Last night, I got together with seven or eight former colleagues who had not seen each other for a long time, including a female colleague, who was talking non-stop with her mouth, and everyone was very annoyed, but because of the obstruction of face, everyone listened patiently and absently.
She used to be a well-known long-tongued woman who played with right and wrong in the company, once had a very good couple, that is, she was smashed alive by her two-sided and three-knife statement, and finally the woman could not stand taking medicine at home to commit suicide, and finally rescued her, and she was also beaten by the boy, but she still did not change.
There is a divorced woman with a child, she is also to others nonsense, saying that this woman is not serious and that it is not serious, making rumors flying all over the world, and finally the woman who harmed her has no way to quit her job and take the child away from home.
Her reputation is very bad, she is playing around with right and wrong, this party does not know who called her over, I really can't listen to it, stand up and say that there is a prior departure, as I get up, everyone will take the opportunity to disperse.
Today, I saw the plastic sealed "Pillar Ruling Family Maxim" on the desk, and saw "Three sisters and six wives, the medium of adultery and theft." This sentence immediately reminded me of the colleague last night, and I felt that it was really right!
The interpretation of Zhu Zizhijia's maxim is "to mean that the unorthodox women in society are all media of fornication and theft, such as the three sisters and six wives," and to use our current interpretation, it is: "It means that those women who manipulate right and wrong and talk about gossip are indeed intermediaries in phenomena such as fornication and theft."
Usually we all say: "Manage your mouth, otherwise the disaster will come out of the mouth" But in ordinary life, how many of us have managed our mouths? Of course, no one says people behind their backs, but as long as it is harmless, it can't cause any big harm to others, but once it causes harm, it is a very serious consequence.
Just like my colleague, taking what others say about committing suicide by taking medicine and one running away from home is the evil consequence of manipulating right and wrong, saying that the long-tongued woman is short-tongued. Of course, there is no good report for her like this, her husband can't stand her gossip, moving right and wrong, divorced her early, a pair of children never interact with her, now a lonely person, complaining all day long, a mouth or not change the mean and move right and wrong, this is the karma of it, the mouth does not stay moral, how can there be blessings?
Modern marriage has long abolished the bad habit of three wives and four concubines, but the monogamous marriage system, but the development of society, perhaps the beautiful concubines are gone, but what follows is the chaos of "little three, lovers" and so on that plagues the nerves of modern people.
We will certainly often hear or even personally experience such a dog blood plot, that is, that place, the little three in order to get on the throne, poison children, and successful people, because of their own expansion, they will find lovers outside, make the family disharmony, and be discredited, I believe that such things are no longer fresh around us.
And in the "Zhu ZiZhi Family Maxim", it is said that the concubine is beautiful and delicate, not the blessing of the boudoir.
What's the difference with the chaos we have now?
A family is a cell of society, the instability of the family, will lead to many unstable factors in society, "full of warm thoughts and lust", is the ancients' analysis of our human nature and earnest teaching, let us in the material satisfaction at the same time, to keep a heart, correct their behavior, away from the various temptations in society.
"People are not sages, who can be blameless" This is the excuse we each make for ourselves when we make mistakes, but it also depends on what mistakes you make, if you make mistakes that exceed the moral bottom line and shake the foundation of a family, this is not so simple as making mistakes, light will make you discredited, wives and children are separated, the family is disintegrated, the heavy will make you either die or cripple, commit lawsuits, etc.
Read the books of the sages, let us be wise, let us no matter what kind of situation we are in, we must keep a clear mind, keep our own hearts, and the family will be stable and happy!
The afternoon sun is warm, let us bathe and clean our hands in front of the table with a few clean windows, and read the "Zhu Zi Zhi Family Maxim" - three sisters and six wives, the medium of adultery and theft. Concubines, not the blessings of the boudoir、、、、、 to purify the soul!