Li Na: I have been married for 13 years, I have not officially met my in-laws, and I have never changed my mouth.
Papi sauce: I have been married for 6 years and my parents have not met, and I and my husband go back to their respective homes for the New Year.
Li Na said in a show that she and her husband have been married for 13 years, but the family never cooks, all rely on takeaway.
The reporter asked what if a friend or in-laws came to the house?
Li Na said bluntly that she has been married for 13 years, although she has met her in-laws, but she has never been officially introduced, she still calls each other uncles and aunts like when she was a child, and she does not have the contact information of her in-laws.
The same situation as Li Na is papi sauce. Papi Sauce confessed in the show that since she and her husband got married, the parents of both sides have never met, and even every New Year's Day, she and her husband still go back to their respective homes.
Papi sauce believes that in the New Year, whether the son-in-law should take it home or not, whether the daughter-in-law should go to the in-laws' house, are all secondary, and the most important thing is to go home with their parents.
Many netizens prefer the practice of papi sauce, because for only children, if they cannot have both parents together for the New Year, it is better to accompany their parents, there is no need for moral kidnapping.
It was this practice of papi sauce, coupled with her career success, that papi sauce was once considered a representative of independent women in modern society.
In the "Daughters in Love" program, papi sauce ranks herself first in the order of "parents, partners, herself, and children", because she believes that she is the most important at any time.
But I didn't expect that such an independent woman as Papi Sauce was eventually insulted by netizens for having a child and following her father.
The origin of the matter is that after papi sauce gave birth to a child, it was not easy to be a mother on the social platform, and some netizens left a message after seeing it, "Papi sauce became so tired after being a mother, but the child still followed the father's surname."
Immediately, "papi sauce crown husband surname" caused a hot discussion:
The view of the netizens who denounced papi sauce is that as an independent woman, she is the only daughter in Shanghai, and she actually married a Shaanxi di si man, whose income is more than a hundred times that of the other party, and after giving birth to a child, she can't talk to her own surname, and talk about independent women.
Netizens who support papi sauce believe that the concept and behavior of papi sauce are undoubtedly representatives of contemporary independent women, and this cannot be denied because the child follows the father's surname. Does a woman's independence depend on whose surname the child is?
Xiaobian believes that papi sauce dares to insist that only children go home to accompany their parents in the context of the current general pursuit of "family reunion" in the New Year, and it has always been so, it can be seen that papi sauce is definitely not a person who has traditional concepts first.
As for the child's father's surname, as long as it is decided unanimously by two people, the ideas of others are superfluous.
What do you think about that?
