Take care of a sick mother-in-law
After feeding her mother-in-law two buns for breakfast, Li Zhu felt that the porridge was still a little hot, and she kept blowing in her mouth, before picking up the spoon and delivering it to her mother-in-law's mouth little by little.
The 82-year-old mother-in-law is also plagued by diseases, cerebral infarction, arthritis, gallstones, plus Parkinson's, and now she can only lie in bed, and even need help to turn over. Li Zhu remembers that in 2011, her mother-in-law was not in good health, and at that time, she could still rely on a wheelchair for mobility, but 4 years ago, she was paralyzed in bed when she was seriously ill.
It is still a bit embarrassing for the son to take care of, so for so many years, the daughter-in-law who takes care of the mother-in-law the most is the daughter-in-law Li Pearl. Also because of the sick old man, Li Zhu warmed a home with the most simple filial piety.
Daughter-in-law takes good care of her
The spring cold is steep, and the Lantern Festival has cooled down suddenly just after. On February 17, in Qujia Village, Xinxing Street, Yanliang, the neat cherry blossom trees along the road made people look forward to the "red clouds" full of branches in the near future.
The living room is hung with "room yaren" a few big words, the green plants in the whole house are growing very well, especially a pot of fan-shaped tree cacti, the top green is very exuberant, and the home is paved with floor heating and is cleaned up.
In a bedroom, after Li Zhu gave her mother-in-law breakfast, she sat on the edge of the bed, whispering with her mother-in-law while feeding water. Four years ago, the mother-in-law could also drink water with a straw, and then even the strength to suck did not have it, Li Pearl needed to feed spoon by spoon, plus the mother-in-law's teeth were not very good, so it took more than an hour to feed a meal. With Parkinson's, the mother-in-law's hands were shaking so badly that she couldn't even hold a cookie. "Doctors say that this disease must be carefully taken care of in order to prolong life."
Every once in a while to help the mother-in-law turn over, by the way massage, Li Pearl found that the mother-in-law's buttocks are a little red, she is afraid that it is pressed for a long time, quickly take the medicine and carefully smear it. "The mother felt that her son was a little embarrassed to take care of her son, so she asked her daughter-in-law to help her with anything." So I often have to stay by my side, and if I leave for a while, my mother-in-law will "pearl!" pearl! "Shouting at the daughter-in-law.
Well looked after
When she was just sick, for 20 days, Li Zhu had been guarding at night, and as soon as her mother-in-law moved, she would get up to take care of it. Dealing with the mother-in-law's dirty bedding has never been abandoned.
A few good memories are still fresh
Compared with his own acute son, husband Qu Zhengquan has always felt that his wife has a good personality and is very patient in taking care of the elderly. In the village, Li Zhu is a warm-hearted person, and there is a red and white happy event that will help, and the most she does is to help wash the dishes, so the neighbors get along very well.
At home, as soon as the old man shouted, the daughter-in-law immediately passed, helped to turn over, put her legs and feet in the right place, and then covered the quilt. At this time, the mother-in-law began to "file a complaint" to the daughter-in-law, saying that her son had just turned over uncomfortable and would not let her son help in the future. Li Zhu smiled and tucked the quilt for her mother-in-law, she knew that her husband was also working hard outside, and it was not easy to support the family.
Lee Pearl
In 1993, 21-year-old Li Zhu married from Beitun Chuanxin to Qujia Village in Xinxing Subdistrict. When she first married, her father-in-law was in very bad health, had a serious heart attack, and had shortness of breath at night. In those years, often in the middle of the night, the panicked mother-in-law shouted loudly at her son and daughter-in-law. "We will hurry over and press the acupuncture points on the father-in-law's hand, and rub it while pressing, and the father-in-law will slowly get better." Staying together throughout the night, the family encouraged each other.
Her father-in-law died in 2000, and Li Zhu remembers that her young daughter was just 50 days old. It was also the blow of the death of a loved one, and the daughter-in-law found that from that day on, the mother-in-law had a hand shaking disease, but it was not too serious. "The mother-in-law helps with the child when she is in good health, and the child's clothes are sewn by her own hand." Talking about the past, Li Zhu still remembers the good little things that her mother-in-law had for her. At that time, she and her husband planted more than 10 acres of greenhouse vegetables together, and her mother-in-law often came to the field to help, and the meals would be specially delivered.
Diligence maintains the warmth of home
After her mother-in-law fell ill, Li Zhu rarely went out, nor did she have time to go out, after all, there were sick elderly people who needed close care. The husband runs outside alone to sell and support the family, and the daughter-in-law Li Zhu takes full care of her mother-in-law, cleans up the housework, and maintains the warmth of a home with hard work.
Li Pearl's body is actually not very good, the early years of hard work, so that the lumbar spine also fell the root of the disease, the doctor recommended hospitalization lying quiet for more than ten days, "If I am hospitalized, the family will not be chaotic, the mother still needs me to take care of it." Li Zhu said that recently her hands have always been inexplicably numb, but think of the old man, no matter how tired it is worth it.
After lunch, Li Zhu accompanied her mother-in-law to chat, and when she was fine before, her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also liked the short nagging in the parents. Li Zhu felt that her mother-in-law's life was not easy. A son died 30 years ago, and the old man often nags that his son is also overworked. The girl died of kidney failure two years ago, and the family did not dare to tell the old man about this matter. However, the old man seemed to have a feeling, and Li Zhu could only comfort her mother-in-law with one kind lie after another.
After changing the diapers and not getting wet, Li Pearl was ready to wipe her mother-in-law's body. "Pearl, you have worked hard, other people's daughters-in-law can go out and walk around, and you still have to guard me." Muttering these words, the mother-in-law tried to raise her hand to touch her daughter-in-law. But when people from the family mention the goodness of their daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law will cry, and she feels that it is because of the daughter-in-law's care for herself that she has today.
The mother-in-law understood her efforts, and Li Zhu said that she was very satisfied. Wrapped up in an apron and took advantage of the fact that her mother-in-law could sleep, Li Zhu went into the kitchen to get busy again, poured water and noodles, and began to make noodles that her mother-in-law loved to eat.