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In 2022, the new drama "Heart Residence" starring Haiqing was launched, and she was still on the way to buy a house.
"In Shanghai, even a foreign daughter-in-law like me who buys and burns every day understands that the house is a person's face, the upper corner, the lower corner, the inner ring, the central ring, the outer ring, the commercial house, the affordable house, the demolition house, what kind of house to buy, what kind of person, as for the rent, it is all rootless duckweed." And for me, the house is not only a face, more like a knife to the flesh, hurting the bones, Shanghai, Shanghai, I dream of having a house here, a house that really belongs to me. ”
In "Heart Residence", this inner monologue of Feng Xiaoqin, played by Haiqing, poked the hearts of many outsiders.
Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house, very realistic, she wants to buy a house that really belongs to her.
Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei have been married for ten years, and from the day she married into the Gu family, she was persuaded by Gu Lei to quit her job. Gu Lei told her that "there are two old people in the family who need to be taken care of", because of the understanding of Gu Lei, Feng Xiaoqin obeyed. Married for more than ten years, Feng Xiaoqin took care of the Gu family's big son, she served her father-in-law, and she had to serve her father-in-law's mother, and she had to take care of her husband and her son. The life under the fence for more than ten years is not easy, although Feng Xiaoqin did not go to work, she was the busiest. After so many years of hard work, Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy her own house, is there anything wrong?
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with it, but not only does my sister and father-in-law disagree with her, but even her husband Gu Lei is wavering left and right.
Her sister disagreed because she felt that if Feng Xiaoqin moved away, who would help her take care of her father and grandmother? Both her father and grandmother are old, and she herself is very busy at work, so it is clear that Feng Xiaoqin is the most suitable candidate. The father-in-law did not agree, but also used to Feng Xiaoqin's care, felt that if there is really no them is really inconvenient, not to mention that there is no house to live, why do you have to buy a house. Gu Lei feels that it doesn't matter, anyway, I live in my father's house, I have a house to live in, so his will to buy a house is not firm, a look of indifference attitude.
"Let's not say that buying a house is a lot of money, you buy a house and move out, what will your father and grandmother do?"
To put it bluntly, it is still a matter of throwing a lot of children on Feng Xiaoqin's head and using Feng Xiaoqin as a free nanny.
"I'm not as good as your mentality, you take it slowly, don't worry, it will be fine in the future, I can't, I'm in a hurry." I don't keep an eye on him now, and it's me who will drink the northwest wind with him in the future, not you." I don't have a good family, you know it, so I have to plan as early as possible. The little tiger is now in the first grade, and in the blink of an eye, he is in junior high school, and I should buy him a house of 2 million yuan, not too much. I can't understand how so many people don't want me to buy a house. Why? If you want to talk about selfishness, I have selfish intentions, I want to buy a house that belongs to feng Xiaoqin, and live a good life with my husband and two people. I have been married into the Gu family for so many years, have I ever done something sorry for Gu Lei? Or is it because I have a divorce on my face that I want to divorce Gu Lei, and you are so defensive of me. In eight years, you have to hire a nanny for hundreds of thousands, or I am not even as good as a nanny. ”
Feng Xiaoqin's husband Gu Lei is a very unmotivated man, her husband is unreliable, can Feng Xiaoqin not plan for herself? But for so many years, married to Gu Lei for so many years, their Gu family was guarding against her. Perhaps the Shanghainese are shrewd and habitual, even if they marry a foreign daughter-in-law, they feel that she wants to change her fate by marriage.
Everyone in the Gu family was guarding against Feng Xiaoqin, and what was hard to heart was that even her husband Gu Lei did not turn to her.
Feng Xiaoqin buying a house is very realistic, she is afraid that in case something really happens, the child is still young, she is a foreigner who has paid so much for the family, and in the end she is still not cherished. She had to make plans for herself early, to buy a house that really belonged to her, which was the common property she and her husband shared, instead of living with her father-in-law and her father-in-law's mother as she is now, that house is her father-in-law, Gu Lei's, and has a half-cent relationship with her Feng Xiaoqin?
Twelve years later, from "Snail Residence" to "AnJia" to "Heart Residence", Haiqing buying a house is very realistic, and it is still such a touching voice.
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In 2007, Liu Liu's novel "Snail Residence" was published; in 2009, the TV series of the same name adapted from his novel, "Snail Residence", was released, and once it was broadcast, it became a popular TV series at the moment, which reflected social reality and poked the voices of many young people in the metropolis.
We don't talk about seaweed and Song Siming, just the pair of Haiping and Su Chun, reflecting how many contemporary young people, I can see my former self from them, too realistic.
On February 21, 2020, the TV series "An Jia" began to air, Haiqing and Hao Ping played this middle-aged couple who are about to have a second child, the house is there, but with the second child you have to find a way to change to a bigger house, because the previous house is not enough to live. I dare say that their middle-aged couple can also let many middle-aged people see themselves from it.
On March 17, 2022, the TV series "Heart Residence" was launched, and Feng Xiaoqin, a housewife played by Haiqing, wanted to buy a house that really belonged to her, and it was the voice of many women. She wanted to make herself feel safe, if the house belonged to her and Gu Lei, even if she divorced Gu Lei, or Gu Lei had an accident, she still had some property leanings on her. But if you continue to live under the same roof with your father-in-law, what does the house have to do with yourself? If it is really what happened, haven't you been swept out of the house? So what have you earned for so many years of hard work?
The husband is still so unmotivated and unreliable.
I saw myself in all three of these dramas, myself who had just graduated, and myself who had already married and had children and considered changing houses.
I also recently under pressure finally changed houses and changed a house that really belonged to me.
When I first graduated, I was like Hai Ping in "Snail House", I especially wanted to buy a house, because I didn't want to move anymore, I didn't want to continue to float like a duckweed. Later we bought a small house, but that house was my husband's premarital property, what does it have to do with me? Fortunately, in the next six years, I also earned a part of the money, and then we were able to sell the original house and change to the current house, and we could also meet the housing problems of two children going to school and a family of four.
I was very happy the day I got the red copy of the property deed, it was a house that really belonged to me.
Think about it, I used to work so hard to earn money, it was worth it.
When you just graduated, you want to buy a house, because you don't want to float yourself, you still have to buy a house in middle age, because you have to consider the second child and consider the problem of your child going to school. Just like Feng Xiaoqin in "Heart Residence", she is always insecure, even if she marries a Shanghainese, she is still insecure.
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Some netizens commented on Haiqing:
"Haiqing filmed "Snail House", in order to buy a house to save money, but also lost his sister seaweed; Haiqing filmed "AnJia", in order not to let Erwa live with her in-laws, busy buying a house and changing houses; Haiqing filmed "Heart Residence", taking care of four generations of full-time wives, eager to have their own house.
In "Snail Residence", in order to buy a house, Haiqing let his family save money from between his teeth, and Seaweed was afraid of living a hard life like Haiqing, so he had Song Siming. In "An Jia", Haiqing is pregnant with her second child and lives with her in-laws, she can only hide in the bathroom to work, and when she is not careful, she will touch the clothes that are drying. In "Heart Residence", Haiqing is a full-time wife, who has become a nanny for four generations of an old family, and she wants to have her own house, so she can only ask people to borrow money everywhere. ”
We are all struggling for life, and someone may ask? Why buy a house, is it bad to rent a house?
To be honest, as someone who owns a house, I still think that the house is important. You have a house in a city and you really have a home, your children can go to school, no matter what, there will be school, you have a place for a family of three.
That is your own place.
We are all looking for a place of our own, we all have to work hard, forced by life, responsibility. Ordinary people living in the metropolis are not easy, and you dare not stop, because you are relied on by others, but you cannot rely on others.
Just as in "Heart Residence", Feng Xiaoqin's own voice: For me, the house is not only a face, but more like a knife and a knife, hurting bones, Shanghai, Shanghai, I dream of having a house here, a house that really belongs to me.
How many people like her, living in the metropolis, dreaming of owning a house that really belongs to them.
Today's topic: Haiqing buying a house, from "Snail Residence" to "Settle Down" to "Heart Residence", is there your shadow? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the cold and warm of the world, looking at the world.