The marriage of children should be a happy thing, but some families who have daughters are not happy about the marriage of their children. The reason is that the objects brought back by the daughters are not only poor conditions, but also treat the daughters very casually, and they only want to give the money of the daughter's mother's family.
"Eating the dead" has quietly risen
This is the type of person who is now emerging, called "eating the family", this type of person is usually very general conditions, can not find a very good object. So they set their sights on an only child with a family of medium or higher.
At the beginning of the pursuit of love, for the girl is a variety of tender and sweet, until the two formally married, they immediately exposed their true appearance, lazy and not progressive, do not go out to work daily life rely on the woman to help, this kind of people have also become a new target for many children's families.
Yang Liu (pseudonym) is an example of being eaten up, Yang Liu looks like a doctor with a medium level, but one day she is frantically pursued by a handsome man with a height of 180+ (pseudonym), and under the sweet love offensive, she brought Liu Yu home.
Although the parents at home dislike Liu Yu's unstable job, they do not have a house or a car, and their parents in the countryside do not have any income. However, Yang Liu only needs to marry Liu Yu, and still seeks death and trouble, and her parents have no choice but to agree to the marriage between the two.
But after the two got married, Liu Yu revealed his true face. The tenderness when in love is all an illusion, delicious and lazy to do today's dislike of low wages to resign tomorrow is dislike of no future and no work.
In addition, after Yang Liu became pregnant, the family's food and clothing all depended on Yang Liu's parents. Not only that, Liu Yu often used yang Liu's name to find the old man's family to get money, and even asked the old man to pay for another 180 square meters of houses, the reason is to bring the parents and brothers from the countryside to live in the city.
These behaviors made Yang Liu's parents feel heartbroken, but they couldn't help but let their daughter and belly grandson go unnoticed. Until one day, Yang Yu swept away the valuable money in the family and eloped with another young and beautiful little girl, Yang Liu truly recognized Yang Yu's face and decided to start life again.
The emergence of this situation will undoubtedly ruin a girl's life, and parents must intervene more when facing the problem of their daughter's object. Avoid letting your daughter fall into the wrong hands of such ill-intentioned people.
But the root cause, parents still have to start educating their daughters from an early age, and only by cultivating their daughters properly can they accurately avoid "scumbags".
What points should I pay attention to when raising my daughter?
1. Give your daughter enough love
Many girls are deceived because they are too inferior in their hearts, not confident enough, and grow up with trauma in their hearts. Parents should give their children enough love during their children's growth, so that their children can become warm and kind, and they can be kind and friendly to others and have the skills to protect themselves.
2. Have the correct three views
Parents should instill normal values and world outlook on children from an early age, so that the children's life path can always go to the light, without going astray.
3. Parents should educate their children in principle
When parents educate their children, they should reward and punish them with moderation. Give appropriate punishment when doing something wrong, and when doing something right or worthy of praise, parents should not skimp on words of praise.
4. Let the child learn to socialize
Many times children are deceived because they do not have good social skills, so they are too introverted to have no correct understanding of this society. Parents should pay attention to their children's social skills from an early age to help them build their own self-confidence.
summary
A good marriage is mutual achievement, while a bad marriage can ruin a person. Therefore, parents must pay more attention to their daughters when cultivating them, so that their daughters can grow into an independent woman.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!