A woman is confinement, and the happiest thing is that her in-laws and husbands spoil themselves as queens.
But in real life, it takes great luck and blessing to be able to do such a woman. And this kind of luck and blessing is not something that everyone can have.
Because, meeting a good husband, it takes a lifetime of luck, let alone a mother-in-law who pampers herself like a biological daughter. Therefore, a woman confinement is the most test for her in-laws and the most for her husband.
01, the mother's family is in decline, and the in-laws are not to be seen
Zhao Yu has been very distressed recently, she came out of the countryside. Through the entrance to college, he realized his life and married his husband. The husband is a city native, the family is very well-off, and Zhao Yu's original family is a comparison of two levels.
The in-laws had some snobbish eyes, and from the day Zhao Yu entered the door, they looked at her everywhere unpleasantly. Either she was disgusted with her original family dragging her feet, or she was wary of her mother-in-law's family property to help the poor and sour.
In-laws are all city people, and they are more particular about wearing snacks. When his son first graduated, the in-laws picked the right marriage partner for their son early. However, the husband did not eat this set, resolutely did not follow, and still desperately broke with his parents to be with Zhao Yu.
Later, her husband won the gamble, and her in-laws softened their hearts, but they also suffered Zhao Yu, who was born in the cold door. For a long time after marriage, her mother-in-law never gave her a good look. In front of everyone, he also summoned her, shouted at her three or four times, and did not respect her at all.
Zhao Yu was aggrieved in his heart, but he also did not want to let her husband be caught in the middle, and often only swallowed his anger and swallowed, and did not complain or complain. It is precisely because of Zhao Yu's resignation that her mother-in-law's attitude towards her is even worse, and people have not given her a good face before and after her.
02, the husband cooks for the confinement wife, a bowl of chicken soup and a bowl of meat
The mother-in-law tossed Zhao Yu enough to choke, but fortunately, Zhao Yu and her husband only occasionally went back to her in-laws' house and did not live with her in-laws, otherwise she would not be able to live a day like this.
After a year of marriage, Zhao Yu and her husband have been pregnant for a long time and have not yet conceived a child. The mother-in-law was in a hurry, and began to accuse Zhao Yu of being an old hen who could not lay eggs. Zhao Yu was sad and aggrieved, but he had no words to refute it.
Until two years after marriage, Zhao Yu finally conceived a child as she wished, and the whole family was very happy. Zhao Yu thought that her mother-in-law's attitude towards herself had changed, but when she gave birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law's face became extremely ugly.
Without waiting for Zhao Yu, who had just returned from the hospital, to settle down, her mother-in-law packed her bags and returned to her home, saying that whoever gave birth to a daughter and who served the confinement, she did not have this obligation. Zhao Yu was extremely aggrieved, and tears were rolling in his eyes. Forced to be helpless, she finally called her mother to serve the confinement.
One day, her mother returned to her hometown, and her husband had to cook for Zhao Yu. As a result, it was a coincidence that the mother-in-law, who had never shown her face after leaving, suddenly appeared at home and said that she had come to see her granddaughter.
Husbands are naturally overjoyed, and who does not want parents to be kind to their wives and children, husbands are no exception. Seeing her mother-in-law, Zhao Yu was also very happy, at least the mother-in-law did not blindly hide from her granddaughter.
But the mother-in-law's smiling face did not last for a minute, and when she saw her son hanging an apron and bringing out a bowl of chicken soup and a bowl of meat from the kitchen, the mother-in-law's face suddenly became ugly.
03, the mother-in-law is angry: you should not get used to her
In the mother-in-law's thinking, a gentleman is far away from the kitchen, especially the son he has cultivated since childhood, and should be farther away from the kitchen. But who knows, just because Zhao Yu was confinement, his son not only cooked, but also made a big fuss about big fish and meat.
The mother-in-law was very uncomfortable, her son had been raised for more than twenty years, and he had never cooked a meal for himself, and he had never even washed the dishes. But now, as soon as she gets married, she not only cooks, but also serves her daughter-in-law, which makes her mother-in-law's heart extremely unbalanced. The son really married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother.
The complicated expression on the mother-in-law's face did not escape Zhao Yu's eyes, but she pretended not to see it and did not say anything. The mother-in-law could not stop her anger, and directly angered her son: which woman does not have children, does not sit in confinement, she is squeamish, and it is chicken soup and meat, you should not get used to her. Men are going to fight for their careers outside, and who has deliberately taken time off to come back to serve women and children?
The husband was suddenly anxious, and explained to the mother-in-law: The mother-in-law's family has temporarily returned to the house, there is no one in the family, I can't always watch my wife and daughter starve, right? I can only take a day off to take care of it, and when my mother-in-law returns, I can go back to work.
But the mother-in-law did not listen to this set, and she stubbornly believed that all this was instigated by Zhao Yu. His own son used to be so obedient and filial, since he married Zhao Yu, the well-behaved and docile daughter-in-law could not catch it, and even abducted his filial son.
The mother-in-law accused Zhao Yu in person, and Zhao Yu subconsciously wanted to refute it, but when the words came to her mouth, she swallowed it back. If the mother-in-law is reasonable, she does not need to look at the mother-in-law's face for so many years, and she does not need to have a child and has to worry about the mother-in-law to serve, and it is not so that the husband cooks a meal for herself and is scolded by the mother-in-law pointing at the nose.
Zhao Yu asked her husband to eat the soup and meat, she had no appetite, turned around and went back to the room. The husband is very helpless in the middle, can only guarantee that today's cooking is only the first time, and it will never be easy to cook in the future, and the mother-in-law has let him go.
Zhao Yu, who was hiding in the room, couldn't help but shed tears. Her husband is a good person, and he knows how to hurt her. However, a man, no matter how much he feels sorry for his wife, if he does not dare to fight for his wife, then her wife will always only be a gas bag and will not be accepted by the in-laws.
Today's Topic:
Do you think a husband cooks for a confinement wife, should you?
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