One day in May 2017, a special pregnant woman came to the obstetrics and gynecology department of Shengjing Hospital affiliated to China Medical University.
The mother's name is Wang Wei, with a weight of 320 pounds, as soon as she entered the hospital, she attracted the attention of countless people, and when she walked around with a big belly, everyone would pinch a handful of sweat for her.
Her husband, Kim Deok-lung, had been carefully watching the sidelines, his eyes full of concern for his wife.
Because of the weight, Wang Wei's production process will be extremely difficult, the risk will be about 70% higher than that of the average mother, and it is very likely that he will not even be able to walk down the operating table.
Faced with the choice of whether to protect the big or the small, the husband insists on putting the safety of his wife's life first, but the wife insists on protecting her children.
"This child is so precious, we waited for nine years!"
Wang Wei and Jin Delong's love has not been blessed by the people around them and their families, but the two who love each other support each other, experience countless difficulties and obstacles, and are now about to usher in a happy life, but they are told that Wang Wei is likely to face danger to his life.
So the two loving two people quarreled and tortured each other several times because of the choice between adults and children.
What kind of touching love story does this couple have? Will they be able to survive this time together?
Cute fat girl with shy skinny boy
In June 2007, Wang Wei and Jin Delong met for the first time.
At that time, the 25-year-old Jin Delong applied for a job at a large warehouse mall in Shenyang and became a distributor, while Wang Wei sold goods in this mall.
When Wang Wei was 7 years old, her parents divorced, she has been living with her mother, her mother is very strong, but she is extremely fond of her daughter, Wang Wei grew up so healthy and happy.
Because of the neglect of weight, Wang Wei became fatter and fatter, reaching more than 200 pounds in 2007, although some fat, but still healthy, did not think about losing weight.
When picking up the goods once, Wang Wei noticed Jin Delong, who was always cowering in the corner and working silently, and began to talk to the other party non-stop.
Jin Delong (left) and Wang Wei (right)
Jin Delong was a little overwhelmed by this enthusiastic girl, and when Wang Wei was chattering, he became a saw-billed gourd, silently listening without speaking.
This made Wang Wei think that Jin Delong was too "high and cold" and not very close, and when he was about to retreat, Wang Wei accidentally touched Jin Delong's bare arm, and the root of Jin Delong's ear was red at once.
Wang Wei's eyes lit up at once, it turned out that this young man was too shy!
Since then, Wang Wei has always teased Jin Delong, and every time he makes Jin Delong blush and a little ashamed, Wang Wei runs away with a giggle.
The two also exchanged contact details, making phone calls every night when they returned to their dorms from work or going for a walk together.
After a while, Jin Delong still did not express anything, nor did he take the initiative, which made Wang Wei a little unhappy, so he was ready to force him.
When it came time to call in the evening, Wang Wei's tone was very rude: "You don't want to call me in the future." ”
Jin Delong was confused for a moment and carefully asked, "Why?" Am I doing something wrong? ”
Wang Wei was still very unhappy: "Don't call me, the man is unmarried and the woman is unmarried, what is the matter with us?" ”
"Ah, this, this..." Jin Delong didn't expect Wang Wei to say this, so nervous that he couldn't even say a complete sentence.
Wang Wei was even angrier and hung up the phone directly.
After a long time, Jin Delong sent her a text message: "Can I start pursuing you tomorrow?" ”
Wang Wei only then raised an eyebrow and smiled: "Good you idiot, finally opened the trick!" ”
Since then, the two have entered a period of hot love, always inseparable after work, and have become a very envious pair among friends.
As a girl, Wang Wei will also have times when she is not confident, and after seeing her weight increase again, she is very worried and asks Jin Delong if she will dislike her.
Kim Thought For a moment and replied, "I think you look good no matter what, but for the sake of health, I hope you can lose weight." ”
Wang Wei seems to be born with a fat physique, drinking saliva to grow meat, weight loss has always been her heart disease, fortunately, there is a lover's tolerance, not too much trouble.
As their relationship grew stronger, they felt it was time to take the next step: get married!
Unblessed marriage
Wang Wei's mother was very satisfied with this honest young man, but she was worried about whether Jin Delong's family would agree.
Just as Wang Wei's mother worried, when Jin Delong brought Wang Wei home for the first time, although his parents did not say anything on their lips, their expressions were very dissatisfied.
The mother also quietly pulled Jin Delong aside and said: "This girl can't do it, this is also too fat, after getting married and starting a family, won't it become a burden?" ”
Jin Delong is the youngest son of the family, his parents and eldest brother are very fond of him, and he always feels that Jin Delong can find better.
But Jin Delong was stubborn, swore that he would not marry Wang Wei, and did a very bold thing: stole the household registration book and Went with Wang Wei to get a certificate!
On March 24, 2008, Jin Delong and Wang Wei officially registered their marriage, but because of financial constraints, they did not hold a banquet.
After learning of this incident, Jin Delong's family was so angry that he slapped the table, and his mother almost fell ill.
But now that they had all been registered, the family reluctantly accepted Wang Wei.
After marriage, the couple went to Shandong to do business, during which Jin Delong had an accident, resulting in a crushing fracture of the right skull and dying.
Wang Wei, who was guarding the operating room, quickly cried out his tears and waited for the doctor, but the other party asked an irrelevant question: "How old is the girl?" How long have you been married to your husband? ”
Wang Wei, who could not return to God, subconsciously replied: "26 years old, I have been married to my husband for more than half a year." ”
The doctor patted her on the shoulder: "The girl is still young, you must look forward." ”
It turned out that The situation of Jin Delong at that time was very critical, and it was difficult to save it, even if it was saved, it could be a vegetative person.
After hearing this news, Wang Weiru was struck by lightning, and she didn't want to believe that such a kind and gentle husband would actually suffer such a hardship!
Wang Wei took care of her husband busily, and also went from place to place to borrow money to treat her husband's illness, and owed a large amount of foreign debt.
Fortunately, God took care of it, Jin Delong not only picked up a life, but also woke up, except for some facial paralysis on the face, there was no major problem.
Wang Wei took care of Jin Delong for more than three months, and she did such things as bathing and washing feet.
Looking at such a wife, Jin Delong quietly blushed: "Wife, you have suffered." ”
"What kind of bitterness is this?" Wang Wei, who was washing his feet, replied without looking up: "As long as you are still alive and well, we are still together, and nothing is bitter." ”
After experiencing the great difficulties, the relationship between the couple has become stronger.
One day in 2009, Wang Wei accidentally fell, had three fractures in his right leg, and recuperated at home for a long time.
During this period, her husband has been with her, and everything in life has been taken care of by one hand, taking care of Wang Wei comfortably.
After Wang Wei completely recovered, a new problem appeared: because of the long period of inactivity and a large amount of supplementation, Wang Wei's weight soared all the way to more than 300 pounds!
What's more, because of the influence of obesity, Wang Wei is very inconvenient at work, and he is easily tired, accidentally breaking a set of ceramic products when he dozing off, and finally lost his job.
In 2014, the sixth year of their marriage, Wang Wei's weight has reached 382 pounds.
The couple lives with Wang Wei's mother and has to climb 6 floors a day, and the 88-step ladder is a matter of minutes for others, but it is a challenge for Wang Wei, who always has to rest for a while on the upper floor.
Obesity also exposed Wang Wei to a lot of malice, when walking on the road, the strange eyes of others always made her feel that there was a needle in the body, and no taxi driver was willing to pull when going out to take a taxi.
Once, Wang Wei met a 4-year-old child from a neighbor's house, and when the child saw her, he asked a question: "Auntie, you are so fat, if you fall, can you still get up?" ”
Wang Wei knew that the child did not mean it, but his heart was still greatly shocked, and he cried when he returned home.
Wang Wei is also losing weight, but he always can't stick to it, a little thinner feels weak hands and feet, and eats and eats like crazy, and the result is that the weight does not drop but increases...
Inside and outside the operating room
Wang Wei suffers from polycystic ovary syndrome, a condition that can lead to infertility.
The older generation always felt that passing on the generations was a big thing, Ande-long had not been able to have children after marriage, so they were very anxious, and later after hearing that their daughter-in-law could not have children, they were even more angry, and asked Kim Delong to get married several times.
Jin Delong's eldest brother even called Wang Wei: "Is it interesting that you drag my brother down so much?" Hurry up and leave! ”
Wang Wei didn't want to insist any longer, she was willing to let go of Jin Delong, and also let go of herself.
When her husband was out of work, she packed all of her husband's things and put them outside the door, and when Jin Delong returned home, all she saw was luggage and closed doors.
"Let's get a divorce, I'll let you go." Wang Wei pushed her husband out the door as he spoke: "You go." ”
After closing the door, Wang Wei was still very worried about her husband, so he supported the wall with both hands and walked to the window with difficulty, thinking about it, taking a look at it, watching her husband leave well.
Wang Wei waited by the window, waited for half an hour without seeing her husband's figure, and suddenly panicked: It won't be something wrong, right?
Wang Wei hurriedly moved to the door again, and as soon as he opened the door, he saw Jin Delong crouching in the doorway, his face full of tears.
So one of them cried in the door and the other outside the door, and they knew that neither of them could be separated again in this life.
"My husband made me understand that husband and wife will not disperse even if they fight, and scolding will not disperse."
Since then, Wang Wei has made up her mind that for her own health and for the happiness of this small family, she must lose weight!
Inside and outside the operating room
The stories of Wang Wei and Jin Delong are well known in the local area and have been reported by some local media as a result.
One of the weight loss centers was willing to help Wang Wei and offered a free weight loss program.
After examination by professional doctors, it was found that Wang Wei's obesity was secondary obesity caused by polycystic ovary syndrome, and also combined with a variety of obesity complications such as moderate fatty liver disease and apnea syndrome, and it was recommended to treat and stabilize the situation before losing weight.
With the guidance and help of professionals and medical staff, Wang Wei's situation is getting better and better day by day, plus she is very determined and able to endure hardships, after nearly a year of hard work, Wang Wei has dropped from the original 382 pounds to 240 pounds, enough to throw off 140 pounds!
After the weight loss, the symptoms caused by obesity gradually disappeared, and the menstruation after 3 years of amenorrhea returned to normal, and everything was developing in a good direction.
Wang Wei returned to his former liveliness and cheerfulness, and also crossed his waist in front of Jin Delong: "You see, I also have a small barbarian waist!" ”
Jin Delong smiled softly: "Then you must keep it." ”
The surprises don't stop there.
One morning in September 2016, Wang Wei suddenly felt very uncomfortable, always nauseous and vomiting, accompanied by dizziness.
Jin Delong hurriedly took his wife to the hospital for examination, and the results of the examination surprised both of them: Wang Wei was pregnant!
"I'm pregnant! I'm going to be a mom! Holding the list, Wang Wei's hand kept shaking, and tears blurred her vision.
The couple hugged each other and cried and laughed, this child they have been looking forward to for almost 9 years!
Wang Wei and Jin Delong had been prepared to give up being parents, but now they were dizzy by this surprise, and they were overjoyed and did not know how to be good.
Soon, a very real problem was in front of him, Wang Wei was now pregnant, and weight loss could not be carried out again, but the weight of up to 240 pounds increased the risk of childbirth, and the couple must deal with it carefully.
Pregnancy is a happy and painful thing for Wang Wei.
Every day, feeling the child grow up little by little, Wang Wei caressed his stomach and his face was full of tenderness, but the problems of nausea and emotional irritability that accompanied pregnancy tormented the family all the time.
What's worse is that Wang Wei always feels that he must make good supplements in order to provide adequate nutrition for the fetus in his abdomen and resume overeating.
By the time she was more than 30 weeks pregnant, Wang Wei's weight had reached 320 pounds!
Holding a big belly, Wang Wei always walked a few steps and would be breathless, and going upstairs became a difficult task, if there was no husband to support him in the back, he was likely to fall downstairs.
When sleeping in the middle of the night, Wang Wei had to get up three or four times a night, and each time she turned over, she needed her husband to take a handle, and she struggled to hold her stomach and move.
Wang Wei's life has been completely unable to take care of himself, bathing, washing feet, and even going to the toilet need her husband's help, Jin Delong has always had no regrets, and has been her strong backing.
Not only that, the fat layer of the abdomen also caused a lot of obstacles to the hospital examination, and several B ultrasounds could not illuminate the appearance of the fetus in the abdomen, and the specific situation of the child could not be known.
Coupled with the fact that the child is always in an incorrect fetal position, it is difficult for the doctor to monitor the fetal heartbeat, but after other examinations, the doctor told Wang Wei that the child is most likely healthy.
Wang Wei is very precious to this hard-won child, she constantly asked the doctor about the child in the womb, and repeatedly said that if there is any accident, we must first save the child.
Husband Jin Delong firmly opposed: "If you are gone, there will be me and the children left, how will we both live?" I don't say yes! ”
Wang Wei's shaft strength immediately came up: "I have the final say in our family!" You have to keep the baby first! ”
She also calculated that if an accident really happened, she hoped that her husband could live well with the child and wait for the child to be 10 years old and find another one.
"If you dare to be bad to your child, I will beat you!"
Looking at his resolute wife, Jin Delong gently leaned on Wang Wei's abdomen and expressed resistance with silence.
Wang Wei is full of expectations for the child in his belly, and also named it Happiness, hoping that the child will be healthy and healthy after birth, and be happy and blessed.
Near the due date, Wang Wei and her husband found a photo studio together and wanted to take a set of pregnant belly photos.
Most of the clothes prepared by the studio are not suitable, Wang Wei has become accustomed to it, many beautiful clothes can not be worn, but she is still happy.
After the pregnancy photo was taken, Wang Wei touched himself in the photo and felt that he had never looked so good and was so happy.
A few weeks passed in a flash, and Wang Wei's due date arrived.
Inside and outside the operating room
Considering Wang Wei's special circumstances, the hospital decided to have a caesarean section, and it had to be done a week earlier.
In the operating room, the elite medical staff of the six departments were waiting in strict formation, and everyone was nervously preparing to try their best to save the mother and son.
But what everyone did not expect was that they encountered difficulties in the first level of anesthesia.
The needle is only 8 centimeters, and the fat layer on Wang Wei's back is just 8 centimeters, which means that the anesthesiologist must just put the needle in the correct position to succeed in anesthesia.
The anesthesiologist was so engrossed that the first attempt failed, and the second attempt was made before it was successfully penetrated, and everyone in the operating room was relieved.
Then it was the most tense moment, the chief surgeon Dr. Xia cut open Wang Wei's abdomen, and then cut the thick fat layer, muscle layer, uterus and other layers, but the fat layer was too thick to find the location of the fetus.
During this period, two doctors assisted from the side, pushing away the thick fat layer, and a male obstetrician helped to move Wang Wei's heavy belly, and in a short while, a fine layer of sweat appeared on his forehead.
"Found it!" The surgeon finally touched the head of the fetus, and after a few minutes, he finally held the fetus out before the fetus suffocated.
In the confusion, Wang Wei felt a soft little thing close to her cheek, and she looked sideways, it was her own child, crying.
"Congratulations, it's a boy, 7 pounds and 1 pair."
"Little fellow, you're about to toss your mother to death..."
After giving Wang Wei a look, the pediatrician took the child away, and the family members who were anxiously waiting outside rushed up, and Jin Delong was very excited to see the little child, but he was still worried about the lover in the operating room.
"What about my wife?" What happened to my wife? Jin Delong stood in the doorway and kept looking, but he didn't see the figure in anticipation.
Jin Delong, who was guarding the operating room, did not know that Wang Wei on the operating table was facing a huge danger to his life.
Lying flat on the operating table, Wang Wei's abdomen and the fat layer of his chest pressed against the chest cavity and internal organs, coupled with the anesthesia, the entire body was unloaded, basically no support.
Doctors had to suture the abdominal cavity before Wang Wei was pressed to the point of apnea.
That damn fat layer has become a huge obstacle at this moment, constantly interfering with the doctor's vision, suturing is extremely difficult, delaying the completion of the operation.
During this period, because the chest cavity was compressed, Wang Wei, who had difficulty breathing, unconsciously held his breath, resulting in the intestinal tube and other tissues gushing out, and the difficulty of suturing was further increased.
At this moment, Wang Wei's consciousness gradually blurred, and he couldn't help but call out to his husband: "Jin Delong... Kim Delong..."
The husband outside the operating room seemed to feel something, and couldn't help but get up from his seat and stare at the operating room.
Wang Wei called out her husband's name
After nearly two and a half hours of hard work, the operation was finally completed, and Wang Wei was safely pushed out of the operating room.
The medical staff was already sweating profusely and collapsing, and the surgeon's surgical gown had long been soaked with sweat and clinging to the body.
Fortunately, the mother and child were safe, and both the doctors and the family members breathed a sigh of relief.
After waking up, Wang Wei looked at the small child next to him, ignored the pain of the knife edge, carefully hugged the child, and shed tears of happiness.
The husband on the side also held his wife and blushed.
The surgeon's surgical gown was already drenched in sweat
After the recovery of the body, the couple returned to the warm little home, the child's physical fitness is very good, basically did not have any disease, smart he learned to call mom and dad early, is the pistachio of the whole family.
Wang Wei put weight loss on the agenda after her body recovered, and this time she wanted to reduce it to about 200 pounds in one breath, so that it would not only be good for the body, but also raise her head in front of outsiders.
"I hope that when my son is in kindergarten, I can put on a beautiful dress and pick him up." Wang Wei said.
The husband who was holding the child next to him took over: "You are always the most beautiful in my eyes." ”
The two looked at each other and smiled, and the window was a clear sky and warm sun.
revelation
The love story of Wang Wei and Jin Delong is touching, but there is one problem that cannot be ignored: we must pay attention to health.
Wang Wei's weight was once as high as 380 pounds, not only suffered from many complications, but also could not take care of himself, basically no quality of life to speak of.
Fortunately, Wang Wei got the help of doctors and professionals, and finally found the cause of obesity, prescribed the right medicine, and the body was gradually recovering.
I hope that everyone should pay attention to their own body, neither pursue pathological thinness, nor can they let go of weight growth, to maintain good habits of exercise and healthy eating, when necessary, you can seek help from doctors, and physical health is the most important!