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I don't know if in your heart, there are some regrets that have been hidden for a long time:
People who want to forget but can't forget anything;
What you want to say but can't say too late;
Want to do what you haven't done yet;
And then there was the cry: "I really like you..."
In life, more people leave the scene suddenly.
In the face of time, we often say wait for the next time, wait for later, but often wait and wait, waiting only regrets and regrets.
The people I wanted to see before, the things I wanted to do before, and then I remembered later, either the people scattered or there was no chance.
Just like the song "Thief of Years" that was very popular before, it was sung:
"Time is something that catches people off guard, and they can't fight for the day and night, and they think about the past."
Time will not let go of anyone, a casual moment, all the coming and going, all the long, turned into a dark exit.
Have you ever had regrets? When you hear the word "regret", who comes to mind?
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I've heard many stories, and one of the most frequent quotes is: "If it was what it was then, it's not like that now." ”
If I had studied well, I would not have been wronged and would not have resigned.
If I had cherished it in the first place, I would not have lost the person who was hopelessly good to me.
If I had been braver, I wouldn't have even had an answer now, he would have belonged to someone else.
If, if, if...
We always say if it was the beginning, but the truth is that we don't have the original again.
Like the classic bridge in most movies:
After many years, the female protagonist and the male protagonist meet again.
When the male protagonist asked, "If I hadn't left at that time, wouldn't we have been different?" ”
The heroine replied: "If you stayed at that time, I would stay with you for the rest of my life." ”
There are thousands of regrets in love, and the saddest thing is that two people obviously love each other, but they have to miss it.
I watched an interview with Stephen Chow before, and when Chai Jing talked about his emotional problems, he replied:
"I just had bad luck. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't be so busy. ”
Chai Jing said: "No, there was once a sincere relationship in front of you, you didn't cherish it." ”
This can't help but remind people of the classic line said by supreme treasure in "Journey to the West" more than a decade ago:
If Heaven could give me another chance, I would say three words to the girl: I love you.
If I had to add a deadline to this love, I would have liked to be... Ten thousand years.
Today, he said: "Ten thousand years is indeed too long, so don't wait so long, so if you have something to do right away." ”
Perhaps when Zixia leaves the Supreme Treasure, the Supreme Treasure can grow into Sun Wukong.
More than twenty years have passed, the Zixia Fairy has found her own hero, and Sun Wukong has suddenly wandered into the world.
We are all like this, thinking that the wait is only temporary, but the result is a lifetime.
I thought I missed only a few years, but I didn't expect it to be a lifetime.
And life is full of regrets, one day you will understand that people who really learn to love will not remember the past.
The greatest generosity for the future is to leave everything to the present.
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We always thought that time can make up for regrets, but we didn't expect that it was time that created more regrets.
It's like an interview video on Weibo: What is the biggest regret in your life?
A netizen said that his biggest regret was that he did not accompany his father that year.
"The year before, my father was not in good health, and he ran to the hospital at both ends of the three days, I thought I just thought I was old and there was something wrong with my body, so I gave a few words."
A few months later, my mom called to say that my dad was hospitalized and that he was suffering from a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and might be dying.
I rushed back to my hometown, but it wasn't long before my dad left.
I regret that I didn't go back early, and I regret that I didn't stay with my dad.
I had lived in remorse until now I understood that Dad's departure had taught me companionship. ”
Do you know what is the most cruel thing about kinship?
It is the son who wants to raise, but the kiss does not wait.
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It seems that the longer the time passes, the more you will understand a truth:
Those who are too late in life are actually the norm of life.
Regrets? It must be a pity.
Sad? It must be sad.
But it is those regrets that teach us to cherish and teach us to be brave.
"Regret" is like salt, sprinkled on the wound pain, but with it, life has a taste.
Only when you have regrets can you let go of regrets.
Only when there is concern, can we accept no worry.
Time is always pushing us forward, life is varied, regrets often come.
Just like Jin Weiqi sang in the new song "Regret", we go from unacceptable to calmly letting go.
From the beginning, he sang sadly that "people who leave home are inevitably worried" and "met a few of him, and finally formed a scar".
Later, he also changed his tone and sang:
"Where there are so many regrets in life evaporate with time, in the end I hope to say that I am not bad."
It's not forgiveness, it's not about it, it's about when that person leaves, and we all have to learn to move forward.
The dead leaves that fall this autumn will grow full of branches in the spring next year.
The old people who left at that time will come back one day in the future.
If you miss it, forget it.
It's just that in the future, we must better cherish the present and leave less regrets for the future.
Hopefully, you'll never understand the song "Regrets."
If you understand it, it doesn't matter, the years that are too late will eventually blossom.
Grasp the present, in the future you can also laugh and say, in fact, I am not bad.
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Author: Cheng Yi & Chestnut, Article Source: Cheng Yi (ID: djchengyi), the sound is warm, and the sound at night will glow. Weibo: @ DJ Cheng Yi. Original title: You always have to be alone and taste all regrets. Please contact the original author for reprinting, and half of them will be published with permission.