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When a person reaches old age, he can continue to have an emotional life after being widowed. This is understandable, but Su Daqiang in the original work of "All Is Good" wants to marry the nanny Cai Genhua, which is more of a calculation.
What kind of person is Su Daqiang? In the eyes of the second son, Su Mingcheng, it is like this:
"All my father's life, it was my mother who was working for him. If he didn't have a mother, how could he have children, and where could he live so lightly without using his mind? Without his mother's restraint, he would not have known how to poison his children. He didn't have to do anything, he lived so gently and skillfully for decades. ”
Just like Su Mingcheng thought, Su Daqiang has always been very incompetent, weak, and selfish, although he has been suppressed by Zhao Meilan for decades, but once he does not have Zhao Meilan, his life becomes a mess.
Just right, the nanny Cai Genhua walked into his life, so Su Daqiang took a fancy to Cai Genhua, a bit of "Wang Ba looked at the mung bean to the eye" meaning.
It looks like a little uncultured nanny like Cai Genhua, there is nothing worth Su Daqiang's calculation, but after reading and thinking about it, there are still traces to follow.
Why should Su Daqiang calculate Cai Genhua and marry her, mainly because Cai Genhua can satisfy him in the following three aspects.
Su Daqiang promised to let Cai Genhua be a nanny, the most important thing is that she has no temper, Su Daqiang thinks like this:
"He has no good temper, he is most afraid of having a temper, his dead wife has a big temper, and only his wife beats her husband."
Cai Genhua looked less courageous than he was, and his height was also very small, not threatening at all, plus his hands and feet were sharp, and he worked hard to become his family's nanny.
When Su Mingzhe felt that Cai Genhua had a problem and wanted to drive her away, Su Daqiang was so anxious that tears flowed out:
"For the first time in his life, he found the feeling of being a man in front of Cai Genhua; for the first time in his life, he won the respect or even obedience of others, he said that East Cai Genhua would not go west; the first time he spoke in his life, he could laugh freely without looking at people's faces."
You look like Su Daqiang, who has no ability, has been suffering from nest anger at home for decades, not to mention respect, and he doesn't even have the freedom to do what he wants to do.
At this time, Cai Genhua became the person who looked up to him, and Su Daqiang would naturally feel respected. It can be said that Su Daqiang is old before such a person appears next to him, let him raise his eyebrows, do not have to look at the faces of his wife, sons and daughters, straighten his waist, and be the master of the house. Therefore, he was very satisfied, and he also enjoyed the obedience of Cai Genhua, who had no temper.
When people reach old age, some people's lives are very boring, either busy taking care of their grandchildren, or doing nothing, chatting and playing cards for a day passes, and some people are busy realizing their ideals and living more fully than when they were young.
An old man like Su Daqiang, his son and daughter are not around, and his grandchildren do not need him to manage, they live alone, and there are nannies to serve, which is very happy.
He found his own way of entertainment for his old age:
Su Daqiang's entertainment for the elderly is to read books at home every day, go out to read the newspaper, go to the park to listen to other retired old men and women singing, and he also occasionally hides behind the rockery and hangs his throat. Every day, he also had to write a reading experience, write a good reading for Cai Genhua, and explain the magic to Cai Genhua, and after seeing the admiration in Cai Genhua's eyes, he printed it out and put it in the collection with the cover of "Guitian Xiaoyi". ”
From this, we can also see Su Daqiang's inflated vanity. That's all, after participating in the activities organized by the school, there happened to be a retired Chinese teacher Feng who often published articles in newspapers and had students working in the municipal evening newspaper, who proposed to write an article by watching the red leaves, so Su Daqiang regained his literary dream.
As soon as he got home, he began to create, writing more than a thousand words of prose, and when he read it to Cai Genhua, Cai Genhua "didn't know anything", but Su Daqiang felt very good. After the newspaper was published, he showed off in front of his son and daughter.
His son and daughter are not around, Su Daqiang wants to show off and can't find anyone, and Cai Genhua and Su Daqiang are basically together every day, and it can only be her.
"After writing and reading to Cai Genhua, I was satisfied until Cai Genhua was dizzy, and cai Genhua kept chasing him and shouting 'Teacher Su'. If Cai Genhua left, where would he go to find such a suitable person? Where to look for this spiritual pleasure that I feel for the first time in my life? ”
Su Daqiang used to be a school worker on the outside, not a teacher of the Eight Classics, and at home there was Zhao Meilan pressed on his head, and his heart may be lacking. Just because he could skillfully operate the computer, he was sincerely envied and worshipped by Cai Genhua, for the first time in his life. For this reason, he was so happy that he could not sleep, and deliberately dangled in front of the computer to collect the admiration of Cai Genhua, who was almost illiterate.
Cai Genhua is a countryman, and she can't read a few words, so in front of Su Daqiang, she naturally admires his knowledge, which also makes Su Daqiang superior in front of Cai Genhua, and will not be suppressed to death like Zhao Meilan before. Regardless of whether Cai Genhua is true or false, Su Daqiang greatly enjoys this vanity of being worshipped.
No matter how bad Zhao Meilan is, she can't deny that she has supported this family, no matter which aspect, she did what should have been su Daqiang.
When Zhao Meilan died, Su Daqiang was very relieved, but he was not well. In life, he did not pay any attention to it, in the Mingcheng family, Mingcheng and Zhu Li could not stand his sloppiness, and even the hourly workers hated him.
After Cai Genhua came to be a nanny, he did not have to worry about eating, using, and housework at all, he just ate well, drank well, and lived his own old age life, and there were people around him who cared about him, looked up to him, respected him, and satisfied his spiritual happiness, and his heart became swelled.
And Cai Genhua as a nanny, taking care of Su Daqiang was originally her job, but Su Daqiang ate this set, a long time, it formed a dependence, Xiao Cai is very good, no Xiao Cai can not. Unfortunately, Su Mingyu has seen through everything:
"Married? You just want to win over a long-term maid and let us carry the baggage for you, don't think, no one is a fool. It's a pity that your words and two words were probed by me, and if you are sincere, I really support you. ”
For Su Daqiang, finding Cai Genhua to marry is simply a profitable thing, turning the nanny into a wife, and even the salary is not paid. He was very satisfied with his current life, and he was afraid that Cai Genhua would not do it. When Cai Genhua told him that his son was about to get married and was ready to go home to serve his daughter-in-law and have a child, Su Daqiang was anxious, and the best way to keep her was to get married.
Some men are really like Su Daqiang, when they are old, they marry a nanny, and there are people to serve in all aspects, and they use righteousness. Whether it is Zhao Meilan or Cai Genhua, Su Daqiang's selfish side has never changed.
epilogue
Su Daqiang wants to marry Cai Genhua, which has nothing to do with love, he is just satisfied with Cai Genhua's obedience, respect and care in life, afraid of losing such a person.
And Cai Gen Tweed, there must be ulterior motives, she mainly considers from the perspective of interests. When she knew from Su Mingyu's mouth that this house was not Su Daqiang, the original book wrote:
"It turned out that this old man had deceived her, what house is not a house, he is a man without family property, only two thousand yuan pension is enough for what to use, and he will have to be in debt when he gets sick later." It seems that this marriage should not be mentioned in the future, otherwise it will carry a big burden and will have to serve for a lifetime. ”
Fortunately, Cai Genhua couldn't read a few words but her brain was still there, and she didn't have to get married, otherwise, she was only suffering and suffering.
Little nanny achieves old man, old man needs little nanny, to be precise, this relationship is to take what he needs, be a good employer and nanny, this relationship can be maintained.
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