The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
Someone once said that a family is not prosperous, in addition to having a certain relationship with men, there is also an inseparable connection with the women in the family, men work outside the home, responsible for things outside the family, and the wife is basically busy with things inside the family.
The wife's mind is generally more delicate, for many things can be considered more thoughtfully, if the wife can take care of their own small family, the happiness of the small family will not be too bad.
01 When you get married, you have nothing, and you can't leave your wife
Until now, in Li Qiang's heart, he is still very grateful to his wife.
Li Qiang and his wife had known each other since college, and they did not expect to work in the same company after graduation, and over time, the two established a relationship.
At that time, Li Qiang was just an ordinary person with nothing, but his wife, who was still a girlfriend at that time, did not dislike Li Qiang because of this, but accompanied him to suffer and live in a simple house together.
Therefore, after marriage, Li Qiang joked with his wife: You are my wife of chaff and in this life, I will identify you.
Although it is a joke, in Li Qiang's heart, his feelings for his wife have always been so real.
Before getting married, Li Qiang had nothing, and the only thing he gave to his girlfriend was only a necklace, and Li Qiang assured his girlfriend at that time that he would compensate his girlfriend well after the future life got better. The girlfriend did not dislike Li Qiang because of this, but also actively did her parents' work and did not let her parents ask for a bride price.
All that his wife paid before marriage, Li Qiangquan looked in his eyes and used a sentence to describe it, that is: when he got married, he had nothing, and he did not abandon his wife to have a life today.
02After marriage, the wife takes care of the small family with peace of mind
After Li Qiang and his wife got married, the husband and wife were kind and loving, Li Qiang would usually go out to work, and all the big and small affairs in the family were handled by his wife.
Husband and wife have a clear division of labor, whenever Li Qiang is faced with a choice, his wife will always put forward many points that have not been considered, which makes Li Qiang useful, in Li Qiang's heart, his wife is not only the hostess of the family, but more like a mentor and a virtuous helper on his own life path.
After getting married, the wife is busy for the small family every day, shortly after Li Qiang got up, the wife dressed to wash, opened a busy life of the day, she will clean up everything at home in an orderly manner, and then go to prepare the family's meals, even in the evening, the wife is still busy, waiting for Li Qiang to finish eating, the wife will let Li Qiang go to wash, she will take advantage of this time to wash the dishes, and then wash the clothes that Li Qiang changed down.
Li Qiang is very grateful for everything his wife has paid for this small family, and he understands that the reason why he can work without any pressure outside, his wife has paid a lot for it.
Based on this condition, Li Qiang and his wife's life is getting better and better, and Li Qiang's income is also rising, and soon, it has reached the point where the monthly income exceeds 10,000.
In order to be grateful for everything his wife has given, Li Qiang, in addition to being better for his wife, plans to give his mother-in-law family some returns, but he did not expect to be rejected by his wife at this time.
03 was said by his wife to be paid 5,000 a month, and his mother-in-law's words made Li Qiang stunned
The wife said: Let's still visit our mother as usual, don't need to express too much.
Li Qiang did not understand, but he still chose to respect his wife's opinion and went to his mother-in-law's house with gifts similar to usual.
After arriving at her mother-in-law's house, her mother-in-law greeted Li Qiang and his wife to sit down, and the family sat together to chat about some household routines, and Li Qiang only had a few words on the side.
Chatting and chatting, the mother-in-law suddenly asked her wife: Daughter, is the monthly income of the hadron still 3,000?
The wife said: No, his income has risen a little, to 5,000.
Li Qiang felt very puzzled on the side, after all, the monthly salary has now reached tens of thousands, but his wife still said to his mother-in-law that he only had five thousand, perhaps because of his self-esteem, Li Qianggang wanted to say his true income, but his wife stared back.
At this time, the mother-in-law said: Alas, your life is not easy, I thought that your brother would marry you and hadron to help you, but now it seems that it is better to forget it, you can take care of yourself is already good.
The wife said: Yes, Mom, my life with Hadron is not easy.
After hearing this, Li Qiang suddenly realized that his wife's intention was this.
After returning home, my wife took the initiative to say to Li Qiang: I know you want to be nice to our mother, but I still have a younger brother who is not yet married, if you disclose your income too early, I am afraid that my mother will let you help him when the time comes, and we have no excuse to postpone. Now that our lives are getting better, let's take care of our little family first.
After hearing his wife's words, Li Qiang was deeply moved, and he hugged his wife tightly and did not say a word for a long time.
Conclusion: After marriage, the husband and wife will encounter a lot of influences from the original family, if the two of them can consider the problem based on the small family, weigh the balance between the small family and the original family, the relationship between the husband and wife will become more and more harmonious, and the family will become happier and happier.