Don't tiptoe, the person who loves you will bend over

Listen to happiness with you every night

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Author:Cheng Yi

Source: Cheng Yi (ID: djchengyi)

Some people say that love is like a bunch of sand.

The tighter you grasp, the more you lose.

And those who tiptoe hard to love are like sand in their hands.

It will only bring deep hurt and disappointment to yourself after each effort.

He still turns a blind eye to your love.

It won't be because you tiptoed ninety-nine times in exchange for him leaning over once.

Perhaps, it is really as Teacher Tu Lei said:

"Tiptoeing to love someone is very unrealistic."

Because, the tiptoe is long, the legs will be numb, the person will be tired, and the center of gravity is not stable.

It won't last long, and your love will become a burden to you.

01

I have seen such a sentence on the Internet:

Don't sleep too late, don't love too much, everything has to pay attention to a degree.

Because

People who push too hard tend to go far.

When I first watched "Tokyo Love Story", I was always deeply moved by Li Xiang's spirit of doing her best and bravely to love.

But after a while to see, I will also feel deeply sorry for this girl who has worked 100% hard in love and finally been hurt by pills too many times.

It is undeniable that Li Xiang loves Maruko fiercely, and she loves without complaint or regret.

But even then, she had moments of humble love.

The most impressive thing is the episode where Li Xiang waits for Maruko at the café.

He said he would wait for her no matter how late, and half-jokingly said that he would wait for her even if he turned into a bronze statue.

But a phone call from Rimi still asked him to release Li Xiang pigeons.

One left a note, one did not see, so Li Xiang waited for him in the café until closing before leaving.

In the end, holding the red umbrella and rubbing her small hands, she always waited for him.

But she also has times when she is vulnerable, and there are also times when she can't hold on to the limit.

Finally, she slowly rested her head on Maruko's chest.

"Although you are so close to me, you seem to be so far away, why is that?"

This is what she said to Maruko, and it was also said to herself who tiptoed up and loved with her heart.

She knew that he had always had Rimi in his heart, but she still let herself fall in love with him without hesitation.

She told him to remember to catch himself, but he repeatedly failed her.

When she was clamoring to go to Ehime, when she asked him over and over again about whether to go to Los Angeles.

She just wanted to know that he loved her, and she wanted him to understand that she was there for him to keep himself.

Unfortunately, at this time, he was full of only Rimi.

Hurting and failing again and again, or let her choose to let go.

And Ehime's trip is the last decency she left for herself.

It is also her last humble love for Maruko.

You and I are engraved on the pillars, and I have walked every road here and seen every scene here, as if you really came with me.

The "goodbye" left on the scarf is the final ending she wrote about her love story.

Perhaps in the future, she will not have to love heavily, nor will she have to love humblely.

You will also meet people who understand her to love her.

02

Zhang Ailing once said:

"If you like a person, you will be humbled to the dust and then blossom."

But the truth is --

Humble love not only does not blossom, but also breeds unbridled harm.

At the age of 26, his friend Miao Miao finally had his first love and met the person who made his heart move.

However, in this love, Miao Miao, who has always been confident and free, has slowly become dim or self-doubtful.

Obviously, it was just a simple message to send, but she had to think about it for half a day.

How to send him to be happy, how to send him to give himself a second back?

Obviously he looks very good, but when he looks in the mirror, he repeatedly asks himself if he really likes it?

It turned out that when she met love, she would plummet with a high IQ.

The boyfriend said that she liked the short hair of the ear, and she cut off the long hair that had been carefully groomed for many years.

He knows that he always has a special affection for girls who read.

Miao Miao reluctantly gave up her hobby of watching movies and chasing dramas on weekends, and began to read obscure philosophy and psychology books.

Her circle of friends is all about photos of the two dating.

And the boyfriend's has almost nothing to say about being in love.

In this love, Miao Miao paid a very sincere heart, and also turned herself into the appearance that the other party liked.

But even so, the final harvest is the lukewarm response of the other party.

He never remembered Miao Miao's birthday.

Even if she was uncomfortable during her menstrual period, he was reluctant to say to her a light sentence of "drink more hot water".

In the end, she loved very tiredly, and she also let her love be scarred.

Admittedly, if a person really loves you, how can he be willing to love him in a humble posture to dust?

So, for those of you who keep tiptoeing up, it's better to leave early!

Let go of a way of life, but also give yourself a piece of freedom to love.

03

Some people say that true love is not nervous.

It is to burp, fart, goug out ears, and run nose in front of him without scruples.

Some people say that the best appearance of love is probably —

I'm willing to tiptoe for you, and you're willing to bow your head for me.

As one of the most popular passages on the Internet put it:

"You're too tall, I need to tiptoe to kiss you."

"Actually, you don't have to tiptoe.

I'm willing to bow my head whenever you want. ”

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