Go and love the man who is free for you

Listen to happiness with you every night

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Author:Cheng Yi

Source: Cheng Yi (ID: djchengyi)

Zhang Ailing said in "Red Roses and White Roses":

If a person doesn't have time, it's because he doesn't want to have time;

If a person can't walk away, it's because he doesn't want to go away;

If a guy makes too many excuses for you, it's because he doesn't want to care about you.

When we are deeply in love, we can always find countless reasons for each other's sloppiness.

Maybe he's working overtime, in a meeting.

Maybe he was just too busy to forget to go back, maybe he just didn't have time to prepare...

We never admit it —

Maybe, he just doesn't have time for you.

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In this world of remote horsepower, only full of love can we be worthy of the turbulent displacement of this road and the hearts of the people for a long time.

In my view of feelings, "time" has always been a very important category.

A person who loves you will give you time.

After knowing each other for three or two days, they enthusiastically confessed and continued to pester.

This is not love, it is loneliness, it is possession, it is an ultimatum to oneself.

What I yearn for more is the attraction of thin water and long streams.

A person's occasional good feelings, like the fireworks of a moment, are fleeting.

But if he told me,

"That day you were tied up in a high ponytail and inadvertently passed by me, and I saw that your pupils were dark brown."

I'll be very impressed.

In this day and age, a glass of wine can confirm love.

We could easily kiss strangers in a bar.

But I think that love should be to open the game copy and upgrade all the way to fight monsters.

Brave and dedicated people will be rewarded.

I am a person who likes to cross the river by feeling the stones.

I must feel your hot love before I can pay for it.

There are many passers-by in the people I meet, and whenever they mention it, they often only remember their first names and surnames.

Only those who like it in years.

Although there is no ending, it can make me feel warm in my heart on every day without light.

Just like when I was a student, I like to spend two lessons writing love letters.

Giving you my time is the greatest sincerity.

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People who are willing to be available for you may not necessarily love you.

But if the other person is always busy, he must not like it so much.

I have a good friend whose boyfriend is always "busy".

Friends sent him WeChat, and he always replied after a long time;

On weekends and holidays, friends let him accompany her shopping, he is always empty;

Even for some of the more important holidays and anniversaries, he always forgot to prepare gifts and pushed back to make up for it next time.

Friends asked me if I was too idle and too centered on him.

So he doesn't feel the need to pay anything for me anymore?

I said silly girl, just your kindness, didn't meet a worthy person.

Some people are like that, he can spend two hours playing games.

But I don't even give you twenty seconds to reply to WeChat.

Every time there is no time, it is pouring cold water on people's hearts.

Is it really that busy? I don't think so.

If you like it, even if you take a bath, you can wipe your hands for a second;

If you like, you can easily return a call between meetings;

If you like, the party can not go, the game can not be played, and the important festival will not be forgotten.

So, you get the idea?

He is the whole center of gravity of your life, and you are his alpha-d'êt.

One does not always have time, nor will one be free forever.

When he snubbed you, did he go to warm someone else?

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One might say that cheap touch is not love.

A person's availability for you does not necessarily mean that he loves you.

Of course.

The "availability" here not only refers to time, but also the scarce value of a person.

If a person is rich in money, he is willing to spend money for you, does not mean that he loves you.

But time is his scarcity, he is willing to spend time for you, and he undoubtedly loves you.

In the same way, we love someone to see what he values most.

Whether he is willing to give the most important part for you.

A person who does not understand romance is willing to make a bouquet of immortal flowers for you by hand;

A non-stop person, as long as he has time, he will talk to you on the phone and video;

A person who never stops for anyone, but rejects all ambiguity for you, just to give you a full sense of security.

Because I feel that I am special, the only one, I will not be hysterical.

This definite love is the direction of the heart.

Fu Seoul said:

"Idleness, idleness.

Love, are idle.

If there is still love in the busy, it is probably the truth. ”

People who really care about you will always be available for you.

People who want to send you home, southeast, northwest and southeast are all on the way.

People who look forward to seeing you, even if there are thousands of mountains and rivers, can arrive as scheduled.

It's not a technique I learned by accident, it stems from my instinct to love you.

Author: Cheng Yi, Article Source: Cheng Yi (ID: djchengyi), the sound is warm, the sound at night will glow. The 2021 healing new work "Everything in the World, None of You" is now on the market, no matter when, there will always be a person named Cheng Yi to tell you the story of the rest of your life. Cheng Yi used his warm and healing voice and heartfelt words to spread positive energy to more than 50 million listeners across the network, and the program was broadcast more than 7 billion times. Weibo: @ DJ Cheng Yi.

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