Audiences who have watched "All Is Good" know that Mingyu was born in a patriarchal family, the family is delicious and well-dressed for his brother, even if he has excellent reading grades, his mother Zhao Meilan has no intention of letting her go to college, but let Mingyu get employed early, and will not consider her daughter's thoughts and feelings at all.
In Zhao Meilan's view, girls are from someone else's house, what do they do when they read so many books? We will not need the Ming Jade Tube when we are old in the future.
When Mingyu was studying, she also had to do a lot of housework, even washing clothes for Mingcheng, and in order for Mingcheng to get married, Su Mu could even sell her house, and MingYu just wanted a review material, and Su Mu would be stingy with her.
No matter what happened in the family, they didn't care about their daughter's thoughts, let alone consider her future, Mingyu didn't even have a photo when she was a child, not even a birth certificate.
It is really puzzling, Mingyu is her own daughter, why is she so thin? And Zhao Meilan herself was born in a patriarchal family, why did she want her daughter to re-follow her old path?
Investigate the reasons for this, but the following three points:
Su Mother married Su Dacheng itself is forced by the family, Su Mother is a rural person, su Daqiang's mother is favored because she is a little girl family, but the hands are very rough, a look is very good at home, so quickly decided to marry Su Daqiang, promised to solve the daughter-in-law's household registration problem.
And Su Mu's original intention of marrying Su Daqiang is to rely on his family to get benefits, otherwise when she was young, Su Mu had bright eyes and bright teeth, and it was impossible to look at Su Daqiang, who looked like a little old man, and the audience who watched the play knew that not only did he not have looks, Su Daqiang himself was also a nest and timid.
The birth of the Su family's children is always accompanied by a person's hukou migration, and Mingyu's birth is accompanied by his uncle's entry into the city.
It can be seen that Zhao Meilan is a victim of the original family, but also a proper "brother demon", after the death of Su Mu, the family found out from Su Daqiang's accounting book, so frugal and poor Su Mu, but secretly gave her brother a lot of money.
We all know that a woman is willing to have children because she loves her husband.
In the face of Su Mingyu's birth, this is not the case.
It is said that the last child born is loved, but Mingyu did not enjoy this treatment, from the small father did not kiss, the mother did not love.
She grew up in a situation that was out of the ordinary, and even had a cryptic birth.
Her birth was accompanied by the migration of her uncle's hukou, who was also an incompetent person.
Where is the hukou so easy to migrate? With Zhao Meilan's strength, why was his uncle, who had no ability, able to migrate to the city?
This is simply incredible for an ordinary family, Su Mu can not support a head nurse, where is the ability and rights?
And Mingyu is nearly one meter seven in height, and Su Daqiang is less than one meter sixty-five, this gene is completely inherited from his mother. Plus Su Daqiang complained about Su Mu before: wedding night, not a virgin.
Even from the rumors from relatives, Su Mu was able to enter the health center to be corrected, all because she was slept by a person from the county health bureau, etc., whether it was a rumor or not, Mingyu was just a victim of being used.
I often wonder why a woman would prefer sons to daughters, or why she herself was born into a patriarchal family.
Psychology believes that if the mother does not agree with her value as a woman, then she will prefer sons to daughters.
If a woman is self-aware and respects her own values and abilities, she will not belittle, insult, or belittle her daughter.
In fact, Su Mu's behavior is also a kind of subconscious, she does not even know that she does not love herself.
That is, when our subconscious mind does not enter consciousness, fate is already predestined.
And Su Mingyu represents her shadow and represents her world view of girls.
This is why, Su Mu can study for her sons, get married and sell the house, but can not make a little sacrifice for Mingyu, who is studying in high school, and when Zhao Meilan sold the house, she did not even have a room of her own.
And Su Mu herself is also very harsh on herself, and she saves money for her son and brother on weekdays. Until his death, the younger brother's family still wanted to take advantage of the Su family's children, which had become a habit and a matter of course.
In the original family, poor Mingyu became the neglected child of the family, and became the least loved child in the family.
Happy people use childhood to heal a lifetime, unfortunate people use a lifetime to heal childhood, and Mingyu after adulthood, even if her career is successful, she is very unconfident emotionally, and always feels that she has psychological problems, and the Su family's affairs will always move her nerves and disturb her thoughts.
And these are all the harm that Su Mu has done to Mingyu, she herself did not get a happy marriage, so she projected her dissatisfaction on her daughter, and I have to say that sorrow is passed on from generation to generation.