01 I don't quite believe that after a marriage relationship ends, the relationship is gone in an instant. Many times although the marriage is divorced, but when it comes to the ex, we will still have more or less attachment in our hearts.
Just like Su Mingcheng and Zhu Li in the TV series "All Is Good", even if they have gone through divorce procedures, they still have deep feelings for each other. Su Mingcheng is very nostalgic for Zhu Li, to be precise, she still loves her; Zhu Li also has feelings for Su Mingcheng, otherwise she would not have taken the initiative to give Su Mingcheng the money to sell the house, and she did not think about it when Su Mingcheng asked her to go.
The marriages were divorced, but the feelings between Zhu Li and Su Mingcheng did not disperse.
In the finale, although Su Mingcheng and Zhu Li did not remarry, I think that if there is a divorced couple with the same situation as them in reality, they will definitely remarry.
Divorce is divided into many situations: some couples really don't want to quarrel anymore, and when the two of them get along, they are like enemies; but there is also a kind of couple who is divorced by gambling, quarreling to the point of no end, no one will bow their heads, and two people say that divorce is divorced. Marriage is divorced, but they still have feelings for each other. This kind of divorced couple often remarries, and when they realize their feelings for each other after losing, they will regret how they divorced in the first place.
Mr. Kang is like this, after divorcing his ex-wife for three years and remarrying, Mr. Kang is very grateful for everything, he feels that he is lucky, he can even get his ex-wife back, and he can also win the forgiveness of his ex-wife. Fortunately, in the three years of divorce, he did not find it, she did not remarry, they are all deeply in love with each other.
02
When I divorced, I gave her a hundred thousand, two houses
When Mr. Kang divorced his ex-wife, he was afraid that she would be in trouble, so he gave her 100,000 yuan and two houses. When his mother heard this, she scolded him for being too stupid, "Why did you give her so much property?" You are not afraid that she will take your money to support other men, and when the time comes to be with other men, what will it have to do with you."
The mother said, Mr. Kang did not think about it, but he thought, the child is following the ex-wife, he is a big man can not be too stingy, resulting in the child with the mother is not good. Besides, I have three houses, what's wrong with giving my ex-wife two sets, I can't watch her live on the street when she is in trouble.
If it weren't for love, who would worry about an ex-wife having a bad time after divorce?
In the first year of divorce, Mr. Kang always inquired about his ex-wife's news through various channels, and he would go to help him as soon as he knew that his ex-wife encountered major events. After the divorce, his mother also introduced him to several blind dates, and mr. Kang did not follow up after meeting him, or he still often ran to his ex-wife. Especially when he learned that his ex-wife's mother had advanced colon cancer, he went to visit as a family member.
Before dying, she shook Mr. Kang's hand and said, "I know you are divorced, and you are all hiding from me, but I still know." Listen to me, and then remarry, you said that you two still have feelings for each other, why do you have to divorce. Cherish it, I have given my daughter to you. ”
Listening to his ex-mother-in-law's words, Mr. Kang's eyes became moist.
After his ex-mother-in-law's funeral, One night Mr. Kang was leaving, but his ex-wife told him, "Stay with me." On that night, they drank a lot of wine, and Mr. Kang was not drunk, so he looked at his ex-wife like that, cup after cup. The ex-wife was drunk, and after drinking until she threw up, she sat directly on the ground and cried: "Actually, I didn't want to leave you when I divorced, but do you know how bitter I was in marriage?" Your mother looks down on me, we can't get along, and she and my mother can't go together. Whatever I tell you you ignores my existence. I could only divorce my marriage, but I didn't expect that you would really divorce me. ”
When he was not divorced, Mr. Kang always felt that his wife was carefree, how to find trouble for him all day long? When he really got divorced and listened to his ex-wife's drunken words, he realized that he had blamed her. It was because she couldn't have a second child because of her body, and then her mother gave her all the pressure, and she was also very bitter.
His ex-wife was sick and he accompanied him all the way to seek medical treatment
In the second year of divorce, the ex-wife fell ill, she was severely anemic because of uterine fibroids, and her body was so bad that she could not do it, and Mr. Kang took her to seek medical treatment. In the end, the hysterectomy was also signed by Mr. Kang. Before the operation, his ex-wife asked him: "If you really get removed, you will never have children again, don't you always want to have a daughter?" If you signed, you wouldn't have your little lover anymore. ”
Mr. Kang hugged her and smiled and said, "Aren't we divorced?" Why have a daughter? Having a son is not enough, being a person cannot be so greedy, and how many people want children. Cut it, I'll accompany you. You are the most important thing to me, and if I don't have you, I will live like the walking dead. I'm not happy with divorcing you, I've been regretting it, and I blame it for not protecting you. ”
When it comes to this, there is no word for each other, only tears.
Later, every day after the operation, the ex-wife was hospitalized, and Mr. Kang helped to take care of it. The mother did not understand Mr. Kang's approach, and Mr. Kang said, "Mom, you are responsible for taking care of your grandson, and the rest will be left alone." Mom, you think, if your grandson doesn't have a mother, he will become a motherless child, how pitiful. It's like I didn't have you. ”
His mother stopped stopping him, and Mr. Kang continued to take good care of his ex-wife until she recovered and was discharged from the hospital.
Mr. Kang once encountered a small car accident, no one was in serious trouble but his leg was injured, and his ex-wife came to him at the first time after knowing it to take care of his daily life. Mr. Kang later talked about his remarriage with his ex-wife, saying: "The two of us are a couple in distress, I take care of her when she is sick, she takes care of me when I am sick, and neither of us has two hearts." ”
The ex-wife was later dismissed for no reason by the unit, and the first one called Mr. Kang, he said: "You don't cry, I will take you home, let's eat." ”
After that meal, they remarried.
Mr. Kang said: "Even if I find another one, it will definitely not be as good as my ex-wife, and I can't be inseparable from her in this life." I didn't go a day after the divorce that I didn't miss her, and it would be hard to know that she wasn't doing well. My mother originally told me that another woman would still have a son, but I couldn't change it, even if she couldn't have any more children, I insisted on remarrying her, because I loved her, and my happiness in this life was closely linked to her. Only when she is happy can I be happy and our son be happy. ”
03
A man who was divorced for three years and remarried said: After the divorce, I realized how much I loved her.
I used to think that men don't value love very much, but after listening to Mr. Kang's story, I found that there are actually men who care about love as much as women. Like Mr. Kang and his ex-wife, they only realized after the divorce that the other party was indispensable in their lives, so they would go crazy and be good to each other, because they wanted to make up for it, because they felt sorry for each other.
Divorced couples like them are suitable for remarriage, and when they divorce, they are divorced because the mother-in-law forced to have a second child, and the two people have a misunderstanding before they divorce. After the divorce, they know how difficult it is for them to live, and they also begin to understand each other, understand each other, and they will be happy after they remarry.
Adults should think clearly about their marriage, whether there is still love? And in which direction should we go? Don't let divorce hurt your children. If you feel that you must have the other party after the divorce, then please let yourself use practical actions to make up for it and redeem it.
In this life, it is not easy to live in peace and security.
In recent years, there have been epidemics, and then there are many accidents in the impermanence of life, I especially want to tell you who read my article: cherish well, don't have any more infighting, in fact, it is not easy for two people to be husband and wife, if there is no reluctance, you will put your head down, and the past can disappear. Love well, we don't know when we can work together in this life.
Life is too difficult, cherish the people who love you and you love.
Today's topic: After divorce, if you love your ex-wife deeply, will you remarry? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.