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Stop classes and don't stop learning, home online classes, how to create a good environment for children, reduce parent-child conflict

The epidemic has been repeated, schools have been closed in many places, and children are studying at home.

The parents wailed, the children rejoiced, and the teachers went crazy together.

As someone joked, letting children take mobile phones (tablets) to take online lessons is equivalent to letting Sun Monkey guard the peach orchard.

Some people always can't help deserting because the teacher can't see themselves, either eating snacks and drinking happy water, or playing games;

Some people have no motivation to learn because of the lack of atmosphere, either late and absent, or busy picking up cats and dogs;

More people are crunched by the way of check-in and class with different tricks. Before counting, my children had as many as five or six ways to attend classes. In order to ensure the effect, the teacher can control the scene in a timely manner with tencent meetings; Shi Disheng can directly submit homework with DingTalk live broadcast. The apps that assign homework are also different. Therefore, on the child's curriculum, they are deliberately marked with a red pen which lesson uses which software, which homework is submitted with which APP, otherwise, it is easy to mix. Even so, the children's learning effect is still difficult to describe.

Stop classes and don't stop learning, home online classes, how to create a good environment for children, reduce parent-child conflict

Therefore, the most heard recently is the mother's complaint, before, it was just a chicken flying dog jumping when doing homework, and now it is home online class, and I want to run away from home every minute. So, home learning, how to improve learning efficiency, so that learning to receive better results?

01 Ensure the micro-environment of children's online classes

Try to use desktops, laptops or TVs to cast screens, which is convenient for children to learn, but also gives children a better visual and sound experience, and is also conducive to children's concentration.

At the beginning of the online class, the child's class teacher informed in the group that if there is a computer at home, try to use the computer to teach the class, do not let the child use the mobile phone or tablet, in addition to the small screen, more is the distraction of the child's attention. Therefore, during the daytime class, the child's mobile phone I take the unit, when I go home at night, and then return to him, you can complete the homework, and then play games to reduce the pressure.

For children in the primary grade, children below the third grade of primary school, do not give him the right to use the mobile phone at all, we are the big children of junior high school, it is unrealistic not to give, let the children learn to control their own time or have a certain effect, at present, it seems that they can go to class on time, write homework on time, occasionally slack, and still relatively motherly filial piety. Of course, parents still need to be reminded and supervised.

Stop classes and don't stop learning, home online classes, how to create a good environment for children, reduce parent-child conflict

02 Less interruptions, do a good job of logistics

When children are online classes, parents try not to disturb, and it is best to maintain relative independence with their children in space and time, which is for full-time mothers who do not have to work. The child takes his online class, the adult can read in another room, really can't read the book, you can also do a little handicraft or something, try to minimize the time to brush the video to play mobile phone.

In the current situation of home learning, children lack the conditions and space for outdoor activities, parents must provide children with as rich and balanced nutritional diet as possible, stable and adequate sleep, moderate and interesting exercise.

For parents who are still at work, because they cannot track their children's online classes at any time, they often choose to install cameras, which is also a helpless move, especially for children in lower grades, but also to consider the safety of their children. Big children, there is no safety concerns, try not to use camera monitoring, especially like us who are in adolescence, the use of cameras will only make him feel the distrust of adults, not only can not play a role in supervising children's learning, but will stimulate the child's rebellious psychology, so that children are more resistant to online classes, learn this matter well.

Stop classes and don't stop learning, home online classes, how to create a good environment for children, reduce parent-child conflict

03 Children are allowed to have peer communication

People are social animals, so they need the company of peers, although they can't go to school, but with the help of network devices, they can help children set up an online learning group. Through video, audio, text and other ways, to create a way for children to interact and communicate over the air, so that children have the opportunity to have emotional exchanges, life insights, knowledge sharing, learning and discussion with their classmates, increase the fun and life of learning, and alleviate the pressure of home learning caused by the epidemic, stabilize emotions, and seek mutual motivation, supervision and help in learning.

In fact, like our second-year children, students already have their own WeChat groups, sometimes they will hear them complaining about the teacher together, adults should not take it too seriously, and even if there is nothing to see what the children talk about, at this age, it is important to give children a certain amount of trust.

Parents must understand that the pressure and challenges that children are currently facing are enormous, not only the pressure of learning new knowledge, but also the pressure of facing new learning methods. At this time, what children need most is encouragement and tolerance, rather than demanding and harsh.

The most important thing parents need to do is to give their children emotional support, ideological understanding, and life care, so that children can feel the understanding and love of their parents.

Stop classes and don't stop learning, home online classes, how to create a good environment for children, reduce parent-child conflict

04 Lower expectations and reduce anxiety

Because of the uncertainty of the epidemic, parents themselves are anxious. Seeing the writhing body and empty eyes of the baby in class, it is natural that the blood pressure soars, and even if she silently recites "her own" a hundred times, it will not be able to stop the "flood power" in the body.

In fact, during this period of learning at home, the first thing parents have to do is to take care of themselves, only if their spirits are good and their emotions are good, can they treat their families well and work well.

Online classes are a test of the degree of self-discipline of immature children when learning alone at home, whether for adults or children, maintaining self-discipline and concentration in the temptation of environmental distraction is an not easy topic and challenge, and it is understandable that children cannot do self-discipline. An important premise for parents and children to communicate on this issue is to "lower expectations and avoid harsh responsibilities." This does not mean that parents are resigned to their children's situation, but they need to communicate properly with their children.

If you are anxious and can't fall asleep, you can try to learn some relaxation techniques, such as abdominal breathing, imagining that your troubles are exhaled out every time you exhale, your shoulders are more relaxed, your whole body is relaxed, and you can fall asleep quickly. When the body feels better, the mental state will be better, and you can better face the challenges of life.

Life is education, what kind of life parents live is what kind of education for their children, and the boundaries of parents' lives are the boundaries of children's education.

Stop classes and don't stop learning, home online classes, how to create a good environment for children, reduce parent-child conflict

05 Home online classes are both a challenge and an opportunity

Without home learning under the epidemic, many parents and teachers may not realize or pay attention to the underlying elements of their children's learning ability, but only focus on the results. From this point of view, the learning under the home online class just gives children an opportunity to develop self-management and independent learning ability.

If this one or two months of home learning, children in self-driven, independent learning, time management and other aspects of progress, then this harvest is more valuable than textbook knowledge learning, more meaningful to children's future learning and growth.

Because the important mission of education is to develop children's ability and mentality to take care of their own lives, learn independently, grow themselves, and live with uncertainty.

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