-01-
The human heart is always lonely.
Most people, who are eager to meet, can always be like "first meeting", but finally become: you are still you, I am still me, once clasped hands, like the evening breeze in the spring, harmonious and beautiful, but after brushing the cheeks, it disappears.
Just like, a disconnect, you think that the parting is very far away, but you don't know, the reason for the parting, is a simple sentence, an action, a turn; you think that parting is to leave the person you don't love, but you don't know, some parting is to leave the person you love, you wipe your tears, don't dare to look back at that person.
One person has left, the other is still immersed in the past; one has walked out, and the other is still secretly in love for a long time.
Therefore, if the connection between you is broken, there is still a chance to turn back, then cherish each other's return, after all, people in this life, the love encountered, like an inaccurate fate, will always be full of a lot of uncertainty.
There is a saying that the biggest regret in life is that at the most beautiful age, I met the person I wanted to take care of the most.
Therefore, cherish it, when you live further, the more you will find that everyone around, the most important thing is friends, but without that person's life, it is lonely and lonely.
-02-
The day before yesterday, a reader recounted a passage of his past.
He said that he had not been in contact with his girl for a month, and yesterday he had gathered enough courage to call her, and it rang for a long time before she answered, but the first thing she said was: Do you have anything to do?
He didn't know how to answer, the two people were silent for a long time, and then the girl said: Once upon a time, you never took the initiative to call me. It's okay, just hang up!
In fact, that day, he went to many places, the girl worked downstairs, he waited for a long time, and then listened to the security brother said, the epidemic relationship, changed to work from home, he went to the girl's community, waited for a long time, but there is no so-called "chance encounter", until very late, he did not go home.
Unfortunately, he wanted to say the most: I miss you.
That person, but he didn't know.
Perhaps, the disconnection is either to break up from now on and never contact again; or, after all, someone can't hold back and turn back to seek a compound, these two results.
Because you can't forget, you will be eager to catch it again, because you can't forget it, so you will forget your face, forget your embarrassment, and just want to be together again.
Therefore, if a man breaks the connection, he has an "abnormality": he will be different from the previous him, he will become active with you, become less concerned about you, more affirmative.
Well, don't doubt it, he really misses you, and he really wants to reconcile with you.
After disconnection, I always think of your "good"
In "Journey to the West", the Purple Xia Fairy was originally the wick around Rulai, which can be said to be "single in the mother's womb", after she went down, she saw the suffering of the world, the husband and wife were touched, and after she met Sun Wukong, she has since devoted herself to each other.
Unfortunately, love parting, resentment, unsatisfactory, and worldly suffering all happened to them.
Zixia Fairy deeply loved the Supreme Treasure, but he lied to her, used her, and only thought that the person he liked was Bai Jingjing, but in the end, he finally understood that the person he had been carrying in his heart was Zixia, and her simplicity and kindness had already touched him.
At that time, he was deeply involved in contradictions: he put on the confinement and could not love her; he could not save her by taking off the confinement.
Love, not just right, only after leaving, only think of your good.
The human heart has a flaw, that is, it does not know how to cherish. The person next to him, no matter how good he was to himself, still couldn't help but look at the people passing by outside the window.
Just like the classic language of men: what is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear.
The supreme treasure is not the representative of the psychology of many men.
Thinking that she was a prince, Cinderella came to her side, but did not know how to cherish "Cinderella's kindness to herself", so after she left, she remembered that the original family was also a princess and had no obligation to bear your "chicken feathers".
He will become a loser and want to reconnect with you and re-"reconcile" with you.
Life is real.
After losing, we know how to cherish, and it has really happened around us.
I still remember that there was a colleague, a young man who had just graduated, always wanted to be able to go faster in his career, but did not consult with his girlfriend, he applied for transfer to work in the field, the two people were in a different place for two years, because the boy worked harder, most of the time, it was the girl who ran back and forth between the two places, and every time he went, he must clean up the room, wash the clothes he had accumulated, and fill his refrigerator.
But later, the girl's acute appendicitis surgery, need to be hospitalized and taken care of, the girl's family is not in this city, the man can not take leave on the grounds of work, and did not go to the girl's side to accompany him, this matter, let the girl hate, made up her mind to break up with him.
Yeah, if she's sick and you can't come, forget it.
Fortunately, the boy finally knew that he could not do without her, bowed his head and confessed his mistakes, begged for a compound again and again, and tried to find a way to transfer the woman to the city, and the two had been married for several years now.
Perhaps, man, it is so, do not love you, even if you mention the breakup, he will break the jar and break, the next will be better; love you, he will change the former self, find a step for himself to reunite.
Time will fade the feelings, but if he really loves, he will be "reluctant".
There are always people who are clearly concerned about each other, but they dare not open their mouths, pretend to be free, and then begin to regret it, in fact, there is no need at all, there is no action of love, in the eyes of women, she will be regarded as not love.
Therefore, if a man's attitude towards you after the disconnection becomes active, becomes less concerned, cares more, and becomes more certain of you, it must be that he really determines his own intentions.
Men's love, not so complicated, is "together"
In fact, in the heart of a man, love is not so complicated, he likes you, and he expresses to you most bluntly, that is, "together" with you.
Therefore, after breaking off the connection, if he realizes that he still loves you very much, can't do without you, and can't forget you, he will take action on you.
In "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", Zhao Mosheng and He Yichen broke up under the dormitory building when they were students, and the next day, Zhao went to the United States and has not been heard from since.
Then, He silently waited for her for seven years, seven years, there should be many things happening, but he explained everything with the sentence "Individuals have appeared, others have become generals, and I am not willing to do them".
Then, when they met again, he couldn't wait to reconcile with her, pulled her to get a license to get married, and handed over his house and savings to her, afraid that she would run away again.
It can be seen that the unforgettable heart in his heart, even if the connection is broken for a long time, he will end everything with "I want us to be together".
People, really met people who really like, where there are so many concerns.
True love, not so complicated, because it is you, so he will want to fill the rest of his life together, from the rest of his life together, from the rest of his life together, to pick up the time that has been lost.
Once with you ten fingers clasped, in the present, do not want to hold other people's hands; once hugged you tightly, in the present moment in anyone, can not find the warmth you give.
Love, for him, is to be together.
-03-
It is said that there are three things in this world that cannot be hidden: cough, poverty, and love.
Perhaps, the reunion after the disconnection is the true embodiment of love.
Everyone who is deeply in love and does not want to be separated wants: remember, there will be an echo.
Because they feel that if you really love me, no matter how I am, you will always put me at ease. But you also have to know that there are people who do come to you and just want to fall in love with you, but they don't plan to be with you for a lifetime.
So, if after breaking the connection, the other party really turns around and leaves, there is no hesitation for you, there is no initiative, even if you want to contact the other party, he still does not pay attention to you, then let go, do not entangle, do not get angry, remember: he is not your right person.
The man who truly loves you, after you break off, he will change, he will become a little different from before, he will worry about losing you from now on.
In this life, people have met countless people.
Any relationship will not be like a fairy tale, after falling in love, you will "live a happy life from then on", but there will be many stumbles and bumps in the middle, many unsatisfactory.
Therefore, the person who truly loves you, he will not part ways with you because of a "small disconnect", he will try to get closer to you, get closer to you, and chase you back again.
Therefore, if that person comes back to you, you must cherish it and don't lose him again;
Of course, if that person turns around and leaves, then, for the rest of your life, you have to love yourself well, you know, there are a little regrets in life, and it is also a kind of perfection. Earnestly wait for the next person to come, you have to believe that there is always someone, one day in the future, for you.
You must know that the person who truly loves you, his love for you, will be like the sentence in "Heartbeat":
Some people are golden and defeated, but one day you will meet a rainbow-like person, and after meeting this person, you will feel that everyone else is just a floating cloud.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!