I want to follow the baton "The World" hit drama "Dear Child".
If you say that after watching the former, you have felt all kinds of births, old age, illnesses and deaths, and you have seen the torrents and mud and sand of the big times. The latter confessed that "Dear Little Kid" chased 3 episodes, and it was the anxiety of the details to the hair.
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Real-life money, rice, oil and salt is enough to make people anxious. Watching this show is when the anxiety of reality invades the idle time.
Read a lot of comments are very detailed with babies, restored to real. As a novice mother at the same stage, I have to say that this is the most anxious case of restoration.
Fang Yinuo, a neurotic new mother, is simply outrageous for those who have vaginal births and breastfeeding, especially the latter's perverted paranoia.
The incident of the natural birth has caused many mothers to suffer. Probably many bao mothers, like Fang Yinuo, would rather endure ten levels of severe pain, and they have to hold out until the palace opens ten fingers and desperately give birth. Even hospitals have always advocated the creation of all conditions for smooth delivery.
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Before Fang Yinuo was born, his tone was very big: I am so big that a person can't give birth to it? Already in pain can't stand it, just unconsciously said a sentence is too painful, cut it is like suddenly waking up, and continue to produce hard.
There is also breastfeeding, which is indeed a matter of course. But excessive publicity has led all new mothers who know nothing to think that they must be breastfed, that all formula is toxic, and that their babies may be malnourished.
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Leaving aside the unreliable sister-in-law, Fang Yinuofei insisted on not adding milk powder, which was really worrying to see the appearance of mixed feeding as a poisonous snake beast.
First of all, it is not that normal birth should not be advocated, but it should not be used as a standard to measure whether it is a good mother, nor should it be over-publicized, creating anxiety among mothers, and it should not be "morally kidnapped" for mothers who do not have a smooth birth and no breastfeeding.
I'm not a doctor and I'm not a professional. From a purely humanistic point of view, it is a matter of smooth production. Don't dwell on what must be delivered smoothly, the child must be squeezed through the birth canal to be healthy. Yes, there are many benefits to a smooth birth, and the harm to the mother is also small. But there are always people who do not have the conditions for normal delivery, and there are also mothers who really can't stand the severe pain of the tenth grade.
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At this time, caesarean section is a reasonable and free choice of human nature. There is no harm to the baby, and the mother can withstand the acceptable pain within the range of re-medication comfort. There's nothing wrong with making yourself less painful.
Breast milk is more nutritious and I don't need to repeat it. But is a mother who has no breast milk or has little breast milk qualified?
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I once saw a real case on social media. A mother who is crazy about breastfeeding has no breast milk for her own reasons. Even so, they refuse to feed their children formula. The child was hungry and crying. But she was unmoved and determined not to let the child drink milk powder. As a result, the child was so hungry and dehydrated that he was almost in danger of his life. She had to hurry up and feed it, and she has been feeding it ever since.
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This is an extreme case. I just want to say that no breast milk is not a good mother, and a person who knows that there is no breast milk and causes damage to the health of his child because of his own persistence is not a good mother.
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Mixed feelings, please stop creating anxiety for moms.
Please also, mothers, let yourself go.
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