In the TV series "Heart Residence", the drawbacks of Shi Yuan (played by Feng Shaofeng) and Gu Qingyu (played by Tong Yao) lightning marriage are gradually revealed.
Gu Qingyu was impulsive, what she couldn't get was the best, she took the initiative to marry Shi Yuan under the drive of the love brain, and Shi Yuan also chose to accept and quickly enter the marriage siege because she was moved more than love.
A pure love that only depends on living in the early age of love sinuses cannot withstand the test of reality.
After marriage, Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan quarreled over various things, and once separated for several months and then reconciled as before. However, the relationship between the two is not firmly rooted, and the superstructure has become a castle in the air, and it is impossible not to waver when the mountain rain comes.
The biggest problem that crushed the marriage between the two was Shi Yuan's poverty.
Shi Yuan's biggest problem is that he will always swing the "backbone and poverty" scale in front of his wife! Even if the two men temporarily mended all the contradictions, they had something to say and said well, and they said that they would consider each other from their respective positions.
Gu Qingyu once said to her husband affectionately: Let's not be separated for the rest of our lives?
Shi Yuan also responded affectionately: Always be together!
But obviously, once he encounters a big problem, Shi Yuan's psychological problems will be exposed every minute, just because the pressure Gu Qingyu gave him is too great.
In the marriage path with Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan was superficially intimate with his wife, but in fact, he had gone farther and farther in his heart, and his wife's excellence and success overwhelmed him.
This is also why he would rather have Cindy's 500,000, rather rob Charlemagne's case, and risk his wife's career, but also prove his success!
But the problem is that in the case of "Hydrogen Feng", Shi Yuan was careless, he and Cindy were calculated by Jack Liu, even if Shi Yuan did not really steal his wife's plan, he was indefensible in front of the recording.
Gu Qingyu also listened to Zhan Xiang's advice and chose to forgive Shi Yuan's mistakes for love, but the problem was that Shi Yuan became more flustered in the face of his wife's composure.
In Shi Yuan's heart, he would rather his wife lose his temper and get angry with him than see her choose to tolerate and compromise for the sake of love.
The more generous Gu Qingyu was, the more Shi Yuan felt that he was ugly and despicable, and finally guilt turned into an outbreak of resentment, and he once again lost control, accusing his wife of taking the wrong medicine!
Originally thought that his concessions and tolerance would be exchanged for the feeling of a husband, but unexpectedly ushered in the other party's sneering and complaining, Gu Qingyu instantly tensed up and complained about the career crisis he encountered.
Gu Qingyu explained to Shi Yuan that because of the "Hydrogen Feng" case, her reputation in the entire industry was almost destroyed.
In the eyes of the company, he is a traitor, a treacherous person who unites her husband inside and outside!
Gu Qingyu said helplessly that he was likely to be unable to gain a foothold in the entire industry! It took me 20 years to get to the workplace position, and it was in vain!
Gu Qingyu's final outburst made Shi Yuan understand how much he had to pay for making mistakes, and easily destroyed the resources and achievements accumulated by his wife's 20-year career.
In the face of his wife's accusations, Shi Yuan's whole person broke out of control!
He can't forgive his mistakes, but he also can't calmly accept his wife's complaints, so he chooses to deal with it in a more extreme way: self-abandonment.
Shi Yuan finally did not want to hide his true thoughts in his heart anymore, and he hysterically told his wife: I am a bad person!
What was even more frightening was that Shi Yuan said something even more hurtful to Gu Qingyu.
He confessed that he was no longer the source of Shi Yuan, unwilling to listen to elegant music, unwilling to play the piano, and even more unwilling to eat any exquisite Western food.
Shi Yuan said that he now prefers to play mahjong, swear words, and smoke! And if he hadn't met Gu Qingyu, he would have married Lily by now!
It was this sentence that completely hurt Gu Qingyu's heart, and she cried and asked her husband: I made you uncomfortable, will you only be comfortable if you marry Lily?
The husband and wife have made a lot of trouble, the three views are not in harmony, and the values of the two sides are completely different.
In the end, Shi Yuan left three harsh words: The previous Shi Yuan was dead!
"We are already people of two worlds!"
"We shouldn't meet again!"
Three sentences, each sentence is a deep negation of the relationship and marriage between the two.
Every sentence was like a knife piercing Gu Qingyu's heart!
What Shi Yuan said was not angry words, but the real feelings after hidden tolerance, he vented word by word, crushing the good memories of Gu Qingyu's first love that he had treasured for more than 20 years.
Gu Qingyu didn't even think that the true love he was looking for had become a big joke in the end!
Not cherished by Shi Yuan, but also trampled by the other party in this way.
Shi Yuan eventually filed for divorce first, and Gu Qingyu was completely sober.
In the face of all the denials of her husband, Gu Qingyu has come out of the beautiful dream she has woven, and reality has taught her a good lesson. She finally understood that even a consensual love could not go through difficult years because of mutual tolerance.
Gu Qingyu's sobriety, how many women with love brains have awakened?
An inappropriate marriage is tantamount to planting a mine at the beginning, and it is only a matter of time before it is detonated.
In fact, I can understand the reason for Shi Yuan's madness, in his opinion, in order to be touched and love, he chose to marry a wife who was much better than himself.
But he found that no matter how hard he tried, he could never catch up with his wife's footsteps and always looked forward to her.
What is even more frightening is that he thinks that by entering "Aimeng", he thinks that by taking the list of "Hydrogen Feng", he can achieve a leap with his wife. But reality woke him up, and the final failure made Shi Yuan see himself completely, that is, a poor worm who would fail in everything he did.
Therefore, the harder he tried, the more sad he became, letting Shi Yuan completely deny his love and fate, his self-motivation and efforts had been exhausted in setbacks, and all that was left was endless self-hatred and self-pity.
This is also the reason why he finally showed his wife a showdown, Shi Yuan is tired, he is more willing to accept that he is a bad rough person, rather than because of his wife's superiority, and force himself to be a delicate success.
Shi Yuan is like participating in a "metamorphosis" in his marriage, he has actually predicted the outcome.
From another point of view, the ending of Shi Yuan and Gu Lei is actually the same destination.
Two people, one is forced to work hard, one is forced to advance in disguise, Gu Lei is really dead, but Shi Yuan personally said that "the one who used to be himself has long been dead", and the end of both people is a failure, and the price is too high.
Shi Yuan's divorce was the most correct choice, and what he let go of was not Gu Qingyu, but himself.