Many people say that the child's 2 years old is a "terrible 2 years old", although the children at this stage are willful and do not understand things, stubborn and have their own small temper, and the ability to destroy is also extremely strong.
In the previous article, we have made a detailed answer to two-year-old children, and children at this stage begin to become rebellious and will always refuse some requests from adults. Today we will continue to analyze the book "Terrible 2 Years Old, Troublesome 3 Years Old" by Yang Xia, a senior family education researcher and national second-level psychological counselor.
Children at this stage are certainly naughty, but parents do not blindly blame children, in the little bits and pieces with children should also think and summarize, in fact, 2-year-old children are not terrible, but sometimes parents really do not understand them, which will lead to them having to be crazy, spilled, and make sex.
Yang Xia proposed in the book that from the age of 2 to 3 years old, at this stage, children's intelligence, physical strength and imagination will rapidly improve.
In the process of growing up, there is always a certain period of time that is the best period for the development of intelligence and talent. Foreign related studies also show that 0-3 years old is the fastest and most critical period for children's brain development, and 2-3 years old is the golden stage of children's learning, creativity and imagination. Therefore, parents must not neglect the cultivation of their children during this critical period.
2-year-old children can already show a lot of amazing abilities to parents, at this time the child's vocabulary will increase significantly, can say a lot of complete words, such as "I like mom" "mom is angry", but also use a lot of words, such as: hurt, know, know, like, angry, happy, etc.
When a child says a new word, if you can show surprised affection and give the child appropriate praise, it can greatly stimulate the child's interest in learning and using language. Children in this period, as long as he wants to do almost everything he wants to do, will try to do it.
If you see the child's clumsy appearance and want to help, it is recommended that parents and children try to let the child do it, because the child will not be discouraged and will insist on getting things done. Parents of 2-year-olds usually lament that their child's ability to imitate is simply amazing. Whatever the parent does, he will imitate.
For example, when he sees his mother washing clothes, he will imitate the behavior of soaping and rubbing clothes; when he sees his father repairing furniture, he must learn to nail nails on the side; if his parents take him to the hospital for injections, he will be able to accurately imitate the various actions of doctors after returning home, and he will also "see a doctor" for his family like a decent...
Watching children become more and more capable, some parents can't help but watch their children become more and more capable, and some parents can't help but raise their eyebrows and actively use the details of life to cultivate their children's various abilities. But parents must not think that their children know a few words more than other people's children, and that they will imitate is smarter than other children, because knowledge is not equal to ability.
2 years old is a critical period for developing a child's various abilities. Professor Garner of Harvard University in the United States proposed a new theory of "whole brain development" for the intellectual development of children at this stage. Simply put, through interactive experiential learning, it cultivates children's image thinking, logical thinking, and learning abilities such as attention, memory, imagination, imitation, perception, comprehension, judgment and creativity. There are many different intellectual and talent development best periods in the child's growth process, and 2-3 years old is the golden stage of children's learning, creativity and imagination by leaps and bounds, and older is the stage of acquiring knowledge. Therefore, at the age of 2-3 years old, parents should conduct more perceptual training and good behavior guidance for their children, so as to be conducive to the overall development of children's personality and character in the future.
Mental development: Give your child enough love and care. The biggest progress of children who move from 2 to 3 years old is manifested in the improvement of thinking ability and problem-solving ability. At this stage, children have a desire to explore the things around them, which is the internal motivation to promote children's active learning and exploration of knowledge. In order to allow the child's curiosity to be fully satisfied, parents should not rush to help the child, but exercise his ability to solve problems, which is a lifelong benefit for the child.