I once heard a saying: "The beauty of the mountains and rivers in the chest is in the position; the beauty of all things in the world is that it can be traded off; the realm of being a human being, the magic is as simple as one." ”
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In this lifetime, we will meet many people.
Some people are honest with each other, some people have a deep heart; some people are warm and kind, and some people are cold and selfish.
After meeting countless people and dealing with all kinds of people, I found that in life, it is rare to meet a simple person, and the easiest is to meet a simple person.
Instead of taking pains to deal with complex people and things, you fight for each other and fight with each other, it is better to have good intentions, get along with simple people, stay away from distractions, and harvest sincerity.
There is a saying: "Friendship with the good is as bright as light; friendship with gentlemen is as gentle as jade." ”
Interacting with kind people is like a dark room shining into the sun, warm and bright; with a humble gentleman, like a gentle touch of smooth jade, soft and shiny.
In the journey of life, we must walk with sincere and kind people.
With such a person, we do not need to be defensive, we do not have to disguise, just like a clear spring, slowly nourishing the heart.
Getting along with people has always been to exchange sincerity for sincerity, and true feelings win true feelings.
Many times, we decide to associate with a person not by his wealth, but by his attitude towards others.
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Someone on the Internet asked: "Why do you make a lot of friends, but still don't feel happy?" ”
After reading a passage, it can be used as an answer: "People who are keen on socializing often boast that they have many friends, but in fact, they know in their hearts that the master of the social field is not friendship, but interest or boredom." Because true friendship is never noisy. ”
In this life, we can't choose what kind of people we meet, but we can decide what kind of people to get along with.
Don't waste time in meaningless circles, don't think that stepping into circles is equivalent to having connections. Because in this world, not everyone is suitable for themselves, and not everyone can have deep friendships.
In the future, I will associate more with people with simple circles.
Such a person can not be disturbed by the chaos of the world, and is willing to sink his heart to do his own things and live the life he wants; such a person understands the preciousness of time and energy, so he never forced himself to step into the unsuitable circle.
They are more willing to choose to precipitate their own bodies and cultivate themselves.
Although there are few friends, it is good to be sincere; although the circle is small, it is good to be comfortable.
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There is a passage like this: "In this life, there are very few things that can be chosen, and there is no way to choose how to live, nor can it choose how to die." There are only two things we can choose, how to love in this life and how to live in this life. ”
In the final analysis, how we want to live in this life, what kind of people we want to associate with, the initiative is in our hands.
In the second half of life, you may wish to be dashing and make yourself comfortable. Instead of complaining about the complexity of the world, it is better to take the initiative to choose simple.
Meet people who are simple in the world, feel "a piece of ice heart in the jade pot", intersect with simple people in the circle, and taste "the taste of the world is pure joy".
Listen to the pine waves and watch the wind and rain.
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Source 丨 Xinhua News Agency, the article has been deleted and revised
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