After the start of school...
Teacher, Xinxin still can't use a spoon, you help to feed it at noon...
Teacher, my girlfriend does not like to drink water, you help to remind!
Teacher, my family Haohao is weak, you take care of it more on weekdays! Trouble you!
Since the beginning of the school, many parents will communicate with the teacher, and repeatedly tell their baby to return to kindergarten has a lot of discomfort, hoping that the teacher will take more care of the baby...
As parents, we can all understand that we are anxious and worried about our children and are afraid that their children will not be able to adapt to the kindergarten for a while. However, such a request is not only unhelpful to the child, but also embarrasses the teacher.
In order to avoid unnecessary communication misunderstandings and better realize home co-parenting to help children grow up happily, I hope that parents will pay attention to the following six aspects of details when communicating with teachers.
1. Be considerate of the teacher, but also believe in the teacher's professionalism
"Teacher, Duo Duo especially likes to cry, please hug her more!"
"Teacher, the toy car every day is lost, please help find it!"
Every child is a parent's baby, and we hope that the teacher can treat every child fairly on the one hand, and on the other hand, we hope that the teacher can take extra care of their children.
For example, when arranging seats or queuing, there will always be children who are arranged in the back, at which time some parents will call to ask their children to be in front, and even some parents think that their children are lined up in the back or on the side because the teacher does not like ta...
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It's a terrible mistake to think that way!
In fact, the teacher treats all children equally, and who is in the front and who is in the back is carefully considered:
The shorter child is in the front, the taller child is a little behind, so that the children in front will not block the back of the road, and every teacher in the team can clearly see; the baby who is more skilled in the exercise is in front of the line, playing a demonstration role, and when the children in the back forget the action, they can look at the children in front...
Moreover, the children themselves do not care where they are lined up, for them, it is enough to be happy, but they care about the parents.
If parents put forward too many unreasonable requirements, it will not only add pressure to the teacher, but also interfere with the normal work of the teacher. You know, in your eyes there is only one baby, and in the eyes of the teacher, everyone is a baby.
2. Respect the teacher, the teacher ≠ the nanny
"Teacher. Go the trouble and give my kids some water."
"Teacher Haohao did not defecate today, remember to let him defecate"
In the class group, every day someone called the teacher, "The teacher gives the child more water", "The teacher Haohao did not have a stool today, remember to let him defecate", "Teacher, the cute oil painting stick forgot to bring, please borrow it for her first"... Scenes like this are played out every day.
Teachers are busy taking care of children and organizing educational activities, and sometimes they are too late to reply to messages and are complained by parents that they are not careful.
In this process, the teacher does not complete these things for the child, but a professional guide, so that the child learns to grow on his own. Don't worry about the child's daily life in the kindergarten, I believe that the teachers are professionally trained, they can make the child grow and progress faster. Unless it is a special situation such as a child's illness, the child's daily life should let the child make his own decisions and learn to manage himself.
3. Trust the teacher and correctly treat the teacher's "complaint"
"The teacher said my kids were picky eaters? How could it be! ”
"Teacher, my family is obviously well-behaved, it is impossible to hit people, is there any misunderstanding?"
In the face of the teacher's "complaint feedback", some parents will express their anger at the first reaction. The profession of kindergarten teacher is a kind of profession with its own "black recruitment": if there is a problem, it will make people feel that they do not care about the child; it is too clear and may make parents feel uncomfortable.
In fact, the teacher is willing to take the initiative to communicate with parents, which shows that the teacher puts the child in mind and expects the parents to cooperate with the school and change the child's bad behavior habits.
We must trust the teacher and cooperate with the teacher's education, rather than questioning and complaining about the teacher's "complaint".
4. Have "controversial" issues and communicate privately with the teacher
"My kids are very well-behaved, how can they fight in school?"
"Is the child not full at school?"
When some parents question some of the school's practices, they will use the opportunity to pick up and drop off their children, question the teacher in public, or directly denounce the teacher's fault in the WeChat group.
Children in school will definitely encounter a variety of situations, when the child has a special event, should calmly communicate with the teacher, understand the ins and outs of the matter, solve the problem together, rather than accusations and rough handling, through the network to trigger an argument is more meaningless, encounter things on the loud in the group of parents, is the teacher's least favorite parents, excessive reaction will also affect the daily life between the child and the kindergarten, in fact, it is very undesirable Oh.
The class group is a bridge for everyone to communicate and communicate, not a place to solve contradictions and evaluate. The wrong way of speaking and communicating is likely to cause unnecessary misunderstandings and make each other feel embarrassed, so the controversial matter does not enter the "group".
5. The best incentive for teachers is the affirmation of parents
"Kids have been washing their own socks and handkerchiefs lately, thanks to the teacher!"
"Teacher, this activity is so well organized, me and the children are very rewarding!"
Teachers are also eager to be recognized by parents, so when you see the hard work of teachers, feel the growth and progress of children, or you have gained professional parenting new skills from school, don't skimp on praise, you may wish to say thank you to the teacher from the bottom of your heart.
These simple encouragements and affirmations may be the biggest motivation for teachers to stick to their posts. At the same time, only when parents respect the teacher, children can emotionally love them, and teachers and students will get along more harmoniously.
6. Take the initiative to cooperate and actively support the work of teachers
"Do you still want parents to hold an event?" I don't have time to go, I have to take a leave of absence!. ”
"There are so many spare time to accompany the handicrafts and paintings, there are so many things in school."
Kindergartens often hold some parent-child activities or arrange some parent-child homework, and from time to time let children bring some small items, such as toothpaste packaging boxes, beverage bottles, cartons... For this situation, many parents expressed their incomprehension; the direct rejection of parent-child activities proposed by the teacher would make it difficult for the teacher's work to be carried out. The moderate cooperation of parents is undoubtedly a great support and help for busy teachers.
The teacher is the person who has been in contact with the child for the longest time in a day and is also the one who can most detect problems with the child. When the teacher finds the child's problems and improvements, the parents actively cooperate with the teacher's work, adopt the teacher's educational advice, and finally grow up to the child.
On the contrary, if you do not cooperate with the teacher's work, or just perfunctory teachers, then the child's growth will not only lack the corresponding parent-child companionship, but also greatly reduce the educational effect of the kindergarten, and it is impossible to achieve good home co-education.
Cheers for back-to-school season!
The education of children is inseparable from the joint efforts of both sides of the homeland, and only when the two sides of the homeland cooperate with each other, trust each other and support each other can we do the best thing in educating children.
Therefore, I hope that parents can do their best to cooperate with the work of teachers within their own capabilities. After all, cooperating with the teacher's work is also supporting the growth of their children.
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