The recently aired dramas are Really Many, Idol Love, Costume Myths, Suspense Crime, Urban Emotions... There are all kinds of types.
Among them, the most resonant with reality is undoubtedly the life drama "Heart Residence" starring Haiqing and Tong Yao.
This drama shows the contradictory life of a family of three generations from the daily life of a pair of sisters-in-law, as well as the various lives of different classes in Shanghai.
As far as the plot currently unfolds, almost every character who appears is not very pleasing, and there is no absolutely perfect character. But each character has their own standpoint. Some people understand Feng Xiaoqin and thus are not accustomed to Gu Qingyu; some people admire Gu Qingyu and look down on Feng Xiaoqin.
Can let the audience distinguish between different positions, mainly because of the truth in the play, talking about feelings or reasoning, is the philosophy of life that can never be unified in reality, and it is difficult to judge who is right and who is wrong when entering the life in the play.
From the perspective of Feng Xiaoqin's role, this drama truly reflects the three major difficulties in the life of an ordinary woman:
Husband who can't afford it
Although Feng Xiaoqin is a full-time housewife (note that "housewife" is not "wife"). At the request of her husband, she quit her job to take care of the elderly and children in the family. Every morning, I got up early in the morning to cook for the whole family, and arranged the lives of my grandmother, father-in-law, husband, and son in an orderly manner, but I was like a war, washing was in a hurry, and walking was windy and fiery.
She is willing to do logistics for the whole family, but she is not willing to be "under the fence". It's a bit of a "heart higher than the sky".
She wanted a better life. At the beginning, she put all her hopes on her husband, and the twice-a-year finance and accounting class was reported to her husband, so that she could find a better job for the examination certificate.
She wants to buy a house, two million houses, she promised a down payment of 40%, but she dared to borrow a million from someone, dare to feel that she has no savings, the down payment is all dependent on borrowing.
Unfortunately, her husband is the Ah Dou who can't be supported, and Feng Xiaoqin's two expectations he can't meet.
The job is the sister to help find, the wife to the class to learn the accounting, not easy to learn, all kinds of confusion, but also blame the wife forced him to do what he does not want to do.
Promised his wife to borrow money from his sister to buy a house, the sister asked, and said that she didn't care, afraid that the family's prejudice against his wife was small, and he was nested.
In short, her husband's combat effectiveness is completely unworthy of Feng Xiaoqin's ambitions. So the couple is constantly conflicting.
As far as the traditional concept is that men support their families, many women do have great expectations and higher requirements for their husbands. But often this kind of husband who needs his wife to raise his own requirements is difficult to support.
Perhaps it will be easier to achieve your goals than to pin your hopes on others.
In-laws who can't fit in
Feng Xiaoqin, as a foreigner who married into Shanghai, has no education, no job, and is three years older than her husband. Her in-laws did not take her seriously at all, and often excluded her from small family meetings.
Under such circumstances, Feng Xiaoqin has no sense of belonging and desperately wants a house of her own, which is actually understandable.
Especially the eldest sister-in-law, feng Xiaoqin always had contempt for her, and never regarded her as her own family.
When her brother was still alive, he was always afraid that his brother would be deceived by her, and he had to guide his brother to guard against her. After the death of her brother, her first reaction was that she was killed, believing that Feng Xiaoqin's pursuit of responsibility to the neighbors was to make money.
Grandma is probably the most annoying in the whole play, because Usually Feng Xiaoqin takes good care of her, but she always speaks ill of her. As if she was really their nanny, she had always had malicious speculations about Feng Xiaoqin.
The father-in-law is actually quite reasonable, but most of the time he still pays attention to his daughter's opinion, and as long as his son and his son quarrel, he will ask his daughter for help. To a certain extent, he also connived at his daughter's interference in his son's life.
Although according to the past practice, in the end, Feng Xiaoqin will definitely reconcile with her in-laws and will be accepted.
However, in reality, this kind of marriage with the wrong door is difficult for the in-laws to be wary of disappearing, and integration is not simple. Rather than one person entering another person's family to integrate with them, or two people coming out to form their own family, the marriage will be happier.
Can't balance life and work
At first, When Feng Xiaoqin was a full-time housewife, those things in the family were enough for her to be busy, but her husband died, and she did not want to eat food, so she decided to make money on her own, so she found a job that was relatively free to deliver takeaways.
While taking care of the family, I went to deliver takeaways, and I lost weight in a few days.
Although I tried to do both, I couldn't pick up my children on time. Grandma also complained that she was not hygienic.
Once, due to a car accident, I did not pick up the child, and the teacher called my father-in-law to pick him up. Feng Xiaoqin limped back, but no one cared what was wrong with her, on the contrary, Grandma gave her a few drops.
Obviously, as a positive heroine in the play, she will not give up her career, and she will still take care of her family, although it is difficult, she will still survive and create some achievements.
China's dual-career families are the largest in the world, and even if they are not in the same special situation as Feng Xiaoqin, there are many women who need to take care of both family and workplace.
We can only not insist on absolute balance, flexible response, the family needs more to focus on the family, the family has no special things to focus on the work.
Not only Feng Xiaoqin in the play, in reality, who has life spared? Many women will face such a dilemma as Feng Xiaoqin, and there is another level to pass this level.
Therefore, although Gu Qingyu's personality is not pleasing, many people still want to become like her. Because I have the strength to make money, I can completely control my life.
There are many "Feng Xiaoqin" in life, but in different periods, some people are still trapped in family chores, and some people have to take care of their families and work to make a mess. Therefore, seeing Feng Xiaoqin in the play was extremely emotional.
What do you think of the character of Feng Xiaoqin?