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A little boy asked his father, "Does it always know more about being a father than a son?" ”
Dad replied, "Of course!" ”
The son asked, "Who invented the electric light?" ”
Dad replied, "Edison." ”
The son then asked, "Then why didn't Edison's father invent the electric light?" ”
This is also a question that has been asked for eternity, is a good father destined to have an excellent son? Why would a good son have a mediocre dad?
Edison was so good that it is said that none of his sons inherited his scientific cells, but instead produced an alcoholic and a slacker.
I don't know how Edison, who was so good at that time, treated such a son who was not a tool.
Now the world does not know how many people still regard Edison as an idol, I just remember the most popular dream when I was a child, that is, most children grow up to want to be a second Edison.
To this day, I don't know if a second Edison was born, but from a factual point of view, it is clear that the clever brain will not necessarily be passed on.
Then the most easily inherited is actually habits, whether it is good habits or bad habits, in life we will observe, we will find that a family out of the child, basically will have some of the same habits.
This is the habit of parents after a long period of living together, it is passed on to the child.
For example, what parents love to eat, generally children will also like to eat.
The personality characteristics of parents will be influenced by words and deeds to children, so that children will also have a strong imprint of parental personality in their speech and deeds.
This is the interesting connection between parents and children.
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Another joke goes that a son first noticed that his father had a few white hairs on his head and said to him, "Dad, you have white hair!" ”
"It's not all because you don't obey me and let me worry too much that I will grow white hair."
The son immediately said, "I finally know why my grandparents' hair has turned white!" ”
In the eyes of parents, it is estimated that there are no 100% obedient children.
When having a child, parents always hope to cultivate their children into talents according to their own ideas, but unfortunately, children will also have their own ideas and preferences, and it is difficult to live exactly according to the ideal appearance of their parents.
Even some children are particularly rebellious, and the more their parents want him to do something, he will turn against him.
Such children are not only teenagers, some people are rebellious in middle age, and there are many things that kill their parents.
What if I met such an inattentive son? Is it that parents have no way but to die of anger?
Therefore, through these two jokes, it can also be found that it is impossible for people to influence the fate of others, even their own sons.
If parents want to live comfortably, they must first live their own lives well, and then try their best to cultivate their children's love and make themselves and their children a person with righteous knowledge and righteous thoughts.
Only in this way can children and parents care about each other, and the parent-child relationship can become a desirable existence.
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