Original Peng Xiaojun New Nets Division 2022-02-11
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Today is February 8th, for me, it is a special day, there are deliberate expectations, there are inexplicable worries, because the new net master one day narrative is written by me. I claimed the "one-day narrative" because I saw the one-day narrative written by Xu Yumei of Yulin, Shaanxi Province, forwarded by teacher Zhu Yongxin, and I read the orderly daily work, the stitches and needles of professional reading, and the smell of human fireworks in daily life. Teacher Xu was my tablemate when I was reading together in Zhengzhou on May Day, watching her high-speed rail growth acceleration, I felt happy and eager to challenge myself, so I applied, so lucky, grateful.
Zhang Chao, a Qing dynasty, said: "Flowers cannot be without butterflies, mountains cannot be without springs, stones cannot be without moss, water cannot be without algae, trees cannot be without vines and roses, and people cannot be without fetishes." "Walking into the new net master, I like to read and think more, immersed in the learning community of the net master, day after day, reading code words has become the most enjoyable pastime in my leisure time, and it is also a tranquilizer for distraction and bad mood."
Today is still in the holiday, my holiday time is usually flowing like this, get up at 6:00 in the morning, read and code words, 7:30--8:30 run 5 kilometers, 8:30--10:00 to do breakfast and tidy up the housework, 19:00--20:00 winter vacation homework online grading and feedback, 20:00--21:30 parent-child reading. 22:00--23:00 Alone time. This is a fixed rhythm of the day, and the rest of the time is freely arranged.
01
Reading and thinking
Today is no exception, getting up at 6 o'clock, getting used to getting up early, the time before the family gets up is their own, it's really good. The most recent reading is "Fu Lei Family Book", the family has two sons, coinciding with the eldest is in adolescence, during the holidays I want to read tutor books to nourish the wisdom of parenting. More than 60 years ago, Fu Lei sent letters to convey affection, and wrote all the words of educating his son into letters. After half a century, in my opinion, this is not only a simple letter, but also a life bag waiting to be unsealed.
"In public groups, it is inevitable to rush tasks and hinder normal learning, which I expected earlier. Everything is only your own firm will and position, to the leadership of the gentle and powerful to fight, otherwise how much can you do in preparation to go abroad? Especially in terms of experience, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, conviction and will—the will to practice. "The father in the family letter uses his own experience to remind his son how to cope with the ever-changing world, hoping that they can go to a higher level than himself."
"I hope that you will devote all your energy to research and learning, use more reason and less emotion, of course, it depends on your strong confidence, and it is not an easy task to restrain all troubles, but it must be overcome." For your emotional problems, I have never mixed any opinions, I think you are making progress in all aspects, you are a smart person, you will be enlightened. Since I am your mother, we are closely related flesh and blood, and we have to nag and advise. "The mother starts from the most subtle local emotional problems, respects without interfering, and tells him how to deal with his feelings and academic problems.
"The upper wisdom is not taught, the lower foolishness is useless, and the middle-of-the-road man does not teach and does not know." All sentient beings, most of our children are ordinary people with medium root organs, if you do not educate you can not understand things, I also got to accompany children through the effective way of puberty - letter writing, family letters can accompany, paper short but long, a parent who pursues progress is the biggest blessing of a family, knowing that nagging and talking about the mood, only parents can understand, I am willing to try.
While reading and thinking, my parenting philosophy is also changing, the child is an independent individual, need to feel his own sense of control and autonomy, we often see "what to do" as love, but many times, we "do not do" is love. Love is to see the real child, to let go of the idea of transforming the child, so that it is possible to see the real him and see the emotional feelings behind his actions. All I can do is believe, and then carefully craft these innate qualities of children, teach them in a pertinent way, and let these basic instincts and personalities transform their talents and strive to be the special result of excellence. The writer Feng Chen once said, "The so-called parents and children are just nourishing each other." I originally thought that I had given everything for you, but in the end I found that what was fulfilled was myself... How fortunate we are to have each other in this world, there is no substitute. Thank you for being my child in this life! "As the saying goes, when you meet, you must cherish it."
02
Running and listening to books
7:30 out of the run, "5 kilometers a day" is a skill that accompanies students to exercise inadvertently in the summer vacation of 2021, and to this day, it is still insisting, and running has become an indispensable part of life. The accumulation that began on July 6 last year has the current self-discipline. In fact, originally I hated running, was a cycling enthusiast, preferred the pride of "riding a bicycle to the world", liked the free running of body and mind, and later because the team was disbanded, I did not find a better team, I did not continue to follow up. Before the summer vacation began, the school arranged the task of holiday exercise, I was pragmatic, I really led the students to start running in the gymnasium, just when there was a parent in the class who was a marathon enthusiast, who could give more professional guidance, it started at that time, until the beginning of the school, seeing the persistence of 220 kilometers on the "Gollum", let me see more confident myself from the inside out, let me be more willing to use the "fierce heart" on myself, with the efforts of the body, to continue to maintain beauty and elegance, makeup, beautiful clothes 3. Present a girlish flower-like smile and live yourself as a shiny goddess. So, the run persisted.
The usual action when running is to listen to "Fan Deng's reading" while running, today I listened to Peng Kaiping's "Live a Life with Flowers", reading the title of the book, is a quite eye-catching name, before, in my brother's house to read this book, quite kind. Last night, the Faculty of Science informed that the ninth grade will return to school one after another, and the day after tomorrow will be officially held, and the leisure and comfortable holiday time will soon run out, and it will be a new beginning, and the heart is also looking forward to a new semester.
The author of this book is a positive psychologist, after listening to his explanation, I learned that "heart blossoming" was originally a psychological concept, but also an English word, the original meaning is as brilliant as a flower, the author wants to express a positive, vigorous, vigorous state.
This is not chicken soup for the soul, the ideas and methods mentioned in the book are based on scientific research, with logical consistency, it has a physiological basis, it has physical and mental reactions, it has specific consequences, it can make us healthy, it can live for 10 more years, it can make more money, it can make our love relationship more intimate, it can make our children healthier. You see, life is always so beautiful, let us be full of expectations and yearning. Teacher Fan Deng strongly recommends: This is a happy pillow book recommended to Chinese youth.
Tomorrow, too, you can listen to it or read it. But I also recommend that you don't rush to read it in one breath, that is, when you have time, when you have time, when you need to read it, and then read it slowly, so that it becomes a pillow book. Li Qingzhao said, "It is good to sit idly by on the pillow of poetry. "It is best to read the books on the pillow when you have leisure."
03
Cooking & Care
Mother-in-law knee surgery years ago, lived in the hospital for more than twenty days, now the left leg is fixed, on crutches, in addition to going to the bathroom, most of the day is in bed, I also incarnated as a little kitchen lady, before but the kitchen white, almost nothing, now can only learn to cook, mother-in-law bed command, I wander between the kitchen and her bedroom, in the kitchen according to the mother-in-law said to do a good job, and then brought to the room for the mother-in-law to see, and then adjust, or add ingredients, or add vegetables, just like this to learn to cook, learn to take care of the mother-in-law, Just as she used to take care of me.
In the morning, when I came back from a run, I first boiled a pot of water, knocked on the door, poured a cup of boiled water for my mother-in-law, prepared the ingredients for breakfast, and when I saw my mother-in-law's room door open, I began to cook. I remember the day of the winter solstice, my mother-in-law dictated sentence by sentence, taught me to mix dumpling filling, from cutting radish to teach, teach me how far to cut the radish, only to taste well, watching me put the spices into the basin one by one, mixing the filling, and afraid that I would not wrap, stunned is on crutches, put the legs up, sit next to me and teach me by hand, at the beginning, the dumplings of the package can not stand up, the mother-in-law taught me, put the middle skin together, so, slowly, the dumplings I wrapped can also stand up. On the third day of the Chinese New Year, more than twenty people came to the house, and my little sister and I cooperated vigorously, but also made two tables of dishes.
To this day, I can also cook independently, and today I prepare breakfast: oil tea, boiled eggs, white buns and salted leeks. Oil tea is very fragrant and can enhance appetite, eggs supplement protein, and salted leeks are the favorite of the elderly. Slowly, I found that cooking is a science, but it is also quite interesting.
In the new year, may the mother-in-law recuperate her body well, easily shake off her crutches in the spring, be able to carry out rehabilitation training, and may all the family members be in good health. Family sitting idly, the lights are amiable, is the greatest happiness in the world. I also want to have a safe force that can sustain life at all times, no matter what happens in my life.
04
Parent-child time
The eldest has a reading punch card, the second has a reading punch card, so every night after 8 o'clock we began to read parent-child reading, the boss read in his room, he read tonight is "Ordinary World", the holiday required reading list required by the Language teacher. I read it with my second brother, I read it, and tonight I read Tatsuya Miyashi's Tyrannosaurus Rex series "Love You Forever and Ever", Carmela's Series "I Want to See the Sea" and "Little Satoshi Boy". "How long does a life have to go through cultivation to produce a flower of its own?" This answer ah, I don't know, freezing is not a cold day, read slowly, the result is in the back.
After reading and punching in, the boss came in to hand in the mobile phone, and then washed his face and feet, and then played with the second brother in bed, played for a while, there was a ride without a ride, we chatted, companionship and communication is the most beautiful picture, I also want to let the water in the ditch flow smoothly. Later, in my incessant scolding, they would stop, the boss would go back to his room to read, and the second brother would continue to make trouble, jumping down from the head of the bed, jumping down from the pillow, flipping and fighting, and so on. Around 9 o'clock, give the two babies warm milk, a bag of pure milk for each person, first send it to the boss's room, and by the way, see what the boss is doing, huh huh. Let the second man drink again, then tell the story, turn off the lights, and sleep.
Coax the second eldest to sleep, look at the boss, urge him to sleep too, and when he turns off the lights, I can safely enter the study and enter my solitude time. First carry out the daily punch card of the English study class, if there is enough time, it will also update the public account, say good day change, sometimes can not do, for example, today, but also let the past pass, let tomorrow come.
Life is a kind of return, the criterion of happiness lies in listening to your own inner voice, returning to your inner idyll, in the life of simplifying complexity, growing hard, with the sun in your eyes, laughing in all frankness, living hard, healing all the emotions in life, and living every day as beautiful and vivid as when you were twenty years old, colorful, warm and pleasant.
May each of us enjoy the beauty of the world and start acting today!
(The picture in the text is from the Internet)
Author: Peng Xiaojun, Junior High School English Teacher, Peiwen Experimental School, Weinan City, Shaanxi Province
Editor: Zhao Fengjin
Review: Liu Fengjuan