#Snail ##Song Siming##Seaweed##Haiping##算计 #
If you have emotional problems, you can always come to me and talk about it
Let me be your best listener and listen to the truest voice in your heart
Author: Hua Yu Chi
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Note| the original book is different from the TV series
In fact, from the moment Seaweed decided to approach Song Siming's human spirit, everything was already decided.
From the beginning of getting to know Song Siming, seaweed has stepped into an invisible trap.
For Song Siming, what he loves is not actually seaweed, let alone his wife, what he has always loved is the unattainable desire in his heart.
In the original work, Song Siming even carried out "three attacks on the heart" of seaweed, and it was these three attacks that made seaweed walk towards Song Siming in one hesitation after another, and to the pusher who made her enter the problem at the beginning.
And these three means of attacking the heart are the three most ruthless calculations of this person.
A penny is hard for a hero
The first attack was when Seaweed reached out to Song Siming to borrow money.
And the reason for this could not be simpler:
Haiping wants to buy a house, not only to contribute herself, but also to ask her relatives and friends around her to contribute, even if it is even her sister's boyfriend, the other party does not contribute, and even began to use moral kidnapping, and even began to brainwash seaweed - "Xiaobei does not borrow money, is not to love you." ”
Since deciding to buy a house, Haiping has been warning Seaweed this sentence:
Marriage is the graveyard of love.
And it is also in this invisible way that seaweed listened to The Persuasion of Haiping and even began to waver.
But the funny thing is that before seaweed stepped into the graveyard of love, Haiping and Su Chun's marriage first showed fatigue - because Haiping was pressed tightly, Su Chun's parents could not come up with money, so he took the risk of borrowing usurious loans, forcing his and Haiping's life to a dead end.
In desperation, Haiping ran to find seaweed, and seaweed was counting on asking for Xiaobei, and after the wish was disappointed, seaweed found Song Siming.
Then, the most critical and realistic part of the book came out - Song Siming told Seaweed:
Anything that can be solved with money, that is not a thing.
And it was with just this sentence that Seaweed began to doubt the choices it had made.
It was the first time that Seaweed was shaken by her life, and for the first time she began to doubt her feelings for Xiaobei and began to dislike her current life, because Song Siming's words led her to another world. ”
In particular, Haiping poured a bitter stomach on her after losing her mind, almost all of which became a portrayal of her future real life:
"Oh seaweed! Marriage is the graveyard of love. But I'll tell you, without a grave, this marriage can't go! And me! I'm digging my own grave right now. Seaweed, I really shouldn't have broken your dreams and let you see the ugliness of marriage scars. But you see it earlier than later, and it is better to wake up early than to regret it later. I tell you, love, love, that's all a trick for men to cheat on women. What 'give my heart to you and you'll have me forever' is the blinding act of a poor and poor egg. He had nothing left, so he said something sweet. If a man really loves a woman, don't play with the void, you love this woman, the first thing to give, is neither your heart, nor your body, one is to shoot a stack of tickets, so that women do not have to worry about the future, the other is to offer a house, at least when you can't have a man, the heart is lost, the body still has a landing. Hum, alas, by the time I understood, it was too late. There are two poisonous weeds in this world, one is Shakespeare, the other is Qiong Yao, and the worst thing about these two people is to induce the ignorant girl. ”
Haiping's complaint not only made Su Chun feel a headache, but also indirectly shook the belief of seaweed, and then, Song Siming's words made her believe in her behavior of helping Haiping:
Song Siming sighed for a moment and said, "Who is Xiao Bei?" Your boyfriend, right? Seaweed, years of experience have taught me that any problem that money can solve is not a big problem. In this lifetime, there are many troubles that cannot be solved, such as life, old age, illness and death, such as rebellion and separation, for example, intrigue, for example, no longer loving each other. All of this is much more difficult than a house, a banknote. I think you did the right thing. Because in this life, you can bear the debt of money, but you cannot bear the debt of feelings. You have the hope of paying off the debt of money, and the debt of feelings may be guilty until death. In fact, from another point of view, seaweed, you are a good girl with a sense of righteousness, Xiaobei should be happy! You have a grateful heart, you will remember all the people who gave you kindness, that is a good thing for Little Bei. Today you will lend a helping hand when your sister is in difficulty, and if Xiaobei has difficulties in the future, you will not go away with despair. In this regard, I have a different view from Xiaobei. If a person does not even care about his relatives, can you expect him to take care of anything else? ”
For the seaweed at that time, she actually did not understand the truth of Song Siming's mouth, but only in a kind of attitude that seemed to understand non-understanding, in the real sense, Song Siming indirectly pushed her to the point of dedication to Haiping, as a child who crawled and fought along the way, he knew too well what the kind of "dedication" seaweed said was.
However, in the face of seaweed, in the face of this "substitute," he did not break the cruelty behind this, but chose to solve the problem in a roundabout way, and even indirectly made excuses for Haiping's mistakes:
"XiaoBei doesn't think so, you must also understand." Because he can't afford to lose. Man is generous because he has more than he squanders. We use generosity as a compliment because most people can't do that. Especially for unrelated outsiders. From the standpoint of the onlookers, neither you nor Xiaobei are wrong. The fault lies in experience and life experience is not enough to see through all this. I understand what you mean by sisterhood. At that time, the family could only afford one child to study, and my brother gave me the opportunity. So now the two of us live in two different situations. It's not that I'm smarter than him, that I'm more successful than him, but that he left hope to me in the face of opportunities. Therefore, no matter how high and how far I go, I will feel that everything today is given to me by my brother, and if I were to change to him, maybe he would be better than me. The greatness of man does not lie in how much you have contributed to society and how much you have achieved, but in the face of temptation, you know how to sacrifice. Seaweed, I think your reasons for borrowing money are very good, very impressed me. Allow me to have this opportunity to help you solve this problem, which is not a nuisance at all. How much money do you want? ”
When Song Siming directly cut to the right topic and began to teach the seaweed psychologically, it was the most critical place:
People always like to live according to themselves, but they don't know that this is the most deadly.
The reason why people are generous is because they have far more things than they have to give, so they have capital generosity, and Song Siming is the same.
He borrowed the sixty thousand pieces of seaweed, and he always had a "request." ”
In other words, he has been stealing concepts, using seaweed's concern for his relatives to make him a substantial "debt," and he himself understands that seaweed can't afford these money, so he has this thought and plan now.
For Song Siming, this is more like a pit that he has laid out long ago.
He knew the result early on, but he played the role of an innocent person in it, and even more indirectly belittled the feelings between Xiaobei and seaweed, Song Siming played his own means to the extreme.
In fact, there is an eternal truth in the ever-changing world, and that is:
Don't talk about money, talk about money hurts feelings, talk about feelings, don't talk about money.
The same type of "desire," the different type of psychology
The second attack was after Song Siming really possessed the seaweed.
It is also Song Siming's power and wealth that makes the seaweed thoroughly feel the wonderful taste brought by this.
It is true that man can suppress his desires, but even if he can suppress them for a while, he cannot suppress them for a lifetime.
Whether it is for seaweed or for Song Siming, the desires that were previously suppressed are actually temporary, not a lifetime, in fact, they are all a type of person.
Seaweed is too simple and too stupid; while Song Siming is too shrewd, and eventually ends up being smart and mistaken for cleverness.
How many Meng Lijun are there in the world, who can be rich and noble and cannot be adulterous, poor and lowly cannot be moved, and mighty and unyielding?
For these two people, it is inevitable that they will get together.
Do you know? Man's body and spirit are separable. Even if you love someone spiritually, the flesh will not be loyal to him. The flesh is a very shameless and shameless greed, and in the face of the greedy flesh, the spirit will appear very small.
Or in other words, when Seaweed decided to borrow money from Song Siming, he had already figured out the cost behind this move.
Start with that reluctant text message? Or did you start with formal contact with him? Seaweed couldn't remember, but the only thing she had in mind was the pleasure of depravity.
For what Song Siming gave her, compared with what she has now, the two are simply very different.
In fact, are the emotions of middle-aged men really the most sincere?
Not really.
For Song Siming, seaweed is just a substitute for the white moonlight that he didn't get when he was young.
What is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are fearless, and for such a man, the interests are always the most practical.
His so-called true feelings for seaweed are just after he has it, and he is refilling the debt he owed in those years.
Lies are often the easiest to puncture
The third attack on the heart, which is also the most critical time, is when Song Siming coaxed the seaweed to give birth to him.
At that time, Song Siming's work was already in a mess, but after learning that seaweed was pregnant, she asked her to give birth to this child, giving birth to the crystallization of his "love" with seaweed.
However, the truth is as seaweed thinks in its heart - "This is the product of a bad relationship!" "If you really give birth to this child, it will not only be troublesome, but also bear the corresponding responsibility, and seaweed has always been a person who covets enjoyment, and she does not want to be responsible."
The real situation has always been:
Song Siming has always wanted another child in his bones, and he has only made up for the debt he owes to his daughter Tingting in those years.
All he had been thinking about was his own psychological satisfaction.
For the sake of this child, Song Siming even chose to abandon his own principles and even the bottom line:
Song pulled the seaweed's hand, kissed it lightly on the back of the hand, and said, "Seaweed, as long as you want, I can give it to you." I used to say that I can't give it to you except marriage, and everything else. Now, I can tell you that even marriage, I can give it to you. For your sake, I don't care about anything, I can don't want anything. Song looked up at the seaweed and said with a sincerity that broke the seaweed's heart: "I want this child, I will divorce, I will marry you, and then take you and the child out of the city, to an unknown place, to escape all this, even if I have been operating here for 20 years, I can not want it." ”
For the sake of this child, he even began to seduce with lies:
Song nodded and said slowly, "Love her and let her have a child for you, and then water the same flower with the blood of two people, so that we will never be separated." ”
However, the so-called love for a person, to give him a child, is simply a lie.
Do you really love someone to such an extent? Song Siming's remarks are just a lie to satisfy personal selfish desires, if he really loves seaweed, why not be the "affectionate male second" who is regretted in the film and television drama, but has been pestering the other party with means?
In fact, Song Siming had woven a big web for his own selfish desires and lies at the beginning, and after this net was compiled, even he himself was blindfolded.
Haiping once asked Seaweed about her attitude towards this child, but Seaweed's response startled Haiping, saying:
I'm average, but Song likes it.
At this time, did the seaweed really believe song Siming's previous promise to her? This is not the case.
In fact, Seaweed already knew the cost of this, and she was so desperate to try, but after excessive greed, she wanted more.
In fact, the character of seaweed is more representative of Song Siming's "desire." ”
Even if a person disguises himself well, sooner or later when the truth comes, it will be punctured.
In the original work, when Song Siming died in a car accident, the last sentence was "Seaweed, I love you," but now that you think about it, is this really the case? The so-called love in his mouth is nothing more than a clear and dangling "nihilism".
His "love," paid too much.
Author: Hua Yu Chi, freelance writer, both romantic and rationalist, focusing on women's growth and emotional writing, a woman who loves to read.
Love the beauty of words, sell words for a living, and believe that one day you will achieve a better self.
At present, the writing is shallow and still being sharpened...