Seeing that 2021 is about to pass, the "melon" of the entertainment industry is still exploding one after another!
One of the most lamentable is the divorce melon!
On December 15, Wang Lihong and his wife Li Lianglei, who had been married for 8 years, officially announced their divorce. He said, "We have different ideas and plans for the way we want to live in the future, so we decided to live separately. ”
He added, "But, we will always be family." ”
Will it really still be a family? After the divorce, can you still treat her as a family? This sentence, the ghost believes!
Before that, DaS, who had been married for 11 years, divorced Wang Xiaofei; Wang Yuelun and Li Xiang, who had been married for 12 years, divorced;
Ou Di and Zheng Yuncan, who have been married for 7 years, divorced; Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie, who have been married for 4 years, divorced;
Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng, who have been married for 10 years, divorced; Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng, who have been married for 2 and a half years, divorced; even Zuo Xiaoqing and Gao Quanjian, who have been married for 11 years, are also divorced!
Coupled with Taiwanese artists Zhao Zhengping and his wife, Li Shi and his wife, Guo Jiaming and his wife, there are 11 pairs!
They are different and wide, and each life is happy, but this succession of star divorce melons has caused a series of questions to the entertainment sister:
Why is the divorce rate so high now?
Why does everyone's love always start with sweet love and end with regret?
Is the love of young people in the new era "sick"? What kind of love do we really want to have?
Indeed, whether it is the frequent divorce melons of entertainment industry stars or the rising divorce rate in reality, this makes people seem to have less optimistic ideas about love and marriage!
Is love really like the song sings, "It's easy to fall in love and too hard to stay together"?
But don't get discouraged! The only cross-Chinese New Year's Eve love movie "Love in Year" will be officially released on December 31.
Maybe this film will have the answer you want!
So, what are the highlights of this romance film starring Mao Xiaotong, Yang Jiu, Sun Qian, Zhang Haiyu and Fu Seoul?
According to the material discovery of the recent explosion, the highlight of it is that it is real enough and positive enough.
It almost nakedly shows the three "pain points" that most couples in love will encounter in front of the audience.
One of the pain points: the "itch" of love
First, a brief introduction to the story synopsis of "Love in Year Units"!
This film mainly tells the story of Lu Lushan (played by Mao Xiaotong), a hotel manager who worked alone in a foreign country in the cross-Chinese New Year's Eve, and Jiang Yu (played by Yang Jiu), a young talent who is working hard to start a business, who met and fell in love in a promotion activity.
From love at first sight to sympathy for each other, the two, like ordinary couples among other sentient beings, have opened a hot love mode of deep love.
However, by the time the second cross-Chinese New Year's Eve arrived, they had already entered a period of relatively wordless estrangement from a period of glue-like love.
Lu Lushan has a cheerful personality, enthusiasm and ability, and has a clear goal, but she longs for a sense of security in her heart.
Jiang Yu is introverted and dull, and sometimes thinks of everything too simply and a little childishly.
They were less and less accompanied by each other, less and less communication between them, and it took them only a year to never talk about nothing to say.
Thus, over time, the contradiction broke out in the second cross-Chinese New Year's Eve concentration...
Everyone has been saying that marriage can not escape the itch of seven years, and it turns out that love cannot escape the itch of one year!
Yes, the film was originally called "The One Year Itch." This is actually the same as the seven-year itch!
But why do small couples in love, or small couples in marriage, "itch"? Let's move on to the next look!
Pain point two: the secret of the mobile phone
In fact, there are many reasons for the "itch" in love!
For example, work is too busy to ignore each other; for example, because the distance in the big city is too far, dating is inconvenient; such as the passion has passed, the freshness is no longer there, and each other's shortcomings are gradually magnified by trivial life;
For example, the two have different hobbies, and they play each other for a while after work; for example, they gradually become estranged from each other, no longer trust each other, and even the mobile phone has become a time bomb in love!
I believe that when it comes to mobile phones, everyone should think of Feng Xiaogang's movie "Mobile Phone" 18 years ago!
Ge You's husband "Strict Shouyi" is because of a mobile phone, leaving his complete family torn apart. Because the mobile phone contains the secret of the ulterior lover, he was discovered by his wife by chance, so the wife filed for divorce.
Interestingly, in "Love in Years", there is also such a similar scene. The contradiction between Lu Shan and Jiang Yu was caused by a mobile phone.
It was precisely because of their estrangement and estrangement from each other that Lu Lushan had doubts about Jiang Yu. So, because of doubt, and look, because of discovery, and thus quarrel.
Mobile phones that hide too many secrets have become a major hidden danger in love and marriage.
However, the crew was also very clever during the promotional period, and actually invited 30 couples to exchange mobile phones at the scene in order to restore the famous scene of the movie, so as to record their real reactions.
The good news is that in this experiment on "can you look at each other's mobile phones" and "willing to let your lover look at mobile phones", some girls found that their boyfriends were choosing diamond rings for themselves, while some boys found that their girlfriends secretly wrote letters to themselves.
Another girl saw her boyfriend's mobile phone and actually said 1062 good night to herself; more boys found that their girlfriend was already naming their future baby.
There are quarrels, doubts, and frights in the film, but in reality, there are touching, sweet, and surprising.
Therefore, it turns out that adult love is not as vulnerable as everyone thinks.
Pain point three: What is security?
Many girls often put a sense of security on their lips, and the heroine of the film, Lu Lushan, has also complained that the other party has made her insecure after falling in love with her boyfriend for a year!
So, what exactly is security?
In fact, Yu Jie believes that it is a belief and confidence that makes you feel down-to-earth, reliable, and will always exist.
The sense of security in love is undoubtedly that everything he does you feel real and credible, even if he is not around you on a business trip, you will feel that he will not mess around and will always be around you.
It is the belief, the strength and the drive to carry love through to the end.
In the movie, as a boyfriend, Jiang Yu is actually very hard, and he wants to give his girlfriend a better life, so he works hard and is tired to socialize.
However, because he was busy, he ignored Lu Lushan's true feelings and his yearning and pursuit of love.
He didn't know that the life his girlfriend wanted was not the house, the car and the tickets, but the meticulous care and companionship.
It was Jiang Yu's neglect that made Lu Lushan insecure, and also made her doubtful about their love and lost confidence.
In fact, most boys in reality have such thoughts.
They have made themselves as ascetics who bear the pressures of life and work, and in the fast-paced big cities, they are in a hurry every day, full of anxiety, forcing themselves to rush forward.
But they miss the beautiful scenery around them, and they also ignore the inner desires of the loved ones.
In the face of the insecurity of their girlfriends complaining, grievances and questioning, they often think that I am working so hard not for you!
I give you good food, good clothes, good living, what else are you not satisfied with? Aren't you making a fuss about it? Aren't you being pretentious?
But from a woman's point of view, when will the money be earned? When a woman looks for a partner, is she looking for a money-making machine that only cares about her own hard work?
Because, today's independent women, money can earn themselves, and their lives can also be lived. All they need is a sweetheart who knows cold and heat, and can appear next to them at key moments!
To be able to be around you is to settle down, "all I want is that you are there when I need it."
This, I am afraid, is about the sense of security, the different understandings and contradictions of men and women!
In fact, only from the trailer of "Love in Years", we can find many shadows of love in reality from Lu Shan Jiangyu's year-long cohabitation love.
Whether it is a couple or a couple, many people will have some cracks and crevices in love when the passion slowly fades, the freshness is no longer fresh, and the heartbeat is no longer strong.
They gradually went from feeling sorry for each other and being thrilled, to seeing each other and being silent, from "full of love" to "everywhere will become a thunder point", and have fallen into the bottleneck period of love.
At this moment, should they choose to let go, or should they choose to reflect, the film will tell us the answer of the male and female protagonists in the ending.
In the view of the entertainment sister, the screenwriters of many movies are still relatively benevolent, and the ending is relatively complete, but where is there so much happiness in life?
But no matter how the stars choose, and no matter how the male and female protagonists in the film choose, we should maintain the ability to love in reality, and we should also believe that true love is real.
Although there are many kinds of beginnings and many endings of love, love has always been a matter for two people, both sides have needs, and they have paid for it, two-way rushing, two-way efforts, in order to achieve a beautiful love!
I hope that this cross-Chinese New Year's Eve, under the influence of this film, we can all recharge our love, and year after year, carry out love to the end!
Today's Topic:
1. Also describing the Beijing love story, can "Love in The Year" surpass the "Beijing Love Story" directed by Chen Sicheng in 2012?
2. Do you think couples should check each other's mobile phones?
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