Yongshou Meiwen "From Yuan Longping to See the Influence of Mothers on Children" text: Fan Legion

"From Yuan Longping to see the influence of mothers on children" Text: Fan Legion

Elder Yuan's contribution to the people of Chinese, and even to the people of the world, is enormous, and his hybrid rice has solved the problem of hunger for billions of people. Undoubtedly, he was a great scientist, and his death is a great loss to the whole world. Throughout Yuan Lao's life, his mother's influence on him was profound.

Yuan Lao's mother, surnamed Hua and Jing, was born in 1902 to a wealthy merchant family in Yangzhou. She had a good education, worked as a teacher, and spoke fluent English. When Elder Yuan was very young, his mother enlightened him with English, so that in an isolated environment, Elder Yuan was able to transcend the vision of the times and seek out the genetics masters Mendel and Morgan. Hua Jing's mother told her son Nietzsche at the cradle about this great philosopher with high vitality and willpower.

Hua Jing's mother has lived in a big city all her life, and in 1957, when she was 55 years old, she resolutely came from Chongqing to Anjiang, a remote area in Hunan, to accompany her son and bring her grandson.

In the turbulent years, from Beiping to Hankou, from Taoyuan to Chongqing, and then to Anjiang, without his mother's persistence and encouragement, Elder Yuan would not have obtained a systematic modern education and gained the courage to soar in the great rivers! Elder Yuan changed the world with a seed that his mother planted when he was a child.

Writing this, I am reminded of the stories of many great mothers in history, and the well-known story is the story of "Meng Mu's Three Migrations". Mencius lived in a place close to the cemetery when he was a child, and as a result Mencius learned some worship and other things, and played the game of funerals. His mother said: "This place is not suitable for children. So he moved his family to the market, where Mencius learned something about trading and slaughtering. The mother thought again: "This place is still not suitable for children to live." So, she moved her family to the side of the School Palace. Here Mencius learned to bow and bow at the imperial court and the etiquette of retreating and retreating. At this time, Meng Mu said: "This is where the children live." "Finally, mother and son settled here. When Mencius grew up, he learned the Six Arts and gained the fame of Da Ru. Later generations thought that this was the result of Meng Mu's gradual indoctrination.

Chinese mothers are great, and foreign mothers are no exception. Edison's mother was Nancy, and she worked as an elementary school teacher before she married. From an early age, she trained Edison to learn from life and nature. When Edison was in elementary school, he often asked some strange questions, and the class teacher thought that Edison was mischievous and disturbed the discipline of the class, so he called Edison's mother to the school and asked his mother to take Edison home, saying that he was not a learning material. Edison's mother said to the teacher, "My son is not stupid at all, he is very smart, and I think you are a teacher who can't teach." In the end, Mother Nancy brought Edison home and educated the children in her own way. More than 1,000 inventions, the most famous is the invention of the electric lamp, Edison's great contribution to the world is self-evident, and his achievements are inseparable from the influence and education of his mother when he was a child. Edison recalled in his later years: "When my mother said to the class teacher, 'My child is very smart', my heart was warm, and I secretly resolved not to disappoint my mother. ”

Nancy's mother's words deserve our thoughts, she said: "I don't force him, I want to enjoy thinking with my son..." "I have never compared him to other children, each child is different, rather than reprimanding Edison, I would rather expand his strengths." 」 ”

19th-century mothers raise their children in this way, and enter the world today in the 21st century to see how Meyer Musk raised her children Elon Musk. Elon Musk is the CEO of Tesla Electric Vehicle Company and the CEO of SpaceX. His invention of the Falcon Heavy launch vehicle ushered in the era of private operations in space delivery. On January 9, 2021, Musk's personal assets reached $189.7 billion, becoming the world's new richest man. His mother said her greatest principle was to give her children freedom. Mother Meyer once said: "I do think Elon is different, which makes his peers dislike him very much." ”

For Elon's unique personality, Mom gave unconditional acceptance, respect and understanding. Mom said elon had behaved differently since he was a child, that he spoke late, was shy, and loved to read. When the whole family went shopping, they often found elon missing, so my mother ran to the nearest bookstore and always saw Elon sitting on the floor and reading a book intently.

In various interviews, whenever he talks about his mother, Elon will thank her mother for her unconditional support of his various fantastic ideas. He said: "The highest form of maternal love is to give freedom to the child, which my mother did very well. "My mother is my hero, and my success comes from her nurturing and influence."

The mother is the child's first teacher and is essential to the child's development. Now, from the lessons I have learned from 22 years of teaching, I will talk about my views on the cultivation and education of children, and if there is anything wrong, please criticize and correct it.

1, parents should be a person with a heart, to discover the uniqueness of the child, and then consciously to cultivate him/her. Throughout history, great people have been people with unique features.

2. Cultivate children's interests and give children more free space. In addition to completing their homework, children let them do what interests them. Interest is the best teacher, children can only invest in doing what they like to do, can they forget themselves.

3. Let children read more extracurricular books. Textbooks must be limited in school, and only by swimming in the ocean of books can the child expand his horizons and absorb knowledge, then his or her cultural learning will be on the right track and better.

4, constantly praise the children's shining points, encourage them, rather than hit and reprimand them. The potential for children's development is great, and in their slow growth process, their advantages will become more and more prominent, and their shortcomings will become less and less.

5, educate children to be patient, communicate with children more, talk to each other, patiently listen to them to tell you about their own observations, talk about their ideas, and then give you reasonable suggestions.

Children's growth and success are not accidental, they are all closely related to their childhood, and are related to the education and influence of their parents. Young parents, take a little effort to raise and influence your children, who can guarantee that your children will not be the next Mencius, Edison, Musk or Yuan Longping in the future?

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