraid, afraid of competitors or people who have had conflicts with themselves, to dig up their past, and then shake out their ugly things and bad things.
If you add salt and vinegar to render and enlarge, it will be more troublesome. If it is all rumors, you can also make a statement, avoid a rumor and ask a crime, if there is a real thing, then it can only be left to others to take care of.
Besides, ordinary people will also be afraid of this kind of thing, secrets are everyone, if they are spread around by people around them, it will be very faceless, and even unbearable.
Afraid of such a day and situation, we have two choices, the first is to try to be as bright and upright as possible, even in no man's land, still maintain self-discipline and integrity. Do frank things, be a person with a clear conscience.
The difficulty of such a thing is that when you are young, you may not think so much, frivolous, impulsive, ignorant, and thus make many wrong choices, do many wrong things.
However, as long as you understand early that the road is wrong and the behavior is incorrect, you can get back on the right path early. The past already exists, and there are some blemishes and unbrights, but it doesn't matter, because almost everyone will have something to hide.
The second option is: if you don't care, others won't be able to help you.
For example, in The Month of Snow March, if she was not afraid of Ji Yunhe disclosing her love affair with her immortal attendant, daring to accept the punishment in the Valley of Ten Thousand Flowers, and not afraid of losing her current status and position, there would be no shame in this secret.
For those who just talk about your old secrets, it is even more important to care, and it is good for your life to be appropriately thick-skinned.
It's the kind of "yeah, it was really ridiculous back then, it was missed, so what?" I'm trying very hard to live now, who hasn't clicked on the past? ”
With such a mentality, you are not afraid of others to turn over your "old accounts".
The same is true now, if the reason for saying that the old things are disgraceful is because they were stupid at the time, then we must learn a lesson or be a good person later, so as not to cover up everywhere along the way.
Because as long as you try to hide it, it is easy to be pinched and controlled.
Therefore, I am not afraid of the past that I can't look back on, I am afraid that I will be obsessed with it for too long, and the wrong path will continue to the present, so that at any time I may be taken out as a chip to blackmail you.
There is also a category of people, their secrets are actually not terrible, even if they are made public, it is such a big thing, but they have a good face, a thin skin, and a sensitive and fragile heart, so they are easy to be pinched by people with hearts.
If everyone will make mistakes, secrets that everyone may have, it is nothing remarkable, and sometimes you still have to be thick-skinned, feel a little sluggish, and be strong inside.
Live your own life, no matter what others think and say, only in this way can you get rid of the invisible shackles and live out of your own life.
After all, like the "secret about life" in the novel and the plot, we ordinary people do not encounter much. If you have a secret of your life, it can only mean that you have really done something wrong and need to face and accept punishment yourself.
But don't pay too much attention to the secrets of reputation, of indifference, of youth and ignorance, of impulse. Someone said it was going to spread it, so he went.
Do your current things well, and do your current people well, it is enough, it is very good.