Children are lively and cute, they are often everyone's "pistachios", but when children are naughty, people can't help but be angry.
If you are naughty at home, your parents can tolerate it, but once the child does something wrong outside, the attitude of others may not be as tolerant as that of parents.
Therefore, it is the unshirkable responsibility of parents to pay attention to the education of children's behavior and ideological quality from an early age.
Recently, there was another bear child who caused trouble, and it was also on the hot search, netizens were angry after reading it, what did the bear child do? Let's take a look.~
Part.01
Bear child into the girl's bedroom,
The dresser suffered...
Recently, a girl in Xi'an was so angry that she broke down and cried because her relative's bear child came to her house to make trouble.
The relative brought a 6-year-old child to the house as a guest, and the girl had something to go out for a while, but she went out for a short while, came back into her house, and was shocked by the scene in front of her.
Her dresser was hodge by relatives and children, cosmetics were messed up on the table, and some of them were still expensive big names.
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When the girl saw this mess, she directly collapsed and cried. She said the cosmetics were bought with her hard work and birthday gifts from friends.
The girl's father was also very angry after knowing it, and immediately called the relative to ask him to compensate, and finally the relative compensated the girl for 1,000 yuan.
Many netizens said that these items only lost 1000 too little, Xiaokangjun also searched, and some brands are indeed very expensive.
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And the most disturbing thing is not money, things can be bought new, but their own territory is maliciously violated, beloved things are trampled on at will, that is the most angry.
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After watching this video, netizens also expressed their dissatisfaction, in this regard, many netizens shared the experience of being childish by relatives' bears:
It can be seen that there are still many people who have been "persecuted" by bear children.
Xiao Kangjun has also seen such a thing: there is a classmate and her cousin live in a neighborhood, but the classmate never let her cousin's 9-year-old child enter her house, because the child always runs around after he comes, and once he also scribbled on the watercolor painting she worked hard to draw, which made her angry enough.
However, the cousin did not feel that there was anything wrong with the child, and blamed her for not putting away the painting early - the cousin's original words were: "Children know so much, nature is to love to play."
The child really doesn't know so much, so why educate him well? If it is taken for granted that children are mischievous and uneducated, it is no wonder that such parents have annoying children.
Part.02
Behind the obnoxious child,
There are often annoying parents...
There is a saying that the child is the shadow of the parent, and the parent is the mirror of the child. Children often reflect the parents' personalities.
Therefore, the child's behavior outside represents not only his own image, but also the internal and external cultivation of a family.
Parents' words and deeds will affect their children. If the child's usual words and deeds, if the parents feel inappropriate, they will stop and educate in time, so that the child does not know what etiquette and respect are.
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If the child is particularly ignorant, he often causes trouble in his own home, and he does not listen to how to say it, and the sensible parents will not casually take the child to someone else's home, even if they are brought over, they will be strictly guarded and will not let him run around.
A few days ago, there was an incident in which a woman's child stood in her seat on the Shanghai subway while her mother turned a blind eye. At this time, an aunt standing next to her could not look at it anymore, thinking that the child was rude to do so, and had an argument with the child's mother.
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The child's mother said that she had given up her seat to the aunt, what else did the aunt want? And the aunt said: "This is not a seat problem, but the child is not polite, you do not educate me to educate!" ”
In the above example, the aunt's attitude is not good, but the words are reasonable, because the seat is for people to sit on, standing on it, the shoes dirty the seat, the next passenger unconsciously sit down, will stain the clothes; and the seat is very smooth, one careless, the child will fall to the ground.
The news is in stark contrast to a previous mother in Beijing who took the subway with her children. The carriage was empty, the mother and baby were very tired, the baby lay asleep in the mother's arms, the little foot was on the seat, and the mother put a school bag at the baby's feet to prevent the child's shoes from soiling the seat.
This is a natural move, it is a heartfelt upbringing, there is such a mother, how can you raise a nasty "bear child"?
Part.03
The best gift a parent can give to their child,
Just be educated...
In life, we will find that when we get along with educated people, it is always very comfortable, because they will take care of the feelings of others, be good at empathy, and know how to understand others.
The best gift we give to our children is to be cultured. Only cultured people can get along better with others, achieve good reputation, and get more resources to promote their own success.
The upbringing mentioned here does not mean pleasing others or observing the color of words and opportunism, nor does it mean that obedience to others and dare not strive for their own legitimate interests, but under the sincere attitude of themselves and others, they should be a better person.
How to cultivate children's upbringing, you can do these three aspects:
● Teach children to be kind to others;
● In daily speech and behavior, use your own behavior to subtly influence children;
● Seriously correct the child's wrong behavior, so that the child has a thorough understanding.
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Modern education respects the law of children's growth and development, and conforms to children's nature, which is a good thing, but this does not mean that children can ignore the rules, and talking about rules and encouraging children to develop freely are two completely different concepts, and they are not contradictory.
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