I have a happy family of five, father-in-law, mother-in-law, husband, me and a lively and sensible son. My family does not have any vigorous deeds, but our whole family guards the most authentic happiness and enjoys the most comfortable life with their hard work, simplicity and tolerance.
First, cast a solid foundation of harmony and work together to create a cause
I married my husband in 2011 and with our joint efforts, I run this harmonious and wonderful family. My husband is a self-employed person, with his own flexible mind, he will start his own business and develop, as long as he is willing to do it and has already investigated mature projects, I will fully support it. And I am a group worker cadre, usually busy with work, often overtime, no time to take care of children. In order to support our work, the two elderly people moved back to the city from the pastoral area, helping me pick up and drop off my children, cook, and be my strong backing every day. Even if I work late, as soon as I get home, I can eat the hot and fragrant meals that my mother-in-law has made for me, and I can see my sensible son studying on his own. It is with the support of my family that I can work wholeheartedly.
Second, adhere to the practice of the body, carry forward the family virtues
Honoring our parents is everyone's unshirkable duty and our duty. When the in-laws were young, they engaged in heavy physical labor, leaving irreversible pain to the body, coupled with their advanced age in recent years, their physical condition was not very good, and they needed medical treatment and medicine all year round. During the period when my father-in-law was ill and hospitalized, our husband and wife and my husband's sister's family have been accompanied by each other, afraid that the old man will have a little discomfort. Patients in the same ward saw us serving with all our hearts and threw envious glances at our father-in-law.
Third, inherit the respect for the elderly and teach the children, and carry forward the virtue of respecting the elderly
When the in-laws are older, especially after leaving the pastoral area where they have lived for more than 40 years, they often feel that life is not adaptable. In addition to the intense work, we often dine with two elderly people, travel together on holidays, and try to reunite with our parents as much as possible, so that they can enjoy the joy of children and grandchildren around their knees.
Teaching by example is better than words, and our son is also under our influence, helping to do housework after school every day, washing the feet of grandparents every night, and taking out the money he has saved to buy gifts for two elderly people, knowing how to sympathize with the hard work of parents, understanding parents, and concentrating on learning.
Fourth, create neighborhood harmony, care for the community
Know each other far and near, thousands of miles are still neighbors. In the community where the in-laws live, there is a child raised only by grandparents, and the two elderly people support the family on weekdays by earning a meager income from odd jobs. The mother-in-law is a warm-hearted person, and seeing that this child is pitiful, she will often send meat, vegetables and other necessities of life. At the same time, he said to us: "Let's eat less, let the child eat more, it is growing body!" "A simple and simple sentence that shows the love between people. We express our support for the mother-in-law's move. In the face of natural disasters, our small family, like thousands of compatriots, has not hesitated to lend a helping hand.
Home and everything. A harmonious family is to "treat others sincerely, live in harmony, respect and love each other." So I often comfort myself to know how to be happy and be kind to myself and my family, and my efforts have also made me happy and warm. May we add a "most beautiful family" every day, and may our society become more and more beautiful.
