Son preference, this should be the fact that most people do not want to admit but really exist around them. Even in 2022, most families will still face the harm caused by patriarchal preference. And most of this harm comes from the elders. Even the post-80s and post-90s are also tortured and affected by it. The so-called children and grandchildren are full of halls, many children and many blessings, and the number of children and children is also given, not the number of real children.
Speaking of patriarchal families, it is easy for us to think of Su Mingyu in the TV series "All Is Good", born and raised by a mother who grew up in a patriarchal family, and naturally she will also walk the mother's encounter.
Not to mention the problem of further education, even the breakfast in life has a big gap. My brother was ham and eggs, and hers had only a bowl of rice. His parents bought a house for his brother to study, but Su Mingyu was reluctant to buy even a review material. It can be seen how neglected her parents have ignored her.
But they are all human beings, and they all need to be recognized and loved by their parents. Therefore, Su Mingyu, who needs spiritual nutrition, has been sensible since childhood to take care of housework, just to get the attention and recognition of his parents. She studied diligently and only hoped to be valued and praised by her parents. But everything she did did did not change her patriarchal parents, not only did she not get a glance back from her parents, but even her only way to further education and study was forcibly cut off.
Some time ago, Xiaobian saw a comment on the Internet, which surprised me very much.
"Praise her friend for being cute, saying that the daughter she will give birth to in the future must be like her, and the friend thinks I am cursing her."
It turns out that in this new era, there is still a huge gap in everyone's gender awareness. Even, it began to crack deeper and deeper. For example, there are more than 10,000 notes on a book about "picking up male treasures", which really makes people's three views collapse.
In fact, now the trend of female strength has become more and more obvious, I see many families around me, strong women and weak men, men are not as good as women in thinking, ability, etc., and it is not easy to learn and advance, more is inferiority, narrow-mindedness, selfishness and incompetence. There are also many representative strong women in society, indicating that women's status and ability are getting better and better. These examples make people wonder why sons must be the first choice for procreation.