The last chat history before the breakup

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Author:Cheng Yi

Source: Cheng Yi (ID: djchengyi)

The last time you talked before the breakup, what did you all say?

It is to bless each other and wish each other a better encounter in the future.

Or complain and curse each other, and say all kinds of ugly and hurtful words.

Or you're struggling to get it back, and you cry and beg him not to go.

Either way, it must be very sad, very sorry.

People who have had hundreds of pages of chat history have scattered and scattered.

01

Someone said:

All encounters in the world are for a reason, either a gift or a lesson.

The person who didn't make it to the end with you, maybe you weren't the same travelers in the first place.

He may have appeared just to teach you a lesson.

Let you know what love is, and let you experience what love is.

Let you learn to face separation, but also slowly begin to grow.

Even so, I believe you are still willing to fall in love with him.

Because the process of falling in love is more important to the outcome.

As this line from Forest of Fire says:

"If I could turn back the clock, I would still choose to know you."

Although it will be scarred, the warm memories in the heart cannot be given by anyone.

Thank you for coming to my world. ”

Moments of love must be real.

It's just that there were too many accidents later, and no one could have imagined that they would be separated.

In the movie "Love in Years", the heroine Lu Lushan played by Mao Xiaotong and the male protagonist Jiang Yu, played by Yang Jiu, fell in love at first sight across the Chinese New Year's Eve.

The moment the New Year's bell rang, they promised each other that they would spend the day together every year.

I hope that the people who accompany the broken thoughts can also accompany them year after year.

It didn't take long for them to live together.

In the vast city of Beijing, they supported each other, accompanied each other, and reported to the group for warmth.

They settled down together, raised dogs together, and ate many, many meals together.

He couldn't eat spicy, but she wasn't spicy.

When eating hot pot, he drank soy milk while accompanying her to add hemp and spicy.

During the Spring Festival, she secretly ran back to Beijing from her hometown.

The moment he opened the door, he was seen standing in the doorway waiting for her.

He is obviously very busy at work, but after work, he still rides an electric car to the unit to pick her up.

When she was a child, she lost herself with her family in a tunnel and has since had a shadow.

In order to help her out of this haze, he deliberately arranged a tunnel-like aisle in his home.

He also told her that he would accompany her in the future.

When you are in love, everything is too beautiful to be true.

The enthusiasm is undiminished, the romance is not dead, vigorous and unforgettable.

But passion does not take root, romance has no eternity, and love is always flickering.

After only a year together, they broke up.

The time of separation is more time later than the time of love.

Love in years is also difficult to last forever.

02

Did you talk before you broke up?

Haruko said she had talked to her ex-boyfriend.

Talked a lot, talked about why they broke up, and why they liked each other in the first place.

Talk about a lot of things that happened during a relationship.

Including the first quarrel, the first Cold War;

The first birthday gift prepared for the other party;

The first time you say the three words "I love you" to the other person;

There are also later, less and less frequent chats.

Chat content with an increasingly shorter word count on the conversation interface.

The more they talked to the back, the more silent the two men became.

Because they couldn't see each other in person, they were separated across the screen.

Haruko's last message to him was:

"It's my regret that I didn't say goodbye to you.

But it doesn't matter, I'll try to let go and let go.

This last WeChat should say goodbye to you. ”

I really tried my best to love you.

The result is not up to people, we are helpless.

I remember the day we broke up, Haruko asked me:

"Why can't people who like each other go on all the time?"

I said that probably in adult relationships, it is not enough to like each other.

Adult love is not hugging and holding hands.

That also requires responsibility, support, and future commitment to practical issues such as chai rice oil and salt.

And a small problem in this can defeat a love.

Therefore, not all love can have a future.

Love without being able to do so is the eternal norm.

03

The saddest part of love is not parting.

It's those warm memories that keep you where you are, replaying them over and over again.

Those hundreds of chats, those snuggled up to company day and night.

Just when you thought you were about to let go, everything swept in again.

But no matter how beautiful the memories are, they cannot nourish the present and the future.

Instead of remembering it, it is better to bury deep regrets in the years.

I've seen the last of my life, I've talked about the last day, I've had my last meal.

Let's turn around and go our separate ways.

In the past few years, the mountains and rivers do not have to meet, and the sea of people does not have to see each other again.

If love is a lifelong cultivation, then I wish you to achieve positive results as soon as possible.

From now on, may what you love and ask for is a two-way street.

Author: Cheng Yi, Source: Cheng Yi (ID: djchengyi), the sound is warm, and the sound at night will glow. The new book "Not Living up to the past, not afraid of loneliness" is a hot seller, the answer you want, time will give you. Cheng Yi used his warm and healing voice and heartfelt words to spread positive energy to more than 30 million listeners across the network, and the program was broadcast more than 6 billion times. Weibo: @DJ Chengyi.

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