In the TV series "All Is Good", the three children of the Su family have very different personalities.
Although the eldest Su Mingzhe is relatively close to his father, his personality is very introverted; the second su Mingcheng is relatively immature and irrational in handling the relationship with his sister Su Mingyu; the least favored youngest daughter, Su Mingyu, eventually becomes the most solid force of the Su family. In this play, you can see the three of them, the characteristics of the body are very different, and each has his own personality. Psychologist Thorndike has also analyzed the impact of children's ranking in the home on their future personalities and way of life.
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The first child born in the family will be loved by the elders around them, and the parents will be close to each other, and once there is a second or third child in the family, to "compete" for their own status, the favor of the elders will be shared by several other children.
At this time, there have been great changes in their hearts, when the younger brothers and sisters come to this family, they have obtained the part of love that belongs to them, Dabao will feel lost or even have a feeling of anxiety, this feeling of deprivation will always accompany their entire growth, and will always impact their hearts.
After reaching a certain age, Dabao will attract the attention of his parents through various naughty ways, and sometimes even fight against the elders in the family, all in order to get more attention. But the end result is often a complete loss of patience for disobedient children.
Generally speaking, the second-in-command child in the family has the best life. Compared with the first child born, their attention has undergone a completely different change, first of all, he will not be like his brothers and sisters, he will receive extremely high attention at birth, and there will be more tolerance in his personality, which is why their interpersonal relationships will be handled better, and their social circle will continue to grow.
Secondly, there will be different degrees of improvement in status, because when the second child is born, there will always be a brother and sister who is comparable to himself in the family, and Erbao will try to catch up with his brother and sister and get better performance.
This is why the second treasure in the family is often very hard-working, and also very talented, it is with this sense of competition, and set a good goal, will dare to face all kinds of difficulties.
Just like Su Mingcheng in the TV series "All Is Good", although he has a great contradiction with his sister, his emotional intelligence in handling interpersonal relationships in his daily life and the good IQ he shows have a lot to do with his growth environment.
If brothers and sisters want to live in peace, parents and children must work together to create a good family atmosphere
Through research and investigation, it is not difficult to find that children's sense of experience with the family in childhood will have an impact on their growth throughout their lives. If parents can make reasonable use of their children's position in the family, it can help them grow better, and even eliminate some drawbacks.
Especially in families with multiple children, parents should respect each child, express their own ideas, and have the right to be equally cared for by their parents, who are their dependents, not the objects of mutual favor.
For parents, whether it is a child or multiple children, they want them to receive the same love, but they may not be able to take into account the feelings of each child because of their limited energy.
It is very necessary to learn to communicate with children, and it is necessary to continue to work hard to close the relationship between several children, so that they can unite in the future life path can be more smooth, and the family relationship will be more harmonious.
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