Li Xueqin asked papi sauce: "How many years have you been with your husband?" Papi Sauce: "We were together in 2009. Li Xueqin: "Wow, more than ten years, have you two quarreled?" Papi sauce: "We rarely quarreled before, but in the first year of having a child, we had to argue once a week, and now after the child is one year old, we rarely quarrel because my hormones have returned to calm." ”
Mao Buyi asked with some surprise: "Was it because of hormones before?" ”
Papi Sauce: "Yes, I was very angry because of a little thing." ”
Children for a couple, is really a huge test, many couples before having children are very good feelings, all day hip hop ha ha rare quarrels, but when the child is born, there will be some emotional deterioration between the husband and wife, specific can refer to the recent hit TV series "Dear Child".
In "Dear Child", Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu have also been together for many years, and when they were pregnant, the two were not bad, but when the child was born, the family was messed up, they also invited a sister-in-law, and the husband and wife often quarreled for the child, because the hormone level of the mother had not recovered after giving birth to the child, and they also cared about the child, very sensitive, and would enlarge any small thing.
And most of the men are thick lines, for small things do not care at all, so there is a problem in the cognition of the two people, the woman will feel that she is not valued, the child is not valued, the man will feel that the woman is making a big fuss, unreasonable, naturally there will be frequent quarrels.
Therefore, for a family, although children are a new hope for life, for couples, it is also a test, a test of feelings.
