An important reason why many bao mothers give birth to two treasures is: to be a companion for dabao
Indeed, with the second treasure, the big treasure is no longer a lonely child. Think about it, Dabao dressed and fed Erbao, how warm and loving that scene was, and his parents could still take the opportunity to steal a lazy child.
However, Xiao Kangjun also wants to give everyone a wake-up call: although Dabao can help Erbao, parents must not be assured and bold to give Erbao to Dabao, after all, if Dabao is younger, he is still a baby!
Recently, Xiao Kangjun saw the scene of a big treasure with two treasures, which made people afraid...
The baby was covered by his brother and struggled for 2 minutes,
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Recently, Xiao Kangjun saw a video, and the video content was shocking! This is a surveillance video of a family, showing the little baby's sister lying on the bed with a quilt covered, with a small round head exposed, and her 4-year-old brother standing on the edge of the bed watching her.
Suddenly, the brother did not know what to think, and began to cover his sister's head with pillows and clothes as well, covering his sister's head.
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The sister cried and struggled for 2 minutes, but the brother was indifferent, and finally, the brother ran to the kitchen and told his mother: "I covered my sister's face." "My mother rushed over, and that saved my sister.
It's so thrilling! The baby's face is covered is a big taboo, it may cause the baby to breathe poorly and cause suffocation, even if the crib put some soft pillows, plush toys, etc. is not recommended, for fear of accidentally blocking the nose to cause suffocation.
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This safety knowledge may not be completely understood by the 4-year-old brother, and he does not know what purpose he has covered his sister's face, but fortunately, he finally called his mother, and the sister was not hindered.
When Dabao and Erbao are alone, there may really be dangers, especially when Dabao is two or three years old, three or four years old, so he has a certain ability to move but has no sense of safety, and Erbao is only a few months old and his mobility is very limited, and his parents cannot be careless.
Before, there was a news that the 3-year-old Dabao fed the erbao who was only 1 month old and ate the screws, when the mother only went out for a few minutes, and when she came back, she found that the erbao's face was purple and the mouth kept spitting bubbles. Ask Dabao, and Dabao said that he fed his brother with screws.
Bao Ma quickly took Erbao to the hospital, and the doctor took out a screw about 3 centimeters long from Erbao's stomach, which was still pointed, and there were 3!
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The gastroenterologist who treated the child said that in many cases of children swallowing foreign bodies, the eldest fed the second.
Below, Xiao Kangjun will give you a few safety issues that need to be paid attention to when the big treasure and the second treasure are together
The two treasures are together,
These things to remind...
After having the second treasure, if the big treasure is also small, these things we have to remind the big treasure:
01
Don't just feed the second treasure
Even if Dabao is willing to take care of Erbao and actively feed Erbao, parents cannot directly give Erbao to Dabao, because Dabao is too small, and unexpected problems may occur when feeding Erbao, such as a spoon poking Erbao, or too fast to cause choking and so on.
If Dabao wants to feed, parents should not refuse, you can feed under the care of your parents, and agree with Dabao: when your parents are not around, you can not feed anything to your younger siblings.
02
Don't just hold the second treasure
When Dabao picks up the second treasure, he may drop the second treasure on the ground due to insufficient strength, or block the line of sight and fall down. Therefore, try not to let the big treasure hold the second treasure.
03
Protect Erbao's ears, nose, and other parts
Tell Dabao not to stuff things into the "small holes" in Erbao's nose, ears and other bodies, and not to stuff things into his own "holes".
04
Don't let Dabao push the stroller casually
Dabao is small in stature and has limited strength, and may cause dangerous situations such as rollover when pushing a stroller. In addition, the stroller has flexible wheels, and the wheels are uncontrollable factors for Dabao.
05
You can't cover Erbao's nose
Small babies have limited mobility, if the nose is covered, most of them are not able to pull open, and the child likes to play hide-and-seek and other games, or bury his face in the pillow when playing with the second treasure, which is very dangerous.
Here Xiao Kangjun only listed several situations that are more dangerous, and there may be various accidents in actual life. There is a saying that says: Having a second eldest, I feel that the biggest danger is the boss. There is also some truth to this statement.
However, parents can't let Dabao touch the second treasure because of the "danger" of Dabao, otherwise Dabao may feel that the second treasure is a baby, and his father does not hurt his mother and does not love.
Just don't let Dabao take the second treasure alone. Mom and Dad can accompany Dabao to take care of Erbao and teach Dabao how to do it. In this way, Dabao can not only learn to take care of The Second Treasure, but also cultivate feelings with the Second Treasure, but also increase the time spent with The Great Treasure and his parents, and enhance the safety awareness of the Great Treasure
In addition, in addition to the danger caused by Dabao's "unintentional", there may also be such a situation: Dabao hates Erbao and deliberately hurts Erbao.
This situation is usually caused by The fact that Dabao feels that Erbao has deprived his parents of his love for himself and has a jealousy of Erbao.
Therefore, we parents, cultivate the brotherhood of Dabao for Erbao, in order to fundamentally make Erbao "safe".
Dabao's attitude towards Erbao,
The key lies in the parents...
After giving birth to the second treasure, the soft and sticky second treasure needs to be taken care of by adults with a lot of energy, and it can also be sweetly arched in the mother's arms to feed, and the big treasure will inevitably feel snubbed, and then hate the second treasure.
Therefore, after having the second treasure, it is necessary to care more about the big treasure and understand the emotions of the big treasure than usual, so that the big treasure can understand that the love of the parents for himself has not been reduced by the arrival of the second treasure.
Especially Mom. In the few days of giving birth to the baby, the mother can not accompany the big treasure, and the mother has to confinement and breastfeed after giving birth to the baby, the original energy is limited, the care of the big treasure will be suddenly reduced, and some parents directly throw the big treasure to the grandparents in order to save trouble.
At this time, Dabao's mood fluctuated greatly, and he would even be hostile to Erbao because of this, laying hidden dangers for future relationships.
Therefore, when the mother really can't take care of Dabao, you can increase the accompaniment of dad to Dabao, if you can, let Dabao and mom contact as soon as possible.
Then, it is also necessary to cultivate the feelings between the big treasure and the second treasure. You can cultivate Dabao's sense of responsibility for Erbao, and parents emphasize more "brother/sister likes you and needs you" to stimulate Dabao's sense of responsibility for Erbao, rather than simply saying "You want to let your younger brothers and sisters", which will only oppose the two children.
Dabao's care for Erbao should be from the heart of brotherhood, not just because he is the boss.
After having the second treasure, parents must not use rough methods to force the big treasure to love the second treasure and take care of the second treasure, which will only make the child oppose.
If Dabao is enthusiastic about taking care of Erbao, parents can teach Dabao how to do it, but don't let Dabao take care of it alone, because he/she is still a baby.
Under the patient guidance of parents, Dabao is not the "biggest danger", but the most gentle and loving little brother and sister.
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