Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Love is together, not love is separated? Don't make a fuss, not necessarily together because of love, separated is not necessarily because of not love!
Emotional things have always been very realistic, but women are mostly willing to dream. Occasionally, the dream is awakened by reality, and I have to close my eyes hard and connect the previous dream!
A woman's love brain is the main reason why moths fight fires and are full of holes!
But men, in their feelings, reason is destined to align themselves with reality when they make the final choice.
Therefore, we often see that women who run for love cry a lot in the end. For men who are "fit" to combine, happy people abound!
In contrast, men's "selfishness" should be "misappropriated" by women.
Why would you stick with it when a relationship doesn't make you better?
When women still have illusions about their tattered feelings, men have already embarked on a journey for who can make themselves better!
Becoming better is divided into two types: material life and spiritual satisfaction.
Women, on the other hand, are always accustomed to amplifying their "ability", believing that their efforts are the salvation of two people, and finally the remorse of self-awakening.
A man's love, when it comes to love and final choice, can change!
When in love, liking is together, and it can also accommodate all your personality and flaws. When it comes to finally choosing the rest of their lives, men prefer to cultivate love in the right "partner"!
When faced with reality, we really have to admit that although true feelings are priceless, reality and survival are more important.
The interaction between men and women, what men value, has never been the "love" of women! Men pay more attention to these three things than love:
First: the connotation of women!
Men love face far more than women can imagine.
In the hearts of the vast majority of men and even the whole of men, there is no one who does not want their partner for the rest of his life to behave decently, have a gentle temperament, are not easy to get angry, have a bottom line but have a general understanding, are wise and open-minded, and know how to transpose!
And women who can often do this are mostly women with certain cultivation and connotation.
In real life, we often see some women talking and behaving with "banditry", slightly unsmooth and breaking the horse Zhang Fei, and commanding men. In everything, as long as the man does not go along with his own will, he will immediately "domineering side leakage"...
Such a woman, if it were not for the value of her body, the man would definitely leave without stopping!
And a woman with connotation and cultivation will make men feel comfortable physically and mentally. When there is a problem, she will be the best military teacher for men. When there is pressure, she is the interpreter of men.
Women with connotations, like men's oxygen, can't be separated for half a moment!
In particular, when facing the outside world, there is a cultivated and connotative woman around the man, even if no one praises, the man also feels that he has face.
If such a woman has a little bit of posture, then the man loves it even more!
Second: a woman's reasonable "personality"!
Some men are just a typical slut! Too submissive to his own woman, he felt that there was no "taste". A woman with too strong a personality, he felt that he could not control it.
Some women, their best "means" to achieve marital happiness, is to grasp their own personality.
Reasonable personality needs to be based on an accurate grasp of men's psychology. Know when to be strong and when to be weak.
There is an old saying: If you look at the heat, there is nothing that cannot be done.
In the intercourse between men and women, women should understand what their purpose is. Do you want to be with the man in front of you for a long time, or do you want to end the relationship as soon as possible through your own excessive cowardice or excessive toughness?
It's easy to want the relationship to end, and it's not easy to want the relationship to continue.
If you don't want men to take their lives out of their own lives, you have to master the "heat".
Reasonable personality, easy for themselves, remarkable for men. If you feel tired of pandering to men or feel that men should cater to themselves, then you will definitely be unable to harvest happiness in your relationship because of your laziness.
Moreover, if you threaten to never cater to men to change their personality, then you must be miserable because you have not treated your marriage with the right mentality.
After all, you don't even know what you want.
Third: Women "help" their own reality!
When choosing the rest of her life, if a woman can bring better prospects and development to men, and is obsessed with men, then more than 80% of men will choose to combine.
At the moment of materialism, the reality that efforts may not be successful is doomed for some people to change their fate with the help of marriage and love.
In real life, we see some women with strong family strength, with medium-to-low appearance and weak advantages, but there is still an "excellent" husband by her side and cares for her.
In fact, the truth that men really care for women is to take care of the rest of their lives and futures!
When faced with feelings, who can give men greater help, men immediately make a choice.
Don't say how selfish and realistic men are, after all, there are a small number of women who dream of marrying into the rich. In a sense, they are equivalent psychology.
It's just that men behave more directly and obviously, and a few women are slightly euphemistic!
Don't say that men are too ugly to eat for reality, if there is an opportunity to have to work hard or even struggle for decades for the rest of their lives, there are really very few people who are not impressed!
Men's choices to help for the rest of their lives are the true side of the human heart and human nature. If you understand, you will be relieved!
Are the feelings of the current society really becoming more and more harsh on women! Obviously, I only want a feeling of love and mutual love, and I am slapped in the face in front of reality.
Therefore, after experiencing the pain of feelings and seeing all kinds of unsatisfactory real instances, I would rather enjoy loneliness in a person's day than blindly dedicate love in a relationship.
It's just that, no matter what, as long as you become truly beautiful, the people you meet must be evenly matched.
No one forces you to enter marriage, and no one really sees you single and will say that you are different, but at a certain age, you still have to abandon the prejudice of feelings and face marriage with a sunny mentality.
At least, a woman should have a child of her own in her lifetime, and her life is perfect! If you really can't find your ideal other half, then it is not impossible to really decide to be single for the rest of your life!
Otherwise, don't think back to the rest of your life one day, only to recall that there are defects and regrets in life, everything is too late because of age!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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