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Hao Hao is 8 months old and is a cute little boy, but recently Hao Hao has a bad problem, that is, he especially likes to hit people.
Whether it is a mother or a grandmother or a grandfather holding him, when he plays, he will slap the adult's face with one hand, and it hurts a lot.
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Grandma and grandpa are very spoiled for the child, see the child hit himself and do not say anything, but also laugh and giggle, the child feels more fun will play harder.
And every time my mother was beaten by Haohao, she said to Haohao, "No, it hurts you to beat your mother so much, your mother gave birth to you and raised you so hard, you still beat your mother!" ”
Hao Hao cried when he heard his mother say this!
Two days ago, my aunt came back to buy a few pounds of bananas, my mother peeled a banana to half cut for Hao Hao to eat, Hao Hao ate two bites and then took it and kept kneading the banana, and played very well, playing happily.
Mom is also very angry when she sees Hao hao playing dirty, don't play with food, food is for eating, not for play, Hao Hao was scolded and cried again!
When Hao Hao was playing in the living room, he found that there were many small holes in the socket and used his hands to cut it, which scared his mother to quickly seal the socket with tape!
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So Haohao's mother consulted other children in the group is not such a situation? I didn't expect that the children of the world were the same.
There is a mother who said that when she got up in the morning, the child got up first and did not get up, and as soon as the child slapped his face, he pretended to sleep and did not wake up, and as a result, the child also used his hand to cut his mother's eyes, and he almost cut him blind.
There are also mothers who say that the complementary foods they make for their children are half eaten and half played, and they often pinch food to play.
There are also mothers who say that after having a child, the sockets in the home should be equipped with protective covers, otherwise the children will go to the holes in the sockets, afraid of leakage.
The child is about 6 months old, and begins to enter the sensitive period of hand movements, and parents learn to guide their children to be smarter
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After six months, the child especially likes to feel the world with his hands, pinch toys or pinch food with his hands, or use his hands to hit his mother, hit other things, knock on toys in the house, throw things and cut holes.
These are children using their hands to feel the world, and the development of fine hand movements is closely related to the child's mental development level.
The increase in the movement of the child's hand is actually an important signal representing the baby's intellectual development, especially the development of attention.
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The child's hand movements increase and attention develops, changing from passive audiovisual to active kinesthetic attention.
The child listens to what the child says before 6 months, and the mother sees what the child sees when she gives it, which is very passive.
By the time the child is 6 months old, he can sit up and start to eat complementary foods, his brain is more mature, the fine movements of his hands are more perfect, and he will actively explore some things with his hands.
Therefore, when children pinch food, they are actually feeling the characteristics of food, hot and cold, especially they can pinch food into different shapes, which is actually a child exercising their creativity.
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The child hits the mother or picks the mother, which is actually the child's hand to feel the mother, he goes to exercise the movement of his hand.
Children like to cut small holes, that is also the child began to pay attention to very subtle things, his observation will be more detailed.
Parents are well guided, which can allow children to better explore the world during the sensitive period of hand, better stimulate the brain, and are more conducive to cultivating children's attention and concentration, so that children are smarter.
When the child hits someone, the mother should not scold the child, nor should she tie the child's hand, but tell the child that when touching the mother's face, it is lighter, otherwise the mother will hurt, so the child will be lighter when he uses his hand.
The child plays with pinch food, which is also his natural instinct, so do not make too much food for the child, let him eat almost a little, you can also prepare some flour balls for the child to knead, exercise his hands fine movements.
As long as parents can correctly guide their children through this period, let the children develop better in fine movements, and they will be smarter in the future.
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