Crush should be a bitter and mixed emotion, in general, if it can change from a single arrow to a double arrow of bright love, then the crush that has been bitter for many years can also be regarded as a positive result, but if the crush has not been opened, or has been buried in the heart, then it will be another ending.
Girl Xiaofei is an introverted girl, because of her mother's strength, so she is less assertive, later, Xiaofei met a strong boss, slowly, Xiaofei fell in love with each other, but she did not dare to show her heart.
In this way, Xiaofei has been secretly fond of her boss, thinking that as long as she can see her boss every day, she will be satisfied, but this series of "enclosure self-love" is still broken by her mother's strength.
Because Xiaofei has not been looking for a partner, the family is particularly worried about her personal problems, seeing that her daughter is about to step into the ranks of leftover women, the strong grandmother simply let her daughter go on a blind date, for this reason, the grandmother looked for a lot of excellent boys for her daughter everywhere, but never protested against her daughter, in the matter of blind date, the reaction was extremely fierce.
The confused grandmother forced her daughter Xiaofei to say the reason, and in desperation, Xiaofei told her mother that she had a crush for 6 years, so she was unwilling to go on a blind date.
The grandmother thought, since the daughter has a favorite person, then take it home to see, if appropriate, get married as soon as possible, who knows, Xiaofei said with a strong attitude: "Mom, you don't mix, he doesn't know that I like him, it is my own wishful thinking." ”
Hearing her daughter's words, the grandmother giggled a little, but all along, the grandmother was strong and accustomed, so she directly and forcefully let her daughter tell herself who the object of the crush was, and was forced to be helpless, Xiaofei still said that she had a crush on her boss.
At this point, the grandmother was instantly dissatisfied, because in her opinion, the age of the daughter's boss is not small, the probability is married, moreover, the daughter's 6-year crush, the other party cannot be unaware of it, perhaps the other party is simply confused, is a person who is not responsible.
Thinking about it, the grandmother simply asked Xiaofei to call her boss and directly picked things out, but Xiaofei was completely unwilling.
First, she just wants to bury her crush in her heart; second, if she picks out this matter, how to get along with her boss in the future; third, she feels that even if her boss says she likes herself, she will not agree, and she just wants to get along like this.
After that, the grandmother asked her daughter if she knew the situation of the boss's family, for example, whether the boss was married, etc., Xiaofei was silent for a while before giving an answer: I am not clear.
In the face of her stubborn daughter Xiaofei, the granddaughter who has always been strong does not know what to do, and in the end, this matter has been deadlocked.
To tell the truth, Xiaofei's psychology is indeed very awkward, not to mention whether the crush result is good or bad, but from the answer she told her grandmother, "Even if the boss likes her, she will not agree", the grandmother's anger is also excusable.
However, Xiaofei's reluctance to let her mother mix this matter may also have a lot to do with her mother's strength, in addition, there may be some secrets between Xiaofei and her boss, but it is not enough for outsiders.
What do you think about Xiaofei's crush 6 years ago? Is it to support her in talking to her boss about the matter, or to continue to maintain the status quo?
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