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Today's divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and once both parties choose to divorce, they no longer need each other.
However, there are three kinds of women whose marriages are not only stable, but also very happy. Because they know how to grasp each other's hearts, how to make each other obsessed with themselves, how to make each other love for themselves.
They cleverly let men care about themselves, and even if they have been married for many years, they also make men love themselves deeply.
So, which three kinds of women in marriage, the most inseparable men?
01 Woman who will spoil
Some people say: Children who can cry have sugar to eat, and women who can spoil are the best to die.
Good life is not that they are born well, but they will spoil, can make men inseparable from themselves, and have always loved themselves, so they are the best people in marriage.
Haruko is a person who knows how to be spoiled, she and her husband never quarrel, every time her husband is angry, as long as she is spoiled, her husband is immediately fine.
Once, when Haruko went shopping with a friend, she was only ready to buy a pair of shoes, and when she was shopping, she saw a dress that she liked very much, and she felt that it fit very well after trying it on.
One last bite of the teeth and buy. But she was afraid of being scolded by her husband after she went home, and she was worried about what to do all the way.
After returning home, sure enough, her husband felt that Haruko had spent money indiscriminately, and Haruko was ready to explain to her husband how much she liked it, but Haruko wanted to come and go, explaining that her husband might not be able to understand, and it was better to be happy than to be spoiled.
So when her husband was nagging, Haruko hugged her husband from behind when she was busy, and said to her husband: "Husband, don't be angry!" I really like it! Otherwise I wouldn't have spent money indiscriminately! ”
After hearing this, the husband turned to Haruko and said, "We have to save more money to have a baby!" It's not that I won't let you buy it." Haruko kissed her husband, snuggled in her husband's arms, and said to her husband: "I know, so I am usually very provincial, this time I bought a dress that I like very much, if I don't buy it, I will regret it for a long time, husband, can you understand?" ”
The husband looked at his wife and nodded dotingly, and Haruko asked her husband again, "Then do you still love me?" The husband nodded.
In this way, Haruko easily resolved her husband's unhappiness, not only was she happy, but her husband was also happy.
Spoiled women are the best at life because they know how to use spoilage to resolve conflicts and not let husband and wife fight each other. If a man is with such a woman, their hearts are soft, and they are fascinated by the delicacy of their wives at any time.
Such a woman in marriage, the most inseparable for men.
02 Gentle woman
Some people say that women are made of water and are naturally gentle.
But in fact, in real life, there are many women who are very rigid and not gentle at all, such as Li Na, who is a very rigid person.
However, in contrast, Huo Siyan was a very gentle woman, so she was deeply loved by Du Jiang.
In "The Wife's Romantic Trip", the marriage of Huo Siyan and Du Jiang is the envy of everyone.
When Huo Siyan went on a trip, they were climbing the 999 steps, and on the steps, Huo Siyan confessed affectionately to her husband, and she shouted loudly: "Husband, I love you."
And showing a shy expression, Du Jiang in front of the screen, seeing such a gentle and lovely wife, her face is full of pampering and love.
Some people say that Huo Siyan was very lucky to meet Du Jiang, but in fact, it was not that she was lucky, but she knew how to warm Du Jiang's heart with gentleness at the right time, so that Du Jiang deeply loved herself.
In marriage, whether a woman is gentle or not is really important, because a woman's gentleness is a man's tired dependence, a placebo for a man's bad mood, and a man's strong inner softener.
There is a saying: Gentle heaven goes down, strong and difficult to move.
And for a man, they will always like a gentle woman, not a strong woman, because a strong woman will cause them bad emotions and will make them often in a rage.
But if it is a gentle woman, it will make them become soft, so as to like the gentle self, once they like such a state, like this mode of getting along, it will be inseparable from the gentle woman.
03 Only love a woman with 80 points
A smart woman will never love a man wholeheartedly, but use 80 points to love, because they understand 80 points of love, so that the other party can not be separated from themselves.
In fact, men and women are born different, men have a desire to conquer, once a woman loves with all her heart, then men will lose their combat effectiveness and feel that there is no need to try to conquer each other, so that love will become less.
Only if a woman knows how to love a man with 80 points, a man will always have the desire to conquer, want to conquer women, and thus devote himself to women.
Friend Xuanzi is such a person, she will not love 100% from the beginning of knowing her husband, but always maintain 80 points of love. This is true even during the period of hot love.
Once, when they were not yet married and her boyfriend was about to celebrate his birthday, a friend suggested that she send her a mobile phone that her boyfriend had liked for a long time, but Xuanzi did not do so.
She felt that doing so would make her boyfriend feel that he loved him too much and would give everything for him so that his boyfriend would not cherish himself.
Later, when she got married, she always used 80 points to love, never looked at her husband's mobile phone, never supervised her husband's life, and did not think about her husband.
But it has its own circle, has its own life, always maintains love for her husband but only does not rely on it wholeheartedly, and loves but does not cling to her husband.
It is also because of her love that her husband will always stick to Xuanzi and always find a way to make Xuanzi love him more.
In marriage, the most inseparable man is yes, a person who only knows how to love 80 points, such a person makes them remember, let them always maintain the desire to conquer.
04 Marriage is not easy and requires skill maintenance
In fact, it is not easy for any marriage to go to the end, there will be a lot of small things in the process, these seemingly inadvertent small things, serious words will make a marriage break up.
And only in marriage, people who know how to operate, marriage can come to the end.
There is no doubt that these three kinds of women are people who can run marriages, and they understand how to love each other, how to make each other love themselves, and how to make each other inseparable from themselves.
Thus ensuring that his marriage can come to an end.
Ma Yili once said: Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.
In fact, we will run a marriage is to cherish, cherish each other, cherish this feeling, it seems that women are playing tricks, but in fact, they are maintaining their own marriage and making their marriage more stable.
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