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Uncle Gong in Chongqing found an old wife, but in the six years of marriage, he did not live together for a day. Uncle Gong is a blind man and it is very inconvenient to live alone. He wanted the reporter to help mediate.
Uncle Gong is 70 years old and lives alone in a rental house. More than thirty years ago, Uncle Gong divorced his ex-wife, and the only daughter was raised by his ex-wife. For many years, Uncle Gong did not keep in touch with them. More than ten years ago, Uncle Gong was blind due to illness, and after retirement, he had a retirement salary of more than 4,000 yuan per month. Six years ago, through the introduction, he met his current wife, Aunt Peng.
The two were licensed to marry in 2016, and Uncle Gong gave all his income to Aunt Peng. However, in Uncle Gong's view, Aunt Peng did not fulfill her promise after marriage.
Uncle Gong: I gave her all my bank card and more than 4,000 yuan of monthly pension, and all the 50,000 yuan of savings on the passbook were also given to her.
Reporter: After receiving the license, did you live together?
Uncle Gong: No, she didn't live with me all day, not even at night.
Uncle Gong said that he did not have real estate, the house was rented by Aunt Peng for him, the monthly rent was 300 yuan; Aunt Peng would come once a month to send Uncle Gong, who had diabetes, to the hospital to check blood sugar; usually, Aunt Peng would let the takeaway riders send some ingredients to Uncle Gong, and Uncle Gong could only grope for cooking.
A 70-year-old blind man who lives alone in a rental house and has to cook his own meals every day, Uncle Gong said, such a day is not the married life he wants.
Uncle Gong: Since they are husband and wife, everyone should share weal and woe and live together. She didn't want to live together, so I had to divorce and go to a nursing home by myself.
Later in the day of the interview with Uncle Gong, the reporter also contacted Aunt Peng by phone. Aunt Peng admitted that the two did not live together after marriage, not that Aunt Peng did not want to, but because there was a reason. Aunt Peng runs a tea house outside and is usually busy. Since Uncle Gong did not have real estate, Aunt Peng rented a house for him, and Uncle Gong was not satisfied with several rental houses that he had rented before, and finally decided on the current rental house. However, this rental house is not suitable for Aunt Peng. Because it is not an elevator room, you need to climb four stairs to go upstairs, Aunt Peng's legs and feet are inconvenient, and she can't climb the stairs, so she can't live with Uncle Gong at present, and can only live in her daughter's house. Recently, just in time for her daughter to become pregnant, Aunt Peng is preoccupied with taking care of her daughter and cannot care about Uncle Gong.
Aunt Peng said she was recently looking for a house that would satisfy both of her husband and wife, and that she would be able to find it by June. Regarding the problem of Uncle Gong's inconvenience in cooking, Aunt Peng said that she would try to send more cooked food to Uncle Gong next. Subsequently, the reporter gave feedback on these situations to Uncle Gong.
Uncle Gong said that he was willing to wait for Aunt Peng to rent the house again. We hope that the old two families will be able to communicate more, communicate more, support each other, and enjoy their old age in peace. For the difficulties that Uncle Gong is encountering at present, the reporter helped consult a lawyer. Tian Xiaojiang, a lawyer at Chongqing Baijun Law Firm, said that the husband and wife should fulfill their obligation to help, and aunt Peng's way of treating Uncle Gong was inappropriate. Lawyer Tian believes that Aunt Peng has not fulfilled the obligation of support that should be performed between husband and wife, and if serious consequences are caused, Aunt Peng may be suspected of constituting the crime of abandonment, and if Uncle Gong is not willing to continue to live, he can request a divorce. Due to Uncle Gong's mobility problems, he can also seek help from the local community.