A peasant woman in the mountains, from young to middle-aged, sprinkled all her youth on her father-in-law and paralyzed husband, never abandoned, raised two children to go out of the mountains, her deeds touched many people, she is Wang Maiying, an ordinary farmer in Daxing Village, Xinyao Town, Chongxin County.
Wang Maiying's family lives in Daxing Village, Xinyao Town, Daping Society, the reporter came to this family, only to see that the courtyard is clean and tidy, and the house is also clean, and it is a diligent family at a glance. Hearing that the reporter came to interview his wife Wang Maiying, her husband Cui Yuhu, who was in a wheelchair, rushed to say: "All these years are all dependent on her service, otherwise I would not have the life I have now." Wang Maiying said embarrassedly: "You say nothing blindly, and you are not afraid of people's jokes." Talking about these years, this kind and virtuous peasant woman in the mountains said lightly, because they are husband and wife, everyone will do it.
The 48-year-old Wang Maiying married Cui Yuhu in 1993, and after the marriage, Wang Maiying and her husband were very affectionate and gave birth to two children. Because there was no extra financial resource, the husband went to the nearby coal mine to work, and Wang Maiying raised cattle and farmed at home, served his father-in-law, and raised two sons.
One day in October 2001, bad news came that her husband was unfortunately injured and was being rescued in the hospital. 3 days later, the husband woke up, his life was saved, but he fell into the paralyzed disease of the lower body, this sunny day thunderbolt made Wang Maiying's eyes dark, the top beam was broken, he could not earn money to support the family, what about the life of this family in the future?
Faced with her husband paralyzed in bed and two young and ignorant children, Wang Maiying's relatives and friends advised her to remarry. The enlightened father-in-law also said to Wang Maiying: "Child, you are still young, you go, and find a good family." Recalling the scene at that time, Wang Maiying said: "I washed my face with tears all day, if I left, how would my father and son live?" ”。 All kinds of difficulties did not frighten this strong woman, Wang Maiying rejected the kindness of relatives and friends, and made up his mind to take on the heavy responsibility of the family, while taking care of her husband and elderly father-in-law who were paralyzed in bed, while pulling two children, holding up a blue sky for the family.
Every day, Wang Maiying must do three things: feed her husband three meals, change the samples for her husband to make the meals he loves to eat and help digestion, and carry her husband in the sun in the courtyard. While serving her husband, she also has to take care of her children and her sick father-in-law, and she has a hard job at home and in the field every day.
Villagers said that no matter whether it was spring, summer, autumn or winter, Wang Maiying always got up before dawn, cooked, cleaned, and waited for the elderly, dolls and husbands to eat breakfast, and then fed cattle and chickens. Then he picked up the farm tools and went to work in the fields. Spring planting, summer harvest, autumn sowing, she does not fall behind. Raising cattle to earn money raised two children. In the most difficult times, she did not buy a new dress for several years. In 2016, the father-in-law suffered from cerebral infarction and completely lost his labor force, and Wang Maiying guarded the side of the elderly day and night, washing, feeding and taking medicine for the elderly, without any negligence. The elderly father-in-law was grateful when he mentioned his daughter-in-law. The father-in-law has a strong personality, has a quick temper, is straight-talking, and nags when he sees something that is not pleasing to the eye. Wang Maiying listened silently, calmly talked to the old man, and resolved the old man's unevenness and depression. In matters big and small in the family, we must first listen to the opinions of our father-in-law. This is Wang Maiying, for more than twenty years, she has inherited the fine tradition of respecting the elderly, she not only honors the elderly, but also a virtuous wife and mother with high moral character, husband and son, and plays an exemplary role everywhere. Love each other with your husband, be considerate of each other, and never quarrel with your husband. She is more strict with her son and leads by example everywhere, and she is convinced that educating children is better than words.
In recent years, with the help of the support unit and the support cadres, her family has installed solar street lights and solved many practical difficulties. Wang Maiying told reporters: "Now I have finally survived, in 2018 I lived in a new house, two sons grew up, the eldest son worked in Lanzhou subway station, the younger son also became a cook, the family raised 7 cows, last year's income of more than 60,000 yuan, life is getting better and better." ”
Thanks to her generous maternal love and careful care, the home has always been filled with a happy atmosphere. The traditional virtues of the Chinese nation radiate a refreshing fragrance on this simple and unpretentious ordinary rural woman.
Source: Chongxin County Rong Media Center Chongxin Rong Media