The time closed by the epidemic - the "one drag two" diary of the two treasure mothers

Hello everyone, I am the circle owner Hua Chuan (Chuan Ma), who has a son and a daughter. He studied in Europe and is a positive parent correctional instructor in the United States. Here to share with you the knowledge of second child pregnancy, childbirth, childcare, as well as the parent-child education experience of their own two treasures. Today, I would like to share my circle friends' contributions.

Chuan Mama said: With the fight back of the epidemic, many families have once again lived a closed or isolated life. Especially for families with several children, it is really not easy. Today I will share with you the diary of a mother of two treasures during the closure period. This is a family of four with children and daughters, but dad is isolated in the company because of the epidemic, leaving only mom with two babies to fight monsters and upgrade.

Wen | Hamburg Mom has two treasures at home: my brother is 8 years old and my sister is 3 years old

April 2 Was "sealed" to the point of collapse

Because of the epidemic, children have not been to school for almost a month and have been learning online. Because the community is sealed, the unit building is not allowed to go down, many things cannot be bought, and the child's father is also sealed in the company and cannot come back.

I dragged them both myself, online classes, homework and piano practice, and endless housework, and my spirit collapsed.

So my attitude towards children is particularly bad, especially when my brother and sister grab toys, or when two people are arguing loudly, I am more upset, after beating my brother, I yell at my sister, and then the two children cry together.

Because the child is in the evening online class, only more than an hour, so the amount of tasks during the day is very large, and there are more homework and pre-study tasks to be completed.

However, the children are used to writing homework at night, so every day during the day, urging him to write homework will break out into many unhappy things.

The first is the reluctance to write, always to drag it out. It was hard to write, and I had to drink water and urinate and eat for a while, and I couldn't sit still at all.

Two or three pages of homework, it takes an hour or two.

My brother was doing his homework and I was staring, and my sister inevitably had to make a sound next to me, sometimes disturbing my brother.

I think my brother can learn slowly if he just studies well. But I didn't have a good study habit, which made me very anxious.

Last year, when my brother was in the first grade, I couldn't grasp his study habits because I had just transferred his work, so I also wanted to use this time to make up for it.

The epidemic continues, and so does online classes. I hope that I can get the guidance of my teachers by participating in the Sichuan Mama Parent Class this time.

April 3 80 points of achievement and 13 minutes of review

Since I started learning the warm-up class of the parent class a few days ago, to the first lesson of today, and then thinking about the events of these two days, I myself feel very incredible.

Today my brother made a math test paper, and I only got 80 points at a glance, and many of the problems could not be done. If it were normal, I would have gone crazy, scolding the child first, and then forcing him to keep writing homework.

Today I am exceptionally quiet, because the child is in a class every day, which is certainly not as solid as what he learned in school, and there are not enough practice questions to consolidate, and it is reasonable to score 80 points.

So, I asked my brother, "Son, how do you feel when you see this result?" ”

The child said, "I'm angry. ”

I asked, "Why are you angry?" ”

My brother said, "I just got 80 points, and I want to score 100." ”

I said, "Yeah, you want to score 100, does it work to be angry?" Can you get 100 points when you're angry? ”

My brother said no.

I then asked, how can you score 100 points?

"Review", the brother blurted out, "I want to review, more review can be good."

So, the brother opened the book himself and reviewed it for 13 minutes.

Although it was only 13 minutes, it was done by himself, not by me forcing him to learn, it was a very big step forward, and I was very pleased.

April 4 "I will definitely take good care of my sister in the future"

I didn't go to work because of the epidemic, and the two babies saw me doing yoga exercises at home. So the two of them joined in.

The horizontal bar at home, the two babies have not played for a long time, because they saw their mother's movement, the two of them took the initiative to play the horizontal bar again today.

When my brother and sister played horizontal bars, they were always scrambling, and everyone wanted to play more. The sister cried and said that she wanted one person at a time. The brother kicked his sister from the horizontal bar, and the sister cried.

So I pulled my brother aside and said, "Since you can't play the rules of the game, don't play it, let your sister play by herself." ”

The sister is the brother's heel, the brother does not play, the sister does not play for a minute.

Then I chatted with my son and asked him, "Mom didn't hit you yesterday or today and scold you, how do you feel?" ”

The brother said, "Mom, I like you like that." ”

I said, "Son, mom needs your encouragement, give mom a high-five." ”

My son was very happy to high-five me and hugged me. He also said to me: "Mom, you also cheer me up, I will definitely take care of my sister in the future, study hard, and be a kind child." ”

I also gave my brother a high-five and hugged him.

Although I know that the child is unlikely to change after saying this, I am very, very happy that he can take the initiative to promise me.

April 5 "What if my sister grabs my brother's toy?"

Last night, I couldn't wait to practice the "family meeting" that parents learned in class, only me and my two children attended, and my father had not been able to come back from the company because of the epidemic.

The process is very simple, and after a simple acknowledgment, it goes straight to the point. The brother is the host, and the mother makes the record.

We mainly discussed a small question, which is" What if the sister grabs her brother's toy?" ”

My sister loves to cry, she wants to get the toy immediately, and the brother cries if she doesn't give it. Sometimes I grab it without talking.

The brother's suggestion was that if the younger sister grabbed the toy, the younger sister's toy could not be obtained. My sister had just turned three, but she made it clear that she couldn't.

So the brother said, then punish the sister to say "brother I want to play" ten times, and then the brother can give the toy to the sister.

This morning, I was writing my study notes when I heard my sister grab the toy again, making a loud noise.

So the brother punished the sister, the brother counted, the sister really said ten times "brother I want to play", unexpectedly, after the sister said, the brother gave the toy to the sister, and kissed the sister. It was our first attempt at family meetings, and while it wasn't too formal, I really saw the effect.

Today my brother is going to see the tablet, and we agreed to fifteen minutes. However, fifteen minutes later, the episode was not finished, so my brother came to ask me if I could finish the episode.

My instinctive reaction was to stick to the principle and not to keep looking. But when I saw my brother's eyes, I couldn't bear it.

So I said to him, "Time is your own, you can arrange it yourself, the body is your own, and the eyes are your own." Watch it for five more minutes and it won't affect anything. But if we watch more every day, then there is no point in us making plans. ”

Unexpectedly, my brother really turned off the tablet.

April 6 Tips for solving "dirty words"

Because of the delay and two, there are endless chores at home, and there is also the online class homework of my first-grade brother, so I will record it at any time and send it to the group at any time.

Because nucleic acids were going to be done at five o'clock this morning, the two children went to bed very early last night.

Before going to bed, I talked to my brother and said that my brother sometimes said dirty words, or said something like "dead".

I asked my brother, "If you say such a thing again in the future, you will be punished." Do you agree? ”

The brother said he agreed, because this is also a bad word, said that he could not make more friends, and his mother was not happy.

I asked him, "So what kind of punishment do you say you're going to receive?" ”

My brother said, "If I say this again, I can't eat my favorite rice, I can only eat steamed buns that I don't like." ”

I said yes.

The brother added:

"If you can't say well before breakfast, you can't eat sandwiches for breakfast, eat steamed buns;

If you can't say it well in the morning, you can't eat rice at noon, you can only eat steamed buns.

If you can't say well in the afternoon, you can't eat Orleans chicken wings in the evening. (This menu was pre-ordered by us)"

I was amazed at how clearly he spoke to me, and I asked him again, "Are you sure?" The brother said ok.

This morning after returning from the nucleic acid, my brother lay on the bed, said "dead sister" to his little sister very naturally, and immediately looked at me after saying it.

I said what to do?

My brother said, "I can't eat sandwiches anymore."

I made sandwiches in the morning, tofu shrimp soup, and specially heated steamed buns.

At dinner, my brother didn't have sandwiches and was very depressed. The younger sister ate a sandwich of her own, and there was still half a left next to it, and the younger sister wanted to eat it, but looked at her brother again, and the sandwich was taken and put away.

I asked my sister, "Do you still want to eat?" "My sister said she still wanted to eat.

I said, "Brother no, do you want to give it to your brother?" ”

My sister said, "No, I'm going to eat."

I said let's eat it, or it'll be cold in a while.

After saying this, I looked up and my brother was crying.

I walked over and hugged my brother and said, "You're very sad now, aren't you?" The brother nodded.

I said, "But this is something we made ourselves, and the rules are set by you, so what should we do?" Otherwise let your sister give it to you."

The brother still said, "No, I said something bad, I can't eat." ”

Then sit down on your own stool. At this time, the sister had to give half to the brother, and the brother took the sandwich in his hand and did not eat it. The little sister got off the stool and hugged her brother. The brother said "thank you sister" and the younger sister said "you're welcome brother".

Originally, I studied this course to learn about the various parenting problems encountered in life and how to solve them. It turns out that if you throw the puzzle to the child, the child will give us better answers.

April 7 My sister finally agrees to wear socks

When I came back from my nucleic acid work in the morning, I listened to classes at my desk and the two children lay down in the bedroom to rest. When I went into the bedroom after listening to the lesson, I found my sister lying on the bed, covered with a quilt, and my brother standing guard next to him.

I asked, "What are you doing?" ”

My sister said, "Mom, I'm cold."

I asked, "What's wrong baby?" Where is it uncomfortable? ”

My sister said: "My stomach hurts, my brother is a doctor, he said I have a cold".

I asked my brother what to do?

The brother said, "I prescribed medicine to him."

I then asked, "Does taking medicine work?" Is there anything else to be aware of? ”

The brother said, "It's all right, drink some hot brown sugar water."

I then guided: "You say, when you are cold, you can't take off your socks, you have to wear slippers?" "Brother, yes, do a good job of keeping warm."

Then today all day, my sister didn't take off her socks.

What a surprise!

Now the heating has also stopped, and the floor is very cold, but my sister often stands barefoot on the ground. I asked her to wear her and she didn't wear it either. Chase her every day behind your ass. Unexpectedly, a small game with my brother this morning solved this problem.

April 8 "Mom, you have another baby"

Recently, I felt very tired because of the continuous rotation, and I had some headaches after returning from doing nucleic acid this morning, so I lay in bed and wanted to rest for a while.

Then both children came over and played in bed. Squeeze into the curtains for a while, and fight a verbal battle for a while. I didn't stop it, closed my eyes and recuperated.

At this time, my sister went to get a drawing board and said that she would let her mother accompany her to paint. I said okay. So I taught her to paint the sun, to paint the house, to paint herself.

Then my brother said, then I'm going out and going to find a quiet place.

So my brother went out of the bedroom, went to the living room balcony, and sat down to read the extracurricular books that the teacher had asked him to buy.

After about fifteen minutes, my brother came to me and said, Mom, I have read all the books of "Little Piggy Purring", which is interesting. And then he told me a whole bunch of things.

Then he asked me, "Mom, are you comfortable?" ”

I said it was okay, just a bit of a headache. It would be nice if you gave me a rub.

So my brother sat next to me, but didn't know how to get it. I said that if you massage me with the shape of your hand playing the piano, it should be the most comfortable.

So my brother massaged me for about three minutes, and while massaging, he said, "Mom, can you still have another baby?" I was surprised and asked him why?

The older brother said, "I like to be an older brother to others, and if you give me another brother, I can take good care of him."

Suddenly I wanted to say that compared to those who did not want younger brothers and sisters, I think my son's heart should be very soft and loving.

When my brother gave me a massage, my sister kept holding me, and her eyes were red, saying Mom, I hurt you.

Seeing the children like this, I feel a special warmth in my heart. The children must be given a big hug.

On April 10, the community was finally unsealed

The community was finally unsealed, and the child's father returned. As soon as Dad came back, my brother couldn't wait to tell Dad about what had happened these days.

The brother said how he took care of his sister, this time the closed community did not make his mother angry, but also study well, use the Pomodoro timing every day, and reward yourself with a small tomato to supplement nutrition by completing a Pomodoro.

Because Dad has not returned for so many days, he is particularly fond of the children. But the children did not make excessive demands and overdo it because of this pampering.

At noon, I took the children to play on the beach in front of my house for two hours, the children had a good time, and my brother took the initiative to put away the garbage before going to play.

At dinner in the evening, my little sister and I sat on the sofa reading picture books, my brother and my father cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks together, and after the incident, my brother also took the initiative to wipe the floor, while wiping, he said: "You see their girls, after eating, they are resting, we boys have so much strength, we should do more housework, right Dad?" ”

I asked my brother if you had an opinion or weren't satisfied, and you could say it.

My brother said it was all right, you made us a delicious meal.

I said I'll help you.

My brother quickly pushed me to sit down and wiped the floor myself. Although the wipe is not clean, but he really did it with his heart at this time, what do we have to be picky about, quietly enjoy this moment.

April 11 Worried about being closed again, my brother helps hoard goods

It was a day of panic but fullness.

At noon today, I don't know why, some people spread rumors that the community will continue to be closed, so everyone goes to the mall to rob items. We were also nervous, so we also went and bought a lot of meat, vegetables, eggs and milk.

Thanks to my brother's help, I was able to bring everything home from the mall. A lot of stuff couldn't fit in, and my brother was sitting behind the electric car. Give me a hug back.

In the afternoon, my sister just woke up, and the shrimp she bought were delivered. In fact, my sister just woke up, and her mood was not very good. So I went downstairs to get my things, afraid my sister would cry. But when I came home from moving the shrimp again, my brother looked at my sister, who was already playing with my brother. Always worried that my brother can't take good care of my sister, an epidemic, without my father at home, has also made my brother grow a lot.

At five o'clock in the afternoon, Dad came home from work normally, and tonight Dad could accompany his brother to online classes, so before he went to online classes, I went to make an appointment for yoga class. When I came back, I accompanied my sister to tell stories, and my father accompanied my brother to online classes. It was a very pleasant evening.

April 12 Sure enough, the children's state "rebounded" again

Sure enough, when the novelty ends, the behavior will rebound. Today, the two babies have not played their cards according to the routine.

Because I had decided on the time to start school, I had been making watches, sending out notifications, making phone calls, and was very busy since the morning.

In the morning, I said to my brother, "We agreed that eight o'clock to nine thirty o'clock is the time for you to complete your homework with the help of your mother, but now it is eight o'clock, and you have not yet started." In this way, you will be ten minutes less helped by your mother. If you can't complete your homework and no one will help you upload your homework, please bear the consequences yourself. ”

As if he hadn't heard, his brother continued to fiddle with the toys, feeling that time was still going on.

Because I was busy working on the computer myself, at eight twenty-five, I went over to remind my brother again, and my brother reluctantly sat at his desk, rubbing his hands on books.

I managed less today, my brother did less, and kept rubbing, and by half past nine, I really didn't finish my homework.

But my brother didn't seem to care, so I didn't care and continued to work on my own work.

I was thinking that if I couldn't finish my homework, I would let him bear the consequences himself.

When my brother woke up after his afternoon nap, I reminded him that he could continue his homework because I had half an hour left in the afternoon to help him.

I thought I could finish the homework in 20 minutes, but my brother still couldn't finish it in 25 minutes.

It seems that I still have to re-evaluate the time it takes for him to complete his homework. Adults always think that ten minutes and eight minutes can complete the task, the child in the case of unskilled. More than twenty minutes can not be completed.

My brother finished two Pomodoros with my help in the afternoon, and he still felt very good.

But I think he still has room to continue to improve, but he is lax on himself.

The life of online classes has loosened up a lot for children, and I am also trying to let him adjust himself, so after the start of school, life is slowly on the right track, or to pay more attention to his learning.

In the evening online class, my brother's small actions continued, and after I reminded it three times, I still did not correct it. So I moved the stool away and let him stand and listen to the lesson, as if the effect was a little better.

I was actually very anxious, but I couldn't help but yell at the child. It is also true that every night my brother's online class takes more than an hour, and it is indeed not easy for children to sit in class like this.

Today I have a lot of things to do, and the two children still have a lot of noise together, but I almost don't care. My sister loves to cry, but it's good to change the subject, so both children are solved by themselves.

While I was cooking at noon, my sister was playing with light clay and accidentally stuck to her small makeup box. He asked his brother to help him get it right, and as soon as his brother tried to get the mirror off, his sister suddenly began to cry.

My sister is in a sensitive period of order, and she must be well. But it was broken, and it couldn't be safe.

The brother said that he would buy him a new one with his pocket money, but the sister was still crying. I walked over to my sister and asked if you were sad.

My sister suddenly cried even more aggrieved, saying "Mom I'm sad", so I let him cry all the time, and when I was done venting, I took her to drink his favorite yogurt. Diverted attention, the sister was fine. He also said to himself, "My brother said, buy me a new mirror later." ”

April 13 Brother reformulates the "Daily Routine Table"

Today my brother finally agreed to make a daily routine table.

Previously, we also developed a daily routine table, mainly to learn more content. Because with reference to the template given by my brother's class teacher, it is almost in accordance with the school's one-day process.

Moreover, I made that form, and my brother just agreed in a vague way. With the postponement of the start of school day by day by the epidemic, my brother lost enthusiasm and felt that there were too many tasks, so he failed to stick to it.

These two days listened to the teacher's class, guided the brother to make a daily routine table, the brother agreed today, and he simply made a little plan. Although it is incomplete, I did not intervene, let him find the problem little by little, and then improve it little by little.

When I played the piano in the afternoon, my brother was practicing in the house by himself, and the rhythm was a lot wrong. Mainly the child has just accepted a new song, and many empty shots are not well mastered. So I opened the door, went in, and said to my brother, "Son, I found that you have some mistakes and need my help?" ”

My son got up from the stool, hugged me, and said, "Mom, I thought you came in to criticize me, and I thought I was playing badly?" ”

I said, of course not, you've worked very hard. It is normal to have mistakes, and everyone learns from their mistakes and slowly progresses.

The son said happily, "Mom, you're so nice." So my son practiced the piano happily and completed today's piano playing task.

April 14 My brother's mission is still not completed

My brother just tried to make his own daily routine table yesterday, so it is very incomplete and informal. Just write down some of the things you want to do, such as writing homework, playing the piano, and reading.

Yesterday, the task was not very well completed, the piano was only fifteen minutes played, and the reading was not very serious. Because of the tasks he set, he has the final say, and he always feels that there is time, so he plays more time.

When he played, I only made simple reminders. The rest, take care of yourself.

So after I got off the online class last night and then exercised and relaxed, I found that I didn't practice the words, and it was time to go to bed. So I reminded my brother, "If today's plan is not completed, what should I do?" ”

The brother said, "Mom is sorry, I didn't finish it well today." I'll be able to do it tomorrow. ”

I continued: "Let's find out why it wasn't done today."

The brother said, "Oh, I'm not too greedy, Mom, you can rest assured that tomorrow I will definitely finish." Because he didn't really want to discuss it, I didn't force it either. ”

Today, my brother still hasn't completed the task he set. Mainly tonight's online class, after the class is 9:40, too late. When my brother saw that it was so late, he had no time to make up.

So, lying in bed, I asked him what to do.

My brother said, I don't know.

I went on to say, you think about it, I think you have a way.

My brother said, then I will write hard and stop playing.

I said that's not okay, a combination of work and leisure. If you just study, your body will definitely not be able to eat.

My brother still didn't know what to do.

At this point, I asked, "Do you need my help?" I can give you a little advice."

The brother nodded.

I said, "The last time I made a plan, I said, write down the time to start, and the time to end. You've always been very confident that you can finish it quickly, and there's no time to label it. Mom's advice is to mark the time yourself. ”

This time, my brother agreed very happily. So many times, children have to grow up in trial and error.

April 15 Continued to improve the "Daily Routine Table"

Today, my brother wrote down the time of his homework, the time of playing the piano, the time of practicing words, etc.

I am very happy, the time control is not bad, such as homework is left for an hour and a half to play the piano for half an hour, writing for half an hour.

However, after writing these plans, my brother did not follow the plan.

After I reminded me twice, I said to my brother, I will remind you a third time in a moment, and if you continue not to do it, I will stop nagging. If the consequences are not completed, they are to bear themselves.

The brother panicked and said Mom, you don't love me anymore, why don't you care about me.

I explained, "I'm not ignoring you, my mother is more than willing to take care of you." But we have agreed on a time, and only at the agreed time, Mom can help you.

But Mom can't be on standby all the time this day, waiting for you to call me. So after a while I'm very sorry and I can't help you anymore. ”

My brother yelled, "No, Mom, you don't love me anymore, and I don't love you."

I said, "My son's mother loves you, but I want you to keep the agreement we agreed." ”

At this time, my son was crying in the living room, and I was very irritable, so I went into the bedroom by myself. He was crying loudly, and it was obvious that he was trying to get me out and talk to him. However, at this time, my heart was not happy, and when I went out, I was afraid that I would say something unpleasant. So I opened my phone in annoyance, and it happened to be today's Ding Dong Ma's lesson - "Mistakes are a Great Opportunity to Learn".

Yes, children make mistakes and slowly correct them, isn't this an opportunity to learn? Why am I so irritable? So I slowly adjusted my state, walked to the living room, and slowly calmed my son's emotions.

April 16 "Family Meeting" Gathering the Family

Today was a really happy and smooth day. In the morning, the son completed the homework as planned. Take time out at noon, don't waste today's good spring light, take the children to outdoor picnic, play with water and sand, watch trees and flowers. Adults and children have a lot of fun.

When I got home at two twenty, my sister lay down and fell asleep, and my brother and father rested until three o'clock and went back to school to do nucleic acid. I also set off at four o'clock to go to school to do nucleic acid, and then organized the children's nucleic acid in this class. When I got home, Dad prepared the stuffing and noodles and wrapped the dumplings together.

After dinner, everyone was lying on the bed, and my brother asked, "Mom, are we still having a meeting today?"

I said of course, there was a family meeting today.

My brother said, today I am the host, next time let dad be the host.

Mom still records the meeting.

The first item introduces itself

Second acknowledgement. Especially dad, when it comes to this item, he is very sincere and sincere, thanking my mother for taking care of her two children when the epidemic was closed, and I also feel very warm inside, and all the hard work is worth it.

Third, solve two small problems.

The first problem is: if the brother makes his sister cry again, he will use his pocket money to buy good food for his sister. If your brother doesn't have any pocket money, he has to find a way to get it.

The second problem is that if the tasks set by the brother himself are not completed, the tasks will be doubled tomorrow.

So my brother said not to be as free as before, to have the freedom of rules, and to strive to do today's work, without procrastination. (The solution is all figured out by the brother himself, and there are imperfections to slowly modify)

The last item was to share the food, the two of them shared a little bit of potato chips and homemade egg tarts, very, very happy.

April 17 Suddenly fell in love with his brother who cooked

Today is a very peaceful day and it feels like there are no emotions that need to be controlled.

My brother suddenly fell in love with cooking.

He kept wanting me to buy him cutlery, but I didn't agree.

Recently, I saw an article on the Internet saying that many adults have rice and noodles and dishes at home during the period of home isolation, but they will not make a meal, which makes me deeply touched, so I bought a small electric pot for my brother.

My brother's talent for cooking was suddenly stimulated.

I made sandwiches for my sister this morning, shredded potatoes in vinegar in the evening, and chicken steaks.

I feel particularly accomplished. When children work hard in areas they love, they don't need to be reminded and helped.

This morning, my sister opened her eyes and said she was going to eat a sandwich, and my brother said to make it. However, there were no ready-made slices of bread at home, so my brother volunteered to go to the supermarket outside the community to buy them.

I disagreed, very worried, but my brother told me very firmly that it was no problem.

So I took ten yuan and an old mobile phone (there was a phone card in it, so I could contact him when I had something), and went downstairs to buy bread slices.

I saw through the window that he was bouncing around and walking very cheerfully toward the supermarket. About five minutes later, I called my brother, who told me, "Mom, don't worry, I've arrived at the door of our neighborhood." I bought slices of bread and I also showed my uncle the production date, which was up to date. ”

Soon my brother bought slices of bread and went upstairs and made sandwiches for his sister, his face full of pride.

I also feel from the bottom of my heart that my son has really grown up. Is it because of the pandemic? Is it because of the love of cooking? I'm not sure which one is that, but I can be sure that as long as we're not in a hurry, children will always surprise us.

Parent Class Two Weeks Learning Summary:

1. Since participating in our parent class, I will listen to the lesson twice almost every day. The first time was after getting up in the morning, when it was the quietest, no one disturbed, and I would listen to the lecture very carefully.

The second time was when I took notes, and I took notes carefully in every lesson. Not only to deepen the impression, but also to review at any time.

This week, because there is more work before the start of school, the handwriting is a bit sloppy.

Sometimes two days of classes will pile up into one day to make up notes, a bit rushed. Therefore, we must try to squeeze out time every day, so that today's things are completed and well taken.

2. Think back to when I first participated in the parent class, it was the time when the epidemic was closed and the mood was the most annoying.

Looking back now, it feels like there was no day, it was all night.

One or two nucleic acids in the middle of the night, nucleic acids at five o'clock in the morning, online classes in the evening.

What happened during the day is not clear. However, at that time, I remember clearly, I want to try to be a warm and peaceful mother every day. Closed at home and unable to go out, the child has been restricted, if I continue to nagging and scolding, how unbearable the child's life should be.

Strive to make food for children to taste, and strive to make this home happy and warm.

3. At this stage of course learning, my brother has obviously made progress and can take the initiative to write homework with a Pomodoro.

Knowing the rules of the family, the awareness is strengthened. Brother and sister quarreled less and less, more laughter. His brother wanted to be free, and realized that there would be irreparable consequences that he needed to bear, and now he clearly told his mother that freedom should be built on rules. What a big step forward that is.

4, although the process worked particularly well at the beginning, and then there was a little rebound, but with the joint efforts of everyone, the brother and sister returned to the track and did not deviate.

5, the mother is very impatient, before there was a little thing will be fried, in fact, can not hear the sound of two children fighting, feel very anxious.

Now the change of mentality, I feel that this is not a thing, it is a very normal phenomenon at this age. When you think about it, you can't hear it.

It doesn't matter, let them deal with it first. Maybe in less than a minute, the two people laughed.

6, when the mood is not good, do not say bad words. Learn to calm yourself down, and also give your brother the method of calming his mind. Learn to press the pause button, make an emotional connection with the child, and then communicate, there must be a better effect.

7, gentle and firm, must be gentle, otherwise it will feel cold violence, so the gentle tone, gentle words, smiling face, must be left to the child.

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