After the woman went abroad, she did not hear from her parents, and her parents who suffered from cancer looked for 16 years to find out: the daughter is a professor and has long been married.
In Liaoning, the mainland, such an incident occurred, there was a bully, although the family was very poor, but her parents still tried to support her going abroad. After going abroad, Xueba disconnected from his parents, what kind of things happened between them? What about children who have not heard from them for more than 20 years?
The bully we introduce today is called Cao Qian, she was born in Liaoning in 1979, her family is not rich, but because she is the only daughter in the family, so although the conditions in the family are not very good, parents will still give the best things to their children.
Because Cao Qian's body has not been particularly good since she was a child, her parents are not willing to spend money on themselves and buy a variety of nutritional products for their children to eat. And sometimes the child has a high fever in the middle of the night, and the father quickly takes her to the hospital.
She is also very sensible and especially considerate of her parents. She did not ask her parents what particularly expensive things she wanted since she was a child, and she did not lose her temper with her parents, this is a serious study, in learning, she is the kind of other people's children that everyone calls.
She can get a lot of awards every time she takes the exam, and the parents are very relieved to see their children performing so well, and they are not worried about her future life at all. At the time of the college entrance examination, she did not disappoint her parents, and was successfully admitted to Liaoning Normal University, which is also a very good university in the local area.
In terms of tuition fees, she did not let her parents worry more, her results in each exam were very good, she was able to get the school scholarship, she did not need her parents to spend money, she was able to make up her own tuition and living expenses, without giving her parents too much pressure on life.
And what makes her parents happiest is that in 2000, because of Cao Qian's special performance in school, she was given the opportunity to study in Germany.
However, going to Germany to study is not a trivial matter, although the school gave her this opportunity, but the final decision is still in her hands.
Cao Qian understands that if she wants to get ahead, this time to go abroad is definitely the best opportunity, she very much wants to seize this opportunity, but her heart is also very entangled, because going abroad requires a lot of tuition, the family situation is difficult to support. After a long time of struggle, she decided to discuss the matter with her parents.
The child has such a good opportunity, the parents of course hope that she can firmly grasp it, although the family situation at that time was very difficult, the parents could only save 100 yuan per month, but the father did not refuse this matter in the end, so that the child could go to school abroad with peace of mind.
They pieced together, borrowed money from relatives, and worked harder to earn money, almost two years later, parents saved 70,000 yuan for their children, and made up the first cost of their children going abroad.
Cao Qian got the opportunity to study in Germany very smoothly, and when she first arrived in Germany, Cao Qian called her parents to report that she was safe, but in just two minutes, she spent 8 yuan.
She and her parents were very distressed, after all, the money was not easy to come by, so they agreed with each other that they would not call each other, but write letters instead.
Probably because of the busyness of school in Germany, Cao Qian only sent two letters to her family a year, and at the New Year, she also said that she did not go back, she worked locally to maintain her studies, and her parents could understand their children.
Cao Qian's life in Germany is actually very difficult, but she does not want to be a burden to the family, so she has been working and studying, which has also led to fewer and fewer contacts between the two sides.
After studying in Germany for two years, Cao Qian never returned home once, nor did she see her parents. After all, they only have one daughter, Cao Qian, and they miss him very much after not seeing him for two years, so I hope he can go home to see them, and Cao Qian also said that after the completion of his junior year, he will go home to visit them.
After a long time of waiting, the daughter finally called, but instead of going home, she told her parents that she was going to participate in an off-campus event and now she needed money urgently.
However, the money for the usual part-time work is simply not enough, the parents believe in their children very much, although they do not know what the specific activities are, but they still meet the requirements of the children, but the family is already in debt, in the face of this request, the father is somewhat incompetent.
After some effort, the father finally made up more than 30,000 yuan and sent it to his daughter. But after the money was sent, she lost contact with her daughter, but it was 10 months later that Cao Qian called home again.
This time, her father was very angry and asked her why she lost contact after getting the money at that time, because her father was angry, so the tone of the speech was very bad, and the two finally broke up unhappily.
Since then, Cao Qian has never contacted her family again, and she has completely disappeared. The parents were also very anxious at that time, asking around for the news of their children, but they only knew that Cao Qian had opinions about her own family and did not want to see her parents.
Soon after, the parents were diagnosed with advanced cancer, they were very helpless, no longer willing to be treated, just hope to see their children again.
Through the help of the media, they found their children, Cao Qian has long changed her name, lived very well in Germany, and became a tenured professor at the University of Munich, has her own family, and her parents are very happy to hear that their children are now so successful.
Parents don't actually need Cao Qian to provide for them, the only thing they hope is that their daughter can go home and see herself. Although Cao Qian has prejudices against her parents, she should still communicate well with her parents and accompany them well, they have sacrificed too much for the growth of their children.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
Colleagues show this book to children, usually children also tutor mathematics, sometimes feel that cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also use what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!