Stop thinking of your son's heroic dreams as brave and fierce, your son's growth will make you proud

Looking at other people's girls, well-behaved and quiet, sensible and obedient, and occasionally liking to their parents, do I make you envious? Look at your own male treasure, do you feel that a head two are big?

Do you also hope that your son can be obedient and sensible, and not always be so naughty and mischievous? If you really think so, then don't blame your son for not being good enough in the future. Because you are raising your own son as a daughter, so that your son has lost the male blood that he should have, you know?

If you understand the difference between raising a boy and a girl, it will be easier to educate your child.

Girls are generally quiet, often behaving softly and well-behaved, obedient and sensible. Boys, on the other hand, are just the opposite, boys are happy, always like to dance guns and sticks, chase and fight everywhere, and can't calm down for a moment.

If a girl is like a boy, she may be considered a mad bitch; if a boy is like a girl, then she may become a bit girly.

Boys and girls have different brain structures, which also creates personality differences between boys and girls. Only when we understand the different characteristics of children can we better educate and cultivate children. If you also have a baby boy at home, then in these 4 things, please be more tolerant of your child, less misunderstood, the child will be better and better every day, and the future will be more and more prominent.

Boys are allowed to dream heroically

Whereas boys used to fantasize about becoming Superman, today's kids want to be Ultra Ultraman. Whether it is the former or the latter, they have one thing in common, which is that they hope to become superhuman, heroes, save the world, and maintain world peace.

In the eyes of parents, boys show that they are fighting and killing, parents think that children have aggressive tendencies, feel that boys are too brave and fierce, so they give parents headaches.

Parents think that boys should be more mature, less troublesome, and it is best to spend all their energy on learning. Therefore, the "heroic dream" of boys is often scorned and tried their best to curb it. As everyone knows, the reason why many children have become very naughty and like to mess around is actually because parents continue to curb their children's heroic dreams. Don't believe it!

It is precisely because parents always feel that their children are still young and cannot do anything, so they use their children as marionettes to cultivate. Always point fingers at the child, thus killing the child's heroic dream. Therefore, many children may be able to realize their heroic dreams in TV, novels, and games, and it has to be said that this is one of the reasons why many children are addicted to games.

In addition, parents despise their children and rarely believe that their sons can do earth-shattering things when they are young. Children are always not trusted, so they will go around causing trouble, self-abandonment, and broken jars.

If parents allow their children to chase their heroic dreams and cultivate their children as heroes, then the children have full trust and affirmation, then the children will disdain to do those things that cause trouble. Instead, they will do their best to protect the weak, to protect other children, to protect their parents, and to do something that makes people proud. How can a person who thinks he is a hero do such a thing that hurts nature?

Boys are allowed to be energetic

For boys, most of them are energetic, like a perpetual motion machine. Therefore, boys are often more active and lively than girls, and they can't calm down.

If parents always ask boys to be quiet and quiet to read and study, then boys may not be able to lift any spirits and have no motivation. But if parents are going to play with boys, fight, then you will definitely see boys with two eyes shining.

Parents may also find that many times when we tell stories to children, children may not sit quietly like girls, but move here and there to play and turn things over, but this does not mean that boys are not serious when listening to stories.

When you tell the story several times and get one of the things wrong, you may find that your child can clearly point out the problem to you. In fact, boys are like this, in the exercise of the brain will still be more active, thinking more clearly.

For boys' liveliness, we should not blindly stop, but should learn to allow children to be energetic, give boys full release of vitality, and consume exuberant energy opportunities. At this time, it is necessary for Bao Dad to exert his initiative and enthusiasm, accompany the boys to move together, play together, and exercise together, so as to make the child's exuberant energy proud.

When the boy's exuberant energy can be released, there is no more energy to mischievous, provoke wrongdoing, so that it can better exercise the child's manhood, let the boy become stronger and braver, after the child consumes excess energy, it can also better let the child fall asleep early, or let the child enter the state of learning quietly.

Boys are allowed to use crying to release their emotions

As the saying goes, "Boys have tears and don't flick!" "As a boy, as a man, you can't shed tears easily. If there is a boy in the family, parents will often tell their children this, saying that as a man, you can't cry, you can't shed tears. Even if there are tears, they should be swallowed into the stomach. More parents see boys crying, not only will not be kind to comfort, hug and comfort, but also scold the child for not showing up, and even scold them.

But if it is a girl, maybe the parents will allow the girl to cry, and will also give hugs and kind words of comfort. Parents often do this, not only will not make the boy strong, but also make the boy feel unfair, because he feels that he has suffered unequal treatment, and he will accumulate in his heart. When these negative emotions and energies are not cathartic for a long time, then it is very detrimental to the healthy growth of children, which may make boys become gloomy, violent, and unable to control themselves.

For the little boy, we should allow him to cry, allow him to use crying to express his emotions, and know that crying is not a sign of cowardice, but just a way of emotional catharsis. Only when the child is young, we allow him to cry, and give comfort and comfort in time, so that the child's negative emotions can be released, and the boys can be more sunny and cheerful and optimistic.

Boys are allowed to learn literacy in games and entertainment

3-8 years old is a critical period for children to learn Chinese characters. In order for their children not to lose at the starting line, many parents will strengthen the education of their children from an early age. But because the boys are energetic and active, they are always unable to sit down and study quietly and seriously. This gives parents a headache, even if they are forced by their parents to sit down and study, they may just be rote memorization, and the learning effect is not good.

In fact, the teaching of boys should be slightly different for children, and should be based on the psychological characteristics of boys. Allowing boys to learn through play and entertainment is the best way for boys to learn.

Otherwise, blindly letting children memorize by rote will not only not allow children to learn to read better, but also make children prematurely have a feeling of boredom, which is something that no parent wants to see.

So how can children learn to be literate in the joy of play and entertainment? In fact, we can take our children to watch TV on weekdays, watch picture books, read road signs, watch billboards, watch snack bags, etc., which is the best opportunity to teach children to practice literacy.

We can tell our children that you like to eat snacks, so you need to remember what the name of the snack is and what its characteristics are. When you want to eat this snack again in the future, it is convenient to tell your parents, otherwise we don't know what you want to eat for half a day. In this way, when children know snack bags and other things, they will learn to read very carefully.

The above is just a little trick for children to learn literacy. If you want your child to learn more about literacy and know more Chinese characters, then you still need a systematic learning. Here I recommend to you the "Preschool Literacy Three-dimensional Flip Book" that my family's two treasures have used.

The book "Preschool Literacy Three-dimensional FlipBook" is a set of literacy books designed for preschool children, which is suitable for children aged 2 to 7 years old. Although it teaches children to learn to read, it is also an interesting three-dimensional flip book. It can stimulate children's curiosity and curiosity, so that children can know a lot of Chinese characters when they are constantly asking and playing.

There are 11 oversized stereoscopic drawings and more than 400 cute small stereoscopic drawings in the Preschool Literacy Three-Dimensional FlipBook. The book contains knowledge of the city, nature, life, family, and traditional culture.

You can let children learn to understand a lot of knowledge when they continue to read this book, and they can also let children find new things and fun every time they look at this book, and they can continue to accumulate a large amount of land.

The "Preschool Literacy Three-dimensional FlipBook" contains 1600 words, of which 800 words are high-frequency vocabulary from the first grade to the third grade of primary school, which can help the baby to better connect the young and the young.

In addition, the "Preschool Literacy Three-dimensional Flip Book" this set of three-dimensional literacy books, not only can be looked at, but also audio and video, can be listened to, can also be watched, so as to better help children learn literacy and recognition.

Teaching children to learn literacy, in fact, it is as simple as that, you only need a set of tools that are suitable for children and can stimulate children's interest in reading, and "Preschool Literacy Three-dimensional Flipping Books" is a good choice.