Muhammad said: "No more than three useful words we say in a day. Truly capable people, in fact, do not like to "talk". People who don't like to "talk" seem to be unsociable, but in fact, their emotional intelligence is very high. Because, they don't waste extra energy running useless social networking.
People who do not like to "talk" can always say the main points in one sentence, not much to say, but they are steady and give people the impression of being reliable and reliable.
Truly wise people understand the truth that evil comes out of the mouth. I don't say much, I don't jump to conclusions when I don't understand the causes and consequences of things and have doubts about something. Not to mention, the tongue is strong, and more words.
Truly capable people, who do not like to "talk", can take everything into account in their hearts. Although, not much to say, but I had a plan in mind, and I had already planned what to do.
Do not like to "talk", often hidden deeply, is a real capable person. Too much is lost, not the deeds of the wise. When people get along with each other, you will find an interesting law: people with low ability like to talk.
I have seen a more interesting little story in ancient times, a person named Song Jin, because of his name and was favored by many people.
Many rich and noble people's grandfathers have a birthday and hope to let him participate. In order to hear him say that I have come to the door when he enters the door, I have come to "send gold". The meaning is to add a good color.
Life goes all the way forward, if there is no stop station, then reality is always a starting point. Whenever and wherever you are.
Only by maintaining a forward posture can we prove the existence of life and complete the mission of a personal life!
Every person who is favored and cared for by luck is a gift from time to time, and behind every bright and beautiful person, there are countless efforts and sweats.
Who can succeed for no apparent reason? Who is not every step is hard and bitter, wading through mountains and waters, struggling hard.
Therefore, life does not have to struggle with what gains and losses, do not have to compare, just go your own way, focus on your own life, patiently wait for the good, and what you have is also a blessing.
After going through all the ups and downs, it is good to know peace; after all hardships, it is good to know patience; after all the hardships, it is good to know calmly; after all the prosperity, it is good to know that you are content.
Socrates once said, "Contentment is the richest, because contentment itself is wealth." "Happiness is sometimes very simple, little by little, little by little, every day, some people stay in the heart, some people let it slip away from the eyes.
The attitude of life lies in making progress and contentment. Happiness is actually in the days and footsteps that pass every day.
The world is like a kaleidoscope, and everyone's eyes see different landscapes. The definition of happiness is different, and the feeling of happiness is naturally very different.
There are no unhappy people, only unsatisfied hearts. The taste of life, sweet and bitter interdependence, salty and astringent coexistence; the road of life, strange and intertwined, five tastes and miscellaneous. After walking through the ruggedness, it is flat; after experiencing wind and rain, you can see the rainbow.
Happiness is a feeling that does not depend on the state of people's lives, but on their state of mind.
Time never changes, it is always walking, changing the human heart. Time never ends, and the human heart is never satisfied.
Man's desires are endless, and when this is satisfied, the one will emerge, and the person who is held by desire is like a prisoner in chains, who can never be liberated.
Thousands of worlds, thousands of temptations, everything you want, will exhaust people, you have to put it down, life has peace and happiness to speak of.
Schopenhauer said: "The source of happiness comes from self-sufficiency, and only self-sufficiency can make a person happy." "May you, with your heart," stop at the end of fate, and turn back to the Sunshine Coast."
People who know how to perceive happiness do not stare at others, but cherish what they have, and people who do not know how to perceive happiness always complain that they do not have as much as others have.
People first learn to be content in order to reap happiness. Don't compare everything, don't climb, do your best to make yourself happy, don't compare your shortcomings to other people's strengths.
Contentment is the greatest wealth, a contented person will not be invisible troubles, a contented person knows how to explain and comfort himself.
People must be content and happy, they cannot think of anything complicated, and when the load on their hearts is heavy, they will complain about the sky and worry about others.
If you are simple, the world is simple for you. A simple life can lead to a happy life. People are content, there is a period of emptiness in front of their eyes, and when they see the moon in the blue sky and the shadow in the waves.
Sometimes, only those who are willing to give up will not be bitter, those who are moderately content will not regret it, those who remember gratitude will not complain, and those who know how to cherish it will not be ashamed.
In life, we seek satisfaction in lightness, peace of mind in responsibility, happiness in dedication, and happiness in contentment.
Happiness does not depend on wealth, it comes from feelings; happiness, not on success or failure, it comes from contentment.
The taste of life is the strongest; the prosperity of the world, the lightest and most true. Life wants a heavy; life, what you want is a kind of abundance; life, life, is a mood.
Happiness belongs only to those who know how to be grateful, because of contentment, happiness is everywhere; because of knowing gratitude, happiness is always there.
If you want to be happy, you have to be easy-going; if you want to be happy, you have to follow fate. Happiness is the pleasure of the heart, and happiness is the satisfaction of the heart.
When you understand that you are satisfied, you are the happiest time, you don't have to have the whole world, you have your own share. Man must be content. The contented are always happy, and the happy are content. Happiness comes from contentment.
Ansheng, joy, is the beauty of life's long flow of beautiful "Mid-Levels Anthology": "The most important thing in life is how much you can enjoy in the present, how much nutrition you can get from the present, not what kind of future you will have." ”
Facing life, in addition to the coming seasons, there are all kinds of problems and impermanent landscapes in the world, and it is wisdom to be able to make the right trade-offs.
In the face of reality, we must dare to clean ourselves, clean up unnecessary storage, make room, and let ourselves have more beautiful space and ability.
I am used to being content with the present, being nourished by time in the present, being tempered by life, and living lightly and kindly, and I hope that the world will give me clear, good and beautiful feedback.
The days are ordinary, if they are special, it is to remember or forget, if it is important, that is, some things worth having have been integrated into life, saying or not saying, seeing and not seeing, those warmths, those beautiful, have never been far away.
Attention to detail, good observation, living for the little beauty in life. Maugham said. "A man who can observe fallen leaves, flowers, and appreciate everything from the subtleties, life cannot treat him like this."
Most people will look at themselves, will not see through the suffering of others, see the disasters they may face, even if they stare at the outside, they will only look through the sufferings of others, and rejoice in their own luck.
To live, we must see the things in front of us clearly, whether warm or cool, have a deep love, even if it is a little joy, a little joy, an hour of light, a little trivial beauty, with the heart to accept, in the end, will become a blessing of life.
This strange world has good and bad, but there are too many immortal beauty in this world, and I hope that my life is good, and every day can already be beautiful.
Passing by the flowers, seeing the fragrance, the flowers showing their faces, the moon lowering their eyebrows, all the beauty, can come as promised, without words of sorrow, without words of sorrow.
The world is cold and warm, always making us worry and panic. The years are quiet, all things grow, which life is not all a kind of mutilation, in a hurry in regret?
How can life be as good as it should be? Life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten, and sadness and bitterness are common. After experiencing vicissitudes, you will meet flowers blooming like a sea, and after experience, you will find that the spring wind is ten miles, and those are your blessings.
I like all the beauty in the world, from spring, summer, autumn and winter to the alternation of cold and summer, no one can stop the pursuit of beauty, and in these beautiful, spring flowers and autumn moon, summer cicadas and winter snow, are also gifts from nature to you.
Being able to seek a balance between cold and warm in the cycle of four seasons is a steady way of living. Throughout his life, it is not easy for a person to find a suitable position to maintain a balance in the two worlds of reality and spirit.
When winter passes and the spring breeze touches the earth, the earth, everything, every inch of skin, can make us feel the gentle beauty.
In fact, this is all from the softness of a person's heart, like the whisper of the wind, the whisper of the rain, in this shallow chant of nature, we accept the beauty with our lives, give the suffering to the past, and secretly thank this blessing.
Living a full life, the self-esteem of life, is the happiness of life. Jacco said: "In life, there will be tears, there will be laughter, that is some emotional reaction, knowing that the world is beautiful and regretful, life is tough and fragile." It is said that children who love to cry have sugar to eat, then, not crying to people is self-esteem. ”
The human heart should slowly become peaceful, and it is only after many hardships that it will return to silence, and only if it never complains will it know how to cherish the existence of life and look down on the regrets of life.
Life is wide and high, the longitude and latitude are intertwined, and many feelings cannot be expressed in words, but can only be silently endured and experienced slowly. All life encounters should be a beautiful gift from God. No matter what kind of fog life crosses, it will harvest a rich and happy life.
The most difficult thing to obtain in the human heart is not maturity, not abundance and sophistication, but the older and more naïve, to maintain a peaceful, quiet, joyful heart, into the heart of plain, cloth coarse food, pure joy, a light of life, slowly taste.
In fact, we keep going forward, not to reach the destination, but for the good scenery of the road; we try to move forward, not to reach the end as soon as possible, but to achieve ourselves before the end comes.
Therefore, life can not be anxious, panic, let yourself slow down, feel life with your heart, let life be full, the rest of your life is beautiful, and you will be blessed.
It is said that the children of the poor have been home early, in fact, this sentence is not very accurate, the children are only learning some basic life skills, and for the cognition of life and money, the late enlightenment is relatively late.
Some people say that fate has long been predestined, if there is no noble help, it is difficult to jump out of the original circle of life in this life.
But in this life, in fact, the biggest noble person is himself, may we all have a heart that will never accept defeat. Most people with these three bad habits are not blessed, and they are often rejected but do not know it.
I like to complain everywhere and vent negative energy to the people around me. Many people always like to complain about their own lives, always feel that their lives are not satisfactory, and always think that others are better than their own lives.
People can't always stand on this mountain and look at that mountain, in fact, the present you hate is the tomorrow and the future that others desire, and the tomorrow you desire is the yesterday that some people dislike.
Why do you always like to envy others? In fact, it is not understood, people are like the new and tired of the old, no matter how good things, after getting it, they slowly feel less important.
So for those who do not understand the life began to desire, in fact, those who look very good life, not as good as imagined.
The happiness of others is not necessarily suitable for yourself, and where you can't see it, there is also an unknown heartache, and what suits you is the best.
In fact, there is not so much anxiety in life, don't worry about what has not happened yet, in fact, this is an excessive emotional internal friction, dragging yourself down.
Love to take advantage of small profits, often calculate to calculate. A truly intelligent person will never let others think that he is a wise man, because Mu Xiu will be destroyed by the forest wind, and the high places will not be cold.
If everyone thinks that someone is smart, then that person is not smart but a little stupid. Some people always like to go around taking advantage of small profits, as if they do not take advantage of small things for a day, and they are uncomfortable at the whole person, as if they have suffered a big loss.
Sometimes others let you take advantage of a little, not others are stupid and not smart, but others are kind and feel that there is no need to make a contradiction for this little thing.
Don't always think about taking advantage of others, it is easy to take advantage of small cheap, it is easy to eat big losses, and you will lose a lot of friends.
Look at those who love to take advantage of the little, maybe they can get some benefits at the beginning, but after everyone knows him as a person, they will slowly move away from him.
Open mouth to come, speak without brain thinking, many people misunderstand one thing, always like to say their "ignorance", said to be a straight personality, which is actually justifying themselves.
As the saying goes, we learn to speak in a month, but we have to spend a lifetime learning how to speak.
Speaking is also an art, especially in this society that values human feelings and sophistication, and it is really remarkable that a person can speak his words.
The same thing for two people to do, people who can't talk will talk about collapse in a few words, people who can talk, casual greetings can make people feel like a spring breeze.
Everyone is an adult, what to say, what not to say, before saying it, you should think about it carefully, don't say it casually. Those who like to chew their tongues behind their backs and rely on others in the end, most of them do not like to associate with them.
Life is like a trip, sometimes we are climbing the mountain, sometimes going down the mountain, that kind of smooth time, is destined not to be the main theme of life. Be kind and grateful, because people who know how to be grateful will not have bad luck.
Don't be greedy, don't like to complain everywhere, vent negative energy around, don't often calculate to calculate, don't open your mouth, and talk without brain thinking. Strive to run yourself well and manage your own life.
The happiness of life lies in their own attitude to life, happiness is their own business, as long as you want, you can change the remote control in your hand at any time, and change the window of the mind to the happiness channel. Learn to be happy, even if you are sad, but also to smile.
The saddest thing is not to hide in the quilt and cry in the middle of the night, but to dream of that person in a dream, but when you wake up, you don't see that sense of loss.
Don't pay too much attention to some people and things, go with the flow and face it with the best mindset. There are certain unacceptable parts of everyone's personality, and the same is true of even the most beautiful people. So don't be harsh on others, don't let yourself down.
Some people are as smart as the weather, changeable; Some people are stupid like the weather forecast, and they can't see it when the sky changes.
Poor or rich, everything is a passing cloud. Whether it was yesterday, today, or tomorrow, it is a beautiful day to be able to suddenly be cheerful.
Regardless of family, friendship, love, it is a good mood to cherish forever. Remember there is a classic text message that reads: Don't forget what you once had; Already got to be more cherished.
Schopenhauer said: "It is very strange that when people fall on the frieze, they always clearly recall the happy times that have passed, but when they are proud, they only have an indifferent and incomplete memory of the bad luck time." ”
At the end of the year, everything is quiet, this is the world of winter. The cold does not decrease, and from time to time there is a snow, adding a little cold, or foggy, adding some mysterious atmosphere.
Let this winter, like a hazy painting, full of imagination, like a sad poem, fit the mood of most people.
However, there are leaves falling seamlessly, afraid that I can't help the cold withering, wrapped in a layer of frost and cold, falling on the grass.
Isn't such a picture a little deep? Like a mood essay, deeply chanted, there is a sudden panic, there is a trace of sadness, there are old memories, there are also simple and indifferent feelings.
The layers of buildings are not landscapes, they look more like decorations, in the fog, with the feeling of a mirage.
This is not an illusion, a cold wind has long been sober, and the momentum of the storm seems to be able to sweep everything.
Thousands of troops and horses in the fog, the time passed in a trance, with the charm of poetry, shallow and faint, far away from the years, close to life.
Shallow, light, the past of this year, is also in it, all the experiences, all the regrets and grievances, when the New Year bell rings, will also disappear. Whether it is pain or sorrow, it will be washed away by joy.
Let go of what should be put down, the interpretation of the year, at the end of the year, the summary of the year, are all wrapped around the node of this year, looking back, not being tied up by the past, looking forward, the future has been moving forward.
Time does not look back, the years have been going, we follow, throw regrets in the past, be tolerant, be a little free, adapt to understanding, and be able to deal with it calmly.
The years take away our faces, the vicissitudes of the past, the precipitation of the mood, we write the chapter of life with our hearts, and the most beautiful years should be the present, it is better, at such a time, write a poetic gift for yourself, in the middle of the strings, and time drunk.
Be indifferent, the past can not look back, just move forward with hope. Even in winter, the haze has passed, there will be sunshine, the same dry season, the same flowers hidden in it, Qionghua Hanmei is a witness, a wisp of dark incense, hidden a charm, "the snow abuse wind trumpet is more awe-inspiring, the highest integrity in the flower." ”
Only the plum blossoms can't be blown, and the new white is still new and red. "No matter what season, only by maintaining the beauty of the heart, there will be a different scenery of life."
I remember that Feng Zikai said: "When the heart is small, all the small things are big; when the heart is big, all the big things are small; look down on the vicissitudes of the world, and the heart is safe and sound." ”
A little bigger heart, shaking off a body of dust, half a life of wind and snow returned, you will understand, indifferent to live, is good for yourself.
Look down, whisk away a tired body, let the past be unbearable, not confused, not afraid, let the storms of life rise again, put away the loss and sadness, hope is sprouting.
In the sound of firecrackers, the spring breeze sends warmth into Tu Su. Thousands of households always exchange new peaches for old charms.
Hope is in front of us, the new year, let us embark on a new journey, to accept the challenge, to appreciate the fragrant scenery of peach and plum, to embrace the new life, to meet a better self.
The past does not have to be entangled, for the things that have become a foregone conclusion, do not hold on to it anymore, have a broad heart, dare to put it down, in order to move forward lightly.
From the past, but to the future, with dreams, with good wishes, expectations, all the way to grow, mature, all the way to harvest, surprise and safety.
Time does not stay, life can not be retrograde, the years flies, we run all the way, all the way to catch up, is not it for peace of mind and happiness?
Be gentle with time in winter and shake hands with life. Don't care about the invasion of the cold, don't care about the eyes of others, your own life and your own feelings, your own beauty, dress yourself, do yourself, is the best to have, walk indifferently, is the best time in life.
There is no need to frown and face, gold will always shine, flowers will always blossom, just wait for the warm wind to blow, and meet the spring frankly.
Perhaps, this is also the last snow of this winter, and the snowflakes fall, melt, and dedicate their lives to spring. I believe that the cold in winter will turn into the joy of spring, and when spring comes, it will be pleasing to the eye.
Life is a long way, but it never loses its light. All things in the world are patient, but also in the awakening, the growth of life, do not experience the wind and rain, cold and heat, will not grow, those good and bad, we must accept, not to lose time, is the most beautiful scenery of life.
The time of winter also has its own beauty, especially at sunset, the light is scattered, hanging in the treetops, and the color of the afterglow becomes the most beautiful color in winter.
Sitting in the sunset, with the mood of the description, the light of the world is warm, and a lonely tree in the light of the sun, straight up, guides Yunxia to the other side of the mountain.
Does it feel like such a landscape is a kind of romance and happiness? Clouds, tulle, evening dress. The mood, in this way, was slowly infiltrated into the beauty, rendered with happiness and sweetness, and finally transformed into a window of orange lights.
Therefore, in life, one light and one scene are gentle; in the years, one person, one tea, is also the romance in life.
Life, sometimes, can slow down the pace, let yourself be quiet, in order to feel the beauty of life. Quietly love, live slowly, real life, make a living and love, fireworks have a taste in the world.
Lin Qingxuan said: "See the world with a pure heart, live with joy, have a normal heart, and remove obstacles with a soft heart." ”
Life is like a dream, a thousand sails have no trace of dreams, even if there are three thousand prosperous, only take a scoop, encounter troubles, know how to put down, rather than indulging in the past of life, it is better to smile.
Instead of pleading and struggling, it is better to live with joy, live in peace, taste life, and look down on life with a normal heart. Instead of tangling, it is better to let go, and you will be safe for the rest of your life. Instead of hesitating, it is better to move forward bravely.
In the face of the ups and downs, life is indifferent, let nature take its course, and live a life with a light and breezy attitude, is really a relaxed life.
No matter when, the heart is not hindered, it is a good time in life. Instead of worrying about the past, it is better to put the inner expectations and the stories of life in the years to the poetry of the years and make the future full of poetry.
Everything is looked down upon, in order to follow the fate of everything, with a warm heart, to resist the cold. Yu Hua said: "Life belongs to everyone's own feelings, not to any other people's opinions. ”
Live, only for their own happiness and happiness, with the heart to feel life, the vicissitudes of the years, just with a period of warmth, you can walk through the cold, at the end of the year, let the past with the wind, the year to draw a conclusion.
The cold winter has passed, that is, the spring is warm and blossoming, the plain notes are light ink, painting a plum, outlining the style of the years, it is also a gift to yourself in a period of time, it is the intention of resigning the old and welcoming the new, and it is also the expectation of welcoming spring.
Embrace the warmth of a deep winter, in the silence, go to the snow to find plums, carry a touch of the dark fragrance of spring, and live in your own world without being shocked.
Life is indifferent, let time travel through in tranquility, flowing like water, Fang Fei follows the flowers, the stream is faint, the wind and snow in the years, or sad, or joyful.
Be intoxicated by the fireworks of the world, leave a calm heart, smile at life, quiet yourself, accommodate sorrow and joy, and celebrate the New Year with a pure heart.
When the water is full, it overflows, when the moon is full, it loses, and when the flowers are full, it is thankful. Anything that reaches its peak will change in the opposite direction, in short, "things must be reversed"!
There is no perfection in life, perfection does not exist, so treat anything and do not expect perfection. Being pragmatic is better than being a source, and being too smart is stupid.
The endless desire for money will bring disasters; life should not suffer from gains and losses, and be calm. In fact, life is no big deal except for life and death, in the eyes of the saints, life and death are only small things, it is the reincarnation of nature!
Life is originally very simple, sometimes we make it complicated, what kind of attitude we treat life, life in turn returns us with what attitude.
Master the laws of life, go with the flow, and all problems will be solved. Be a man, just do things. Wisdom is similar between people, so don't ask yourself to have superior wisdom. Natural, always more beautiful than the décor!
In the Cai Gen Tan, it is said: A gentleman is not as simple as a gentleman and his practice; rather than a gentleman, he is not as careless as he is." A cultivated gentleman, instead of paying attention to the smoothness of doing things, it is better to maintain a natural and simple personality; instead of being careful and cautious in everything, it is better to be open-minded, so as not to lose his innocent nature.
Be honest in life, work, and do things in a down-to-earth manner. It is enough not to violate common sense, not to let go of morality, not to let go of the goals in your heart.
The old Zhang of our former unit, only one meter and five heads, usually less talkative, is a very thick big brother, and did not have any advantage in the unit at the beginning.
Lao Zhang always dutifully did his job and never discussed those messy things. When there was something between colleagues who needed help, he was always the first to lend a helping hand and slowly gained a good reputation. A few years later, in a manager voting election, Lao Zhang stood out in the first place, defeating those who initially looked very sleek and advantageous!
Study seriously, think quietly, do things in a down-to-earth manner, work diligently, live indifferently, make friends sincerely and sincerely, take a leisurely walk, and be innocent.
In the first episode of "In the Name of the People", Hou Liangping of the Supreme People's Procuratorate pulled out a big corrupt official. To be precise, it should be said that petty officials are hugely corrupt, and a director in Beijing embezzled more than two hundred million yuan in cash to store at home, did not dare to spend a penny, and commuted to work by bicycle every day.
Hou Liangping criticized him for suffering from "heart-wrenching madness", in fact, he was a slave to money through and through!
Since our country launched the anti-gang crime and anti-evil activities, some corrupt officials and evil forces have successively fallen and fallen into the net of justice. This makes us wonder, is it worth it to break the law and throw away our lives for money???
The birds nest only a few branches; the geese drink water, but they are full! All this tells us a truth about "contentment."
We are right to work hard to make money and improve our quality of life, which is a person's responsibility and responsibility. But if it is greedy and hard to fill, it is very undeserved!
Actually want to open. It is not normal for people to have a steady income, and it is not normal to have some savings on the basis of guaranteed sufficiency.
But if people's hearts are endless and their desires are endless, they can only bring disasters to themselves. Just got full and thought about clothes, and there was a lack of beautiful wives in the room.
Mules and horses are flocked to the field, and they are afraid that no official will be deceived; the five-pin and six-pin official is too small, and the three-pin and four-grade are too low; when the dynasty is the prime minister, he still wants to be the emperor in the south; with a thousand gold, he wants to be an emperor.
The reason why life is melancholy and sad is largely because it is difficult to fill the gap. People are always sad about what they can't get, but they don't realize what they want.
It has far exceeded what I need. It is not a necessity of life, and after a long time, it is easy to become a slave to desire, lose your nature, go astray, how sad!
Some people, because of greed, want to get more things, but they have lost everything they have now. Life, calmly, human life is only once, happy, calm life is a lifetime; tight tension, suffering from gain and loss is also a lifetime.
For the sake of an insatiable heart, it is very sad to work hard all day and not see success, and to be tired all your life and not find a home.
Blindly pursuing what you don't need, wasting a great time in vain, suffering from gains and losses all day, living in terrible anxiety, what is the meaning of such a life?
The world is constantly changing, and what you have will be lost at any time, and what you don't have may come at any time. Once people lose themselves, they can only change their mood with the changes.
What is the difference between the pain of being enslaved by external objects at all times, the body and mind not being free, and the walking dead?
A county order went out to handle the case with a very precious "tile", accidentally fell down on the road, fell to pieces, only to see the county order head did not return to continue to rush.
The attendant asked incomprehensibly, "Lord, isn't it painful for you to break the "Wattle"?" The county order said: "The broken tile" has become an irrevocable fact, and does it still affect my happy mood? ”
In the face of the inability to change the facts, you may wish to be calm and calm. Watch the flowers blossom and fall before the court, honor and disgrace are not alarmed; look at the clouds in the sky, and leave no intention!
Two people sat on the playground watching the sunset, and one of them said: "It is a pity that such a beautiful sunset is about to set." Another said, "If the sun does not set, how can we see the morning sun tomorrow?" ”
The world is relative, and there are gains and losses! Happiness hides evils, and disasters lurk happiness, so what do we have to worry about? Why not calmly face everything?
Be down-to-earth and down-to-earth; less greed, less desire, enough things outside the body; life is impermanent, the world is changeable, we must cultivate a calm, calm mentality.
With such a mentality, under any environmental changes, you will no longer be upset, suffer from gains and losses, and lose yourself!
A person, how quiet the heart is, how deep the blessing is. The heart is calm, and the people are blessed. When the mind is quiet, it is wise, and when the heart is disturbed, it is hindered.
The world changes too fast, there are too many temptations, and we are often caught in all kinds of troubles and confusions for no reason, and we can't get out. There are many distractions, and then there is fear and worry, and they cannot settle down, so they live in pain and cannot be liberated.
We often say that "the environment is born of the heart", whether it is the external environment or the inner state of mind, in fact, it is born from people's own thoughts. "Everything is made of the heart".
Many times, what is bad is not the environment we are in, but the negative energy in our hearts, and what is bad is our own heart. Changing one's own heart and one's own thoughts is the best policy.
The world is in chaos, and you have to settle your heart. We must always observe our own thoughts, and when we are moved, we must not have delusions. If you can not move, rest assured that there is no chaos, it is the real inner strength.
Those who practice can cope with all changes with no change. Not a static action, but an immutable mind. Always clean the heart, in order not to be led by all kinds of desires and stubbornness.
Silence is not silent in the ears, but indisputable in the heart. In this practice of life, it is your own heart that you cultivate. Peace of mind is all peace, and confusion is all chaos.
When a person can control his heart, he can truly become himself. We must learn to recuperate ourselves, enrich ourselves, and complete our lives in all aspects.
First of all, learn to socially quiet yourself and enjoy being alone. We often mention a word called "cautious independence", which can be understood as being able to maintain extreme self-discipline even without external supervision. Prudence is a realm, it is not loneliness, but people's spiritual self-sufficiency and freedom.
When people reach a certain age, they must learn to be quiet and avoid impetuousness. Being alone is a state of mind and an ability. Getting used to being alone, refusing to be dependent, and staying away from low-quality social interactions are the most advanced ways for a person to live.
Only when the mind is calm, can we truly know the road we want to take, avoid detours and forks, and can we keep happiness and run towards success.
Second, we must calm ourselves in temperament, do not get angry, do not get angry. The better a person's temper, the deeper the blessing. The moon is full and the flowers are blooming and falling, how can everything go smoothly in life?
Everyone has a time when the mood is low, smart people, know how to self-regulate emotions, timely resolution and self-healing.
No matter what you encounter, you can control your emotions, do not get angry, do not pester, do not complain, know how to endure and release, this is the real maturity and stability. If you are too impatient and rash, it is easy to make mistakes and break into trouble.
If a person is always panicked, hurried, impetuous, and loves to complain, such a person, in fact, can't be busy, and his life will always fall into a mess. If the heart is unstable, the blessing will not come, and nothing will be accomplished.
Finally, recuperate yourself in fame and fortune. We must know how to keep a low profile, be a humble and gentle person, look down on fame and fortune, live in the moment, and be at ease.
Calm your mind, don't suffer from gains and losses, don't show off because of a little achievement, and don't fall into depression because of a momentary frustration.
Being low-key is a kind of wisdom. Do not show the mountains and dew, do not grab people's limelight, sober and wise, confused and idle, such a life, will go more and more open.
Jing, not stagnant, but undistracted, Taoguang and obscure, is a kind of calm and unhurried cultivation, a realm of pampering and not being shocked, but also a self-precipitation of accumulating strength and soaring into the sky.
Every major event must have a calm breath, a calm mind, calm and calm, calm and thinking, let the outside world be frightened, and do not change the inner waves. Even if you are deeply trapped in a difficult situation, you can quickly turn the tide of the murder and turn the crisis into safety.
The really powerful person is not strong, not to overcome others, but to overcome the troubled self in his heart. Everyone has attachments, and if they can let go, cultivate in the present moment, calm their minds, they can cut off delusions, increase their wisdom, and get away from suffering and happiness. If a person can control his thoughts and emotions at all times and everywhere, he can control his life at any time.
Mentality affects people's destiny. The quieter the heart, the more easy-going people are, and the smoother things are. When the heart is smooth, the person is also smooth. The quieter the person, the more energetic, the firmer the eyes, the cleaner and more decisive the work, the obstacles will become fewer, and things will be easy to achieve. The quieter a person is, the more powerful he is in his heart. A person's calmness is his best luck.
On the stage of life, different people play different roles. Some people live a wonderful life because he plays himself; some people live very tired, and it is because he is playing others.
Your life should be up to you, accept yourself, and be yourself, because you are unique in this world.
We should not despise ourselves and look down on ourselves, because that would be tantamount to putting a lock on ourselves, locking ourselves in a cage that does not see the light of day, and not being able to come out.
If you want to open this lock to save yourself, you can only love yourself, accept yourself, don't criticize yourself, even if you are flawed, you must transcend inferiority.
Perfect people do not exist, we have not encountered before, specific individuals in a specific aspect of the unsatisfactory place, this defect leads to a certain degree of inferiority.
Although our experience is shallow, or we are unhappy because of such and such things, these are only temporary.
As long as we love ourselves, all kinds of dissatisfaction will disappear because of our confidence and optimism. Once people accept themselves, then everything in life will naturally flow smoothly.
As long as we can love ourselves and be confident, our vision will be wider, our wealth will gather, our relationships will improve, and our creative ability will increase.
In fact, what I want is very simple, that is, I have you always accompanied me. Romantic roses bloom for you, warm love words for you, sincere promises for you, long life with you, is the best love.
The most touching thing is that you came to me, with a smile, and we walked through the spring of the small town together. The hardest person to forget is you, and I have a thousand things I want to tell you. The love for you is the most persistent dialogue, and this love will never change.
In this world, there is never the best, only the most suitable. Like the clouds and the sky, the breeze and the grass, like the you in my eyes, and the me in your eyes.
In your eyes, I know that there is a kind of love that will make people obsessed for a lifetime. You always appear in my dreams, wake up, things are not human.
Time is shallow, a thought arises, a lifetime of love, may your dreams come true, happiness forever. That day, watching you go away, my heart ached so much that I couldn't breathe.
A true feeling, how many regrets; a thought, how much reluctance. Love is like a flower blossoming and falling, the song is finally scattered, only those who can't put it down understand best.
Knowing that you will not come back, I am still waiting for you to return. If the encounter is a beautiful acquaintance, then after parting, it is a grand thought.
Right or wrong, it is no longer important, some love, destined to end with regret. Time is shallow, a thought arises, a lifetime of thinking about you, your peace and happiness is my greatest wish.
Sometimes, I really want to go to you, I want to see you again, to tell you that I have missed you all these years, and I have no reluctance and affection for you, but I do not have the courage after all.
Cross the sea of people, to trace your traces, no one knows my heart. A reunion, in exchange for a lifetime of bitter love. Looking back, there is always an encounter that amazes the time, but there is no gentle rest of the years.
If we hadn't met, I wouldn't have known that there was someone who would make people think so much. There is a kind of longing, a faint happiness; there is a kind of concern, which is appreciated from a distance. The night is long, and there is a feeling that I want to say that I can't say, and it is still in my heart.
You are engraved in my memory and cannot be erased. Missing you is a meaningful poem, with the echo of the heart fused between the lines. Thinking that you are a beautiful melancholy, in the heart, it is a touch of warmth.
With you along the way, you are willing to suffer a little; with you along the way, even if there is wind and rain, you have nothing to fear. The thought of you is like a piece of white cloud, floating in the heart; more like a leisurely flowing water, never ending.
Can't stay together for a lifetime, just accompany you in your heart, you are in my heart, better than thousands of scenery, no one can replace you.
There is a kind of waiting, which is called hard to give up; there is a kind of gaze, which is called not to forget. Love to the depths of fear of failure, love to the depths of people lonely, there is always a name, can make me instantly quiet.
Time is shallow, a thought arises, a lifetime of love, the years are silent, there is a person, can never forget.
I like you, like the wind has gone eight thousand miles, regardless of the return date. Maybe there are five thousand flowers in the world that are exactly the same as you, but only you are my unique rose. I would like to accompany you to see the long stream of water, I hope you can be gentle with my years, accompany me through this life.
Some people say, "Those who become big things are informal." Is this really true? People who have been able to achieve great things throughout the ages have achieved excellence in details, and if there are no details, let alone success.
The "Times Review" said this: We must have a high degree of learning, a person must have depth, and we must have a perspective on problems. These three aspects all point to a careful look at the world, and the dimension can promote brilliance?
A person's pattern is often hidden in the details, hidden in the handling of people, can be divided into three aspects, one is to treat people, can be shrewd but not too damaged.
To put it simply, you can be shrewd and transparent everywhere, but Xiao Hui should not be greedy and cannot do something harmful to others and himself.
The second is to hide in temperament and reason, to know the truth that full of arrogance and humility benefit, and jealousy makes people look beyond recognition. In short, it is to know how to respect others, and when others achieve achievements, they cannot let themselves become the so-called "sour lemon".
The third is hidden in the matching of thinking and behavior. As the saying goes, "trapped in the heart and weighed in the worry and then done", we must know not to expose the sharp edge prematurely, so as not to be clever but to be mistaken by the clever.
The pattern of a person is nothing more than these three aspects. Learning to keep yourself in the middle of the pack is often able to move step by step towards your own success.
Don't be too smart in dealing with people. I can always hear people say that I obviously plan seamlessly, but it is still a bad move, is it too negligent and stupid? No, it is often too clever to end up hurting others and not benefiting themselves.
Because the phrase "man is not as good as heaven" has always explained a truth: don't be too smart, learn to be "stupid". The first is not to be clever but to be mistaken by cleverness, and the second is to remember not to be arrogant.
Because these two points will often make you lose the most important thing in the pattern, that is, "people".
In the case of "Three Kingdoms", Cao Wei's Jiang Gan was self-righteous and clever, feeling that he had secretly intercepted Sun Quan's secret letters, and felt that he would have full confidence in crossing the river to persuade Sun Quan to submit.
In the end, he did not know that this was just a bureau jointly set up by Sun Quan, and finally left an allusion that was that the group of heroes would jiang gan.
Therefore, sometimes people can't be smart, and sometimes things don't go exactly the way you expect, or it's worse, or it's harder.
Secondly, it is arrogant and proud, and the text "The Death of Yang Xiu" believes that everyone will not be unfamiliar.
Although Yang Xiu is smart, he is too much to show his intelligence and intelligence, but let people see his low emotional intelligence from the other side.
As the saying goes, a companion is like a companion of a tiger, not to mention Cao Cao, who is called a traitor. As the old saying goes, "Merit is high and the Lord is shocked", when a person's talent is envious, it is not far from failure, and it is actually this truth.
Ideological attitude should pay attention to humility and low-key. "How far a person can go on a snowy day depends on how deeply he bends by his waist." This sentence just shows that if a person wants to be able to achieve things, the best thing is to bow his head and bend down.
In "Sending Dongyang Horse Life Sequence", Song Lian gave an example of his humble and low-key study, which eventually became an example of everyone in the literary world.
The sentence "Yu Li serves left and right, helps doubt the quality, and leans over to please" explains the pattern of a person from the details.
Without bending down, how can you see places that others can't notice? If you are not modest and low-key, how can you get what others dream of?
Just like Mo Yan, people think that if he wins the Nobel Prize, his value will turn high. Unexpectedly, at his new book sale, he was still wearing the same pair of old leather shoes from previous years.
In the face of the reporter's question, he still answered modestly, and when others asked whether The Remnant Snow could win the Nobel Prize in 2019, Mo Yan said:
I hope that there will be a second Nobel Prize in China, because then you will not put your eyes and lights on me, and I will be able to concentrate more on creation.
"He has always been so low-key and humble, writing quickly into the role, and the finished product is of high quality." As Mo Yan's classmate friend Yu Hua commented on him in this way, which shows his humility and success.
Behave and behave, remember that Mo Is sharp. Don't let people know how many brushes you have, once the sharp edge is revealed, it will cause jealousy, this is the same truth since ancient times.
Natsume Soseki wrote in his work "Grass Pillow": "Attachment to reason is sharp, and indulgence in emotion is to follow the waves." Strong self-opinion and self-imposed in a corner. In short, it is difficult to live in the world. ”
Yes, it is difficult to live in the world, not that it is difficult to stand in this world, but that sometimes it is difficult to get the approval of others.
Just like the protagonist Xu Fengnian in the novel "Sword Line in the Snow", from the very beginning he knew not to show his feathers prematurely, recuperate, and finally become the King of Xiliang in one fell swoop.
It is said that a person's pattern is larger, but the partial pattern is reflected in very small details. The of a thousand miles is destroyed in the ant nest, and the details can often be peeped into the leopard, peeking into a person's future ending.
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